Chifukwa chake anyamata, iyi ndi positi yosonyeza tsiku langa la 90th kukhala wopanda fap. Ngakhale ndapunthwa ku zolaula mosadziwa, komabe sizikhala ndi zotsatirapo, ndikufotokozera chifukwa chake mtsogolo.
Chifukwa chake, popeza sindilemba zambiri, ndiloleni ndizidziwitse. Panopa ndili ndi 16 (ndikupita ku 17) kuyambira lero, ndikuwonera zolaula kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 12. Tsiku lina ndidapunthwa pa NoFap ndikudzifunsa "Chifukwa chiyani?" ndipo ndangoyamba zovuta. Ndinkafunanso kuti ndichepetse kulakwa komwe kumabwera chifukwa chodzikodzera chomwe ndichinthu chinanso chomwe chimapangitsa kuti ndisiye. Tsopano, ndidayamba pa Marichi 1, 2014 ndipo ndaphwanya mzere wanga kawiri, mizere yonse iwiri masiku awiri iliyonse. Pambuyo pake ndinatsimikiza mtima kuti ndisaswe mzere wanga ndipo ndili pano, masiku 2 pambuyo pake.
Zomwe ndidapeza pazochitikazi sizinali zazikulu kwenikweni. Sindinapeze mphamvu zopambana zaumulungu zomwe anzathu ambiri a Fapstronauts ankati zimakwaniritsidwa, sindinapangitse atsikana kudzandizembera, sindinakhale wolimba mtima komanso wachikhalidwe (Ngakhale ndiyenera kuvomereza kuti ndikuyankhula ndi anthu ambiri kuposa kale) ndipo sindinagonepo. Tsopano zinthu zochepa izi sizimandivuta kwenikweni chifukwa ndine 16 ndipo sindimayika anapiye otentha ngati chinthu changa choyambirira (Vuto lalamulo ndi pakati kuphatikiza NoFap zidandithandiza kupeputsa zikhumbo zanga). Zomwe ndidapeza kuchokera apa zinali zina zomwe sizinali mwadala, komabe zopindulitsa. Ndinaphunzira kusatenga akazi ngati chiwerewere. Pamaso pa NoFap ndimaganizira zongokwiyitsa atsikana pasukulu yanga, ndikusinthanitsa akazi ngati kuti ndili ndi kabukhu koti ndisankhepo. Chifukwa chizolowezi changa cholaula chidandipangitsa kuti akazi azikhala nyama. Chiyambireni kuyambitsa vutoli, nthawi zolota zidatheratu ndipo ndimawawona ngati anthu tsopano, chimodzimodzi monga iwe ndi ine. Munthawi yanga ku NoFap, ndidapunthwa pa subreddit yotchedwa theredpill (Reddit.com/ r / deredredill) ndipo ndidapeza kuti sindikugwirizana ndi njira zawo zopusitsira amayi kuti agonane ndipo ndidasiya kuyendera chimbudzi kuyambira pamenepo. Ndikufuna kuthokoza kwambiri NoFap chifukwa cha izi chifukwa ndimawopa kuti ndikapanda kuzindikira izi, nditha kutengera malingaliro awo ndikupanga zinthu zomwe zimandibweretsera mavuto.
Kwa a Fapstronauts anzanga omwe akukumana ndi ine vuto lomwelo, ndikukufunirani zabwino zonse. Ziribe kanthu kuti mwayambitsa vuto lotani, kukhala akumwa otentha, kapena kukonza vuto la PIED lomwe mwakhala nalo kwa zaka zambiri, mutha kukhala otsimikiza kuti anthu zana limodzi ndi zisanu ndi ziwirizi (monga lero) agawana nanu katunduyu ndipo tonse tikufuna kukwaniritsa cholinga chimodzi chofunikira: Kuletsa kusefa moyo (ndikuganiza kuti tasiya moyo wathu wonse). Musataye chikhulupiriro mwa inu nokha ndikupitabe patsogolo!
LINK - Zikumveka mopitirira muyeso koma ma Fapstronauts, masiku a 90!
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