Zaka 16 - Amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena HOCD yokha (zomwe ndimakumana nazo & upangiri kwa HOCDers)

Anthu nthawi zonse amati "ngati mumakopeka ndi anyamata m'moyo weniweni ndiye kuti ndinu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha" "ngati chipinda chochezera chimatsegulira, muli ndi chidwi ndi amuna" ndi zina zambiri…

Nazi zomwe ndakumana nazo…

Ndinayamba kukopeka ndi anyamata. M'moyo weniweni. Nthawi zina ndimapeza anyamata ali okongola ndipo ndimakhala ndimaganizo a iwo. Ndikumapita. AMBIRI AMODZI MU MOYO WABWINO.

Izi zinali pambuyo pa zaka 5.5 za maliseche komanso zolaula. Ndinayamba kuseweretsa maliseche ku 11, ndinachita 2-4 pa tsiku, ndinapita zaka 5 osapitilira maola 12 osapanga kanthu. ndi zolaula pa 12, pafupifupi 13. Azimayi onse. Posakhalitsa, ndinayamba chidwi ndi zolaula zamphongo, zomwe zimamasuliridwa kukhala moyo weniweni. Sindinachitepo chilichonse ndi mnyamata, koma patatha masiku 40 a hardmode nofap ndinataya chidwi ndi anyamata kwathunthu. Pakhala masiku 91 ndipo kuyambira tsiku 40 ndapeza anyamata onyansa monga kale. Tsopano ndili ndi chidwi cha ZERO mwa amuna. Pazenera kapena m'moyo weniweni. Ndinali ndi chidwi ndi amuna masiku 91 apitawo.

Kodi ndichifukwa chiyani anthu amangonena kuti "ndiwe wokonda ngati umakopeka ndi amuna m'moyo weniweni"?

Nayi lingaliro langa. Anthu onse ali ndi mawonekedwe a amuna kapena akazi anzawo, chifukwa chake kugonana kwaumunthu kumatsata mawonekedwe osiyanasiyana.

Kwa ine, ndikuganiza ndine 85% wowongoka komanso 15% gay. Ndinayamba kuseweretsa maliseche ndisanayambe kugonana ndi mwamuna aliyense. Nthawi zonse ndimapeza atsikana miyendo ndi nkhope zawo zili zokongola, koma ndili ndi zaka 13 ndidayamba kukhala ndi chidwi ndi mabere azimayi ndi abulu awo ...

Kuwonera zolaula ndikumakongoletsa ubongo wanu kuti ungakopeke ndi zomwe mudaziwona (zimatengera munthuyo). Ndipo popeza mumakonda zolaula, ubongo wanu umayang'ana zatsopano. Nditakhumbira akazi enieni, ndinayamba kukonda azimayi omwe anali pazenera, kenako ndinayamba kuchita chidwi ndi amuna pazithunzi, zomwe posakhalitsa zidakwera kupita kwa amuna m'moyo weniweni. Sindinakopeke ndi amuna nthawi zambiri, nthawi zambiri ndikadakhala kuti ndimawona mawonekedwe awo pang'ono, koma osakopeka kwenikweni, ndipo mwina kamodzi kapena kawiri pa sabata ndimayamba kuyang'ana munthu wotentha ndikuganiza zoyipa zogonana za iye.

Ndipo patatha masiku a 40, sindinakopeke ndi akazi ndipo ndimanyansidwa ndi amuna. Tsiku 91, ndikumva mahomoni anga ndi ma pheromones ndipo ndimayesedwa kundiuza kuti ndikhale ndi mgwirizano ndi akazi lol. Chifukwa kuyambira tsiku 40 ndikumva 100% molunjika.

Mwinamwake anthu omwe amakopeka ndi amuna zolaula koma osati amuna m'moyo weniweni, mwina ali> 95% molunjika.

M'malingaliro mwanga, sizotheka kukhala oposa 85% gay. Chifukwa mukadakhala kuti, mukadangobadwa ngati msungwana.

Pali amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe amati atha kusintha chifukwa chakuledzera kwa PMO. Tinayamba kupeza atsikana okongola kwambiri m'misewu, ndi zina zambiri ... Chidachitika ndi chiyani atapanga nofap? Anakhalanso amuna okhaokha.

Ngati posachedwapa "mwazindikira kuti ndinu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha" ndipo simukusangalala nazo ndipo mukufuna kuwongoka, ngati mumakonda zolaula komanso maliseche, ndiye kuti mwina muli ngati ine ndipo 85% yowongoka, ndipo mukadzakhala kuyambiransoko mudzabwerera kwathunthu 85% molunjika ndi 15% gay. 85% yolunjika imatanthawuza kuti mumakopeka kwambiri ndi atsikana kuposa anyamata, chifukwa zimangomva kuti simukopeka ndi anyamata. Nditengereni ine, ndakhalako.

Sinthani: Inde ndine wachipembedzo ndipo ndimadana ndi kukhala wamasiye kapena bi. Ayi, sindikumvetsa malingaliro a Mulungu chifukwa chake adapanga amuna kapena akazi okhaokha momwe alili komabe amaletsa maliseche komanso kugonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

Koma ndikuganiza ndili ndi mwayi kuti ndimangokhala gay, kotero kuti pa nofap ndabwerera molunjika.

Sinthani: Ndimamva manyazi nthawi zina kuti sindinapitirire 95% molunjika ngati amuna ambiri. Sindikumva ngati mwamuna weniweni nthawi zina. Koma mukudziwa chiyani? Ndapita masiku 90 osakula kapena kuonera zolaula. Ndi angati, mwa 1 miliyoni owongoka (> 95 owongoka) amuna angaganize zopita masiku 30 opanda chiwonetsero? Ndi amuna angati omwe ali owongoka kuposa 95% omwe adadzipangitsa kukhala olimba mtima mochulukira, owoneka bwino, athanzi komanso athanzi pambuyo pa masiku 10, ndikufunitsitsa kupitiliza kusintha moyo wawo wonse? Ndi angati> 90% amuna owongoka omwe adatembenuka kuchoka kusukulu yoperewera kupita ku kalasi ya A *? Sindikumva ngati kamwana. Sindikumva ngati mfumukazi. Sindikumva ngati sindine mwamuna weniweni. Chifukwa ndikadakhala wopitilira 95% molunjika, sindikadabwera ku nofap. Ndipo sindikadasintha moyo wanga monga ndachitira pano.

Ndikumva bwino. Chifukwa ndaphunzira kutha kudzitcha kuti ndine mwamuna. > Amuna 80% amabadwa nawo. Monga momwe banja lachifumu silipangira ndalama, amapatsidwa. Chabwino ndalandira izi, ndipo ndikumva bwino,

Ndili ndi zaka 16 zokha, ndidzakhala wazaka 17 m'miyezi inayi. Ndikufuna kudikirira mpaka nditakhala ndi 4/20 ndisanapite kukapeza mtsikana, koma anthu okhawo omwe amadziwa izi ndi ine ndi Mulungu, ndipo ndizingouza msungwana wanga wamtsogolo izi. Tsopano ndauza nofap, popeza palibe amene akundidziwa.

LINK - Okonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena ongokhala HOCD (zomwe ndakumana nazo & upangiri kwa ma HOCDers)

by ShahA1