Ndidamaliza pa Meyi 2 ya 2016, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti kwakhala chaka chimodzi ndi masiku asanu ndi limodzi kuyambira pomwe ndidayamba izi 🙂 Ichi ndi chinthu chomwe ndakhala ndikutanthauza kuti ndilembe, ndimafuna ndikulemba izi pa 2nd momwe zikanakhalira khalani enieni chaka chimodzi, koma o chabwino.
Chinthu chimodzi ndikufuna kutchula poyamba, ndikuwona nkhani zambiri zokongoletsedwa pagawoli. Tonse taziwonapo, "ndi tsiku la 10 ndipo ndili ndi makina osagwedezeka, opambana, odzazidwa ndi testosterone ndipo atsikana ali pa ine !!". Osati kuti izi sizichitika, koma nthawi zambiri nkhanizi zimalimbikitsidwa. Zina zomasulira zokongola komanso kudzikweza zimatha kupita kutali.
Tsopano, zomwe ndiyesera ndikupanga pano ndikupatsirani lipoti losonyeza momwe moyo wanga wandikhudzira, komanso momwe zandithandizira kukhala moyo wabwino.
Nthano yakumbuyo: gawo lotsiriza la moyo wanga lomwe ndimachita PMO pafupipafupi linali chakumapeto kwa Januware 2016. Panthawiyi, ngakhale sindinali wokhumudwa kwambiri, ndimadzimva kuti ndine wopanda manyazi, wosatetezeka, mwina ngakhale pang'ono ndikuchita manyazi ndekha; Ndi mwana wanu wamanyazi wamba. Ndinkatha kukambirana bwino ndi abwenzi anga apamtima, koma nthawi zambiri ndimangotseka ndikumakhala ndekha pafupi ndi alendo, makamaka atsikana. Pamene ndinkalankhula ndi anthu omwe sindinali omasuka kucheza nawo, anali okongola komanso ovuta.
Ponena za PMO m'moyo wanga, ndimayamba kukhala wopusa kwambiri. Kukoka tsamba lachiwerewere kapena subreddit (gehena, nthawi zina ngakhale / b / amatha kuchita!) Chinali chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe ndimakonda patsikuli, ndipo zinthu zomwe ndidatuluka kuti ndizisokoneze kwambiri. Nthawi ina, kuvomerezeka kwa zonsezi kukayikitsa. Simukufuna kudziwa.
Ndikhulupilira ndikadapanda kuzindikira zizolowezi zanga pakadali pano ndikadakhala kuti ndimalandiratu zolaula. Mwamwayi ndinazindikira kuti palibe vuto.
Zonsezi zinayamba ngati nthabwala, ndinati ndingachite mwezi umodzi nofap. Zachidziwikire kuti patatha masiku ovuta a 5 (pun akufuna) ndidabwerera ku PMO. Kugwiritsa ntchito makompyuta, tsamba lililonse lolaula ndimalakalaka, ndipo mathalauza amakoka mosiyana kwambiri, ndipo ndidapita. Koma zinali zosiyana, nthawi ino zimamveka ngati zolakwika, kuposa momwe zidalili kale. Ndinazindikira kuti ndinali ndi kukoma kwa momwe zimamvekera kukhala ndi mphamvu zowonjezerazo, ndikulimba mtima kwambiri, komanso ngati munthu aliyense woganiza bwino ndimafuna zambiri.
Pambuyo pake, ndimapitilizabe kupitiliza kutalika, ndikutsimikiza kufikira masiku 90. Oyamba masiku asanu, kenako masiku 5, kenako masiku 14…. Ndinaganiza kuti nofap ndi ya ma suckers ndipo ndimangokhalira kuseweretsa maliseche ndimaganizo omveka, kungoti ndimvere. Kusinkhasinkha kwamtundu wina, koma kusisita turgid yanu mwakachetechete nthawi yomweyo. Zachidziwikire kuti mumazichita kamodzi pamasabata awiri, koma izi zidasandulika kamodzi pa sabata, zomwe zidasandulika kawiri pamlungu ndi malingaliro, ndipo zidasandulika 36x sabata limodzi ndikulakalaka kwamphamvu. Pa 4nd ya Meyi 2 ndinali ndi fap imodzi, yamphamvu kwambiri, yamphamvu kwambiri, ndimalingaliro oluluzika oterowo omwe amadutsa m'maganizo mwanga, mpaka ndidadwala. Sindinaganizenso izi, ndikupita masiku 2016 oyenera.
Masiku a 90 adasandulika masiku a 180, ndipo zidasandulika china chilichonse chomwe gehena ili. Chithunzithunzi changa chikuyenera kuwonetsera ngati chikugwiradi ntchito tsopano.
Pakadali pano mungakhale mukuganiza kuti "Iyi ndi nkhani yosangalatsa yomwe sinangosanduka mphekesera yopanda tanthauzo lokhazika mtima pansi moyo wanu ndiye kuti zinyalala za munthu zimakukhudzani bwanji?"
Funso lalikulu! Anthu ambiri kuphatikiza ine amawoneka kuti ali ndi malingaliro abwino zakutchire momwe zidzakhalire akayamba kupewa PMO. Chowonadi timakonda kukhala ndi ziyembekezo zosatheka, zomwe nthawi zambiri sizimakwaniritsidwa (ndikadali wolakwa pa izi). Chowonadi ndichakuti, mosiyana ndi zomwe ambiri amakhulupirira, nofap sichimakusandulizani kukhala wamanyazi, kukhala 10/10 pussy kudya makina, ndizabwino.
Anthu ena amayamba nofap chifukwa amafuna chibwenzi, kapena akufuna kuyikidwa. Imeneyi ndi njira yolakwika: kusiya PMO ndichinthu chomwe mumadzichitira nokha, osati wina aliyense. Zonsezi zimakhudzidwa ndi amayi, ngati sizomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha kutupa kwanu (zomwe sizachilendo, timakonda kudziona tokha tikataya chizolowezi chowononga ngati PMO) ndichifukwa choti ndinu osangalala. Mwina simungazindikire, koma mukumwetulira zowonjezerazo, ndikuyenda motalikirapo, ndikulonjera anthu ndi oomph yochulukirapo. Ndipo zimabwezeredwa. Monga mtundu wamagulu, timabwezera zomwe timawona kuchokera kwa ena. Zimakhala zovuta kuti musanene kapena kumwetulira winawake akakuchitirani.
Ndiye, zandikhudza bwanji?
Chabwino, sindinapeze chibwenzi, ndipo sindinagonepo, koma chodabwitsa ndichakuti izi sizinthu zofunikira pa nofap. Gahena, siali gawo la nofap konse. Tidapangidwa mwachilengedwe kuti tithandizane ndikupanga makope athu atsopano, aliyense atha kuchita izi atapatsidwa nthawi komanso nthawi yoyenera.
Zomwe zidasinthidwa, komabe, ndi mphamvu, chisangalalo, chidaliro, ndipo sichidziwikiranso za brainfog, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ndili ndi malingaliro owoneka bwino. Zinthu zazing'ono monga kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino zimatha kusintha kusiyana momwe mumamverera.
Ubale wanga ndi anthu wasintha kwambiri, ndipo ndimatha kukhala bwino ndi anzanga komanso anthu omwe sindikuwadziwa. Zina mwazomwe zinali zovuta kuchita ndizabwino kwambiri pakadali pano, ndipo zinthu zomwe ndimayesetsa kuzipewa nthawi zina ndizo zomwe ndimachita. Ndakhala ndi chizoloŵezi chonena kuti inde ndikaitanidwa ku chinthu china. Itha kuyamwa, itha kukhalanso mwayi wokumana ndi anthu atsopano ndikusangalala, kapena kungokhala ndi anthu omwe mumawakhulupirira komanso kusangalala kucheza nawo
Ponena za mphamvu ndi chilimbikitso, zasintha moyenera. Ndine wofunitsitsa kwambiri kuphunzira, ndipo ndimamvanso ngati ndimatha kugona bwino tsopano, koma sindingathe kufotokoza chifukwa chake.
Zachidziwikire kuti ndidakali wamanyazi, komanso wopepuka, komanso wopanda chitetezo. Koma zinthu izi sizimatha konse, zimangowonongeka pang'onopang'ono, koma sizimasowa. Izi ndi zabwino basi. Kupatula apo palibe chisangalalo popanda kuwawa. Kuwala kukuwala kwambiri mumdima, ndipo zonsezi.
Komabe, ndikutaya zinthu zoti ndinene, ndipo ndakhala ndikulemba izi tsopano kwa ola limodzi ngati sichinapitirire, ndiye ndikumaliza apa. Ngati muli ndi mafunso kapena zoneneza chonde musiyeni mu ulusiwu, ndingakonde kuwawona 🙂
Ndine 17.
LINK - Lipoti la chaka chimodzi
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