Ndayamba zolaula ndili m'kalasi la 6th koma sizinakhalepo vuto mpaka ndinali 14. Apa ndipamene ndinayamba kuseweretsa maliseche kangapo tsiku lililonse.
Zitha kukhala chizolowezi ndikadzuka, ndikabwerera kunyumba kuchokera kusukulu, ndisanagone, kapena nthawi iliyonse yomwe sindinkafuna kuthana ndi vuto lomwe ndinali nalo. Nditayamba sukulu yasekondale, sindinkadziwa aliyense ndipo sindinkagwirizana ndi aliyense. Izi zidandipangitsa kuti ndikhale ndi chaka choyipa ndipo ndimadziimba mlandu ndikudziseweretsa maliseche posafuna kucheza. Ndinkawoneka ngati atsikana ngati kuti anali chinthu chosilira ndipo ndinali wamanyazi kwambiri kuti ndingalankhule ndi aliyense. Sindinakhalepo ndi chibwenzi, ndinapsompsona koyamba.
Ndakhala ndi abwenzi achikazi, koma sindinakhale wolimba mtima kufunsa aliyense wa iwo ngakhale atakhala otsimikizika inde kuchokera kwa iwo. Nditafika chaka chachiwiri, ndidadziuza kuti ndipanga masinthidwe akulu m'moyo wanga ndipo zinthu zandiyendera bwino. Poyambirira, palibe chomwe chidasinthiratu koma ndimafuna kudzipangira zinthu bwino. Ndinali ndi anzanga ochepa omwe ndinali nawo kale, koma sindinkafuna kudziwika ndi anthu osalidwa.
Ine ndinali nditawerenga za / r / NoFap koma sindinaziganizirepo chifukwa ndichifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kusiya zomwe ndimakonda ndikuyembekezera tsiku lililonse. M'chaka chatsopano ndidazindikira kuti malingaliro anga anali ofanana ndi osokoneza bongo. Amatha kukana kukhulupirira kuti zomwe akuchita zikuwononga moyo wawo kapena ngakhale atavomereza, sangasiye chifukwa zimawapatsa chisangalalo chakanthawi.
Ndinaganiza zopanga zovuta za NoFap kwa ine ndikumva zambiri za zotulukapo zake motero ndidaganiza zokhala chisankho cha Chaka Chatsopano popeza kumapeto kwa chaka. Mwachidziwikire, popeza ndinali ndangomaliza kumene mwezi wathunthu woyamba lero. Ndinali ndi ochepa ambiri amabwerera.
Ulendo wanu wamakilomita chikwi umayamba ndi sitepe imodzi. Mudzagwa pansi ndipo moyo udzakumenyani ndi zonse zomwe zili nanu. Chifukwa choti mulephera sizitanthauza kuti muyenera kusiya. Ndinali ndi malingaliro amenewo pambuyo pake Ndidabwereranso tsiku langa loyamba. Ndikadakhala ndikusiya kunena kuti sizinali zanga, koma sindinatero chifukwa ndimafuna kuti zinthu zikhale bwino ndipo ndimadziwa kuti ndimakonda zolaula. Ndinkafuna kusintha ndikusintha komwe ndalandira.
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Mukadandiuza zakusintha zonse zomwe zingaoneke mu moyo wanga mkati mwa miyezi pafupifupi inayi, sindikadakhulupirira konse.
- Ndili ndi mphamvu zambiri ndipo ndapanga abwenzi ambiri pamwezi. Anauzidwa kuti ndine wochezeka komanso wotsimikiza, zomwe sindinauzidwepo.
- Mmodzi wa anzanga anandiuza kuti ndilowe nawo gulu la tennis. Sindinayambe ndasewera tenisi kapena kulolera ngakhale kuchita nawo masewera ena. Ndinafunitsitsa kusintha moyo wanga ndipo ndidalumikizana naye ndipo ndapeza abwenzi ambiri pa gululi ndipo ndidapanga ngakhale zankhondo zomwe ndi zomwe ndimadabwitsabe.
- Ndakhala ndikuchita bwino kwambiri kusukulu ndipo adalimbikitsidwa Maphunziro Awiri A Advance.
- Kusintha komaliza komwe ndimakondwera nako kwambiri ndikuti ndidayamba kuyankhula kwambiri ndi anzanga azanga okha omwe adasinthira kukhala bwenzi langa lapamtima, kenako pambuyo pake bwenzi langa. Ndinaleka kumuwona ngati chinthu ndipo ndinamulemekeza kwambiri ndipo ndinayamba kumayanjana naye kwambiri ndipo adayamba kubwerera kumbuyo. Lero, ndinakondwerera mwezi wanga umodzi wa nofap ndipo tinacheza lero ndipo ndinalimba mtima kuti ndimupsompsone koyamba.
Tsoka ilo ndikupita mdziko lonselo pantchito ya abambo anga ndipo ndikukhulupirira kuti uwu ukhoza kukhala mwayi woyambiranso maphunziro aku sekondale popeza ndimadzidalira ndipo ndikufuna kusangalala ndi moyo wanga. Sindikudziwa ngati kusintha konseku kudadza chifukwa chosowa maliseche kapena ngati kusinthaku sikukadakhala kotheka ndi zomwe ndidapeza. Ndikukhulupirira ngakhale ndikapitiliza kuchita izi, moyo wanga upitilirabe bwino chifukwa ndili ndi mphamvu zowalamulira.
Komanso ndikungonena kuti awa ndi gulu labwino kwambiri pomwe aliyense akhoza kulowa nawo. Tonse tili m'bwatomo lomwelo tili ndi mavuto akunja ndipo zikadapanda kutero / r / NoFap, Sindikuganiza kuti ndikadakhala ndi izi. Ndiyesetsa kuthandiza ena ndipo wina aliyense azichita zomwe mukuchita.
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