Sindingayembekezere kuti anthu ambiri awone izi, koma kwa anthu omwe amachita, ndikufuna kuyamba ndikukufunirani zabwino zonse. Ndili ndi zaka 17, ndidayamba nofap mu Disembala la 2014 pafupifupi zaka 2.5 zapitazo. Ndikugawana positi iyi m'nthawi m'moyo wanga, motero ndizosavuta.
- Zaka 2.5 zapitazo (kalasi 10), ndimayang'ana zolaula pafupipafupi (katatu patsiku) ndipo moyo wanga unali kuwonongeka. Zizindikiro zanga zinali kuvutika, atsikana sanandikonde (ndinali ndi ndevu zoyipa komanso afro). Vuto lalikulu linali loti sindinazindikire kuti zolaula zimayambitsa izi, mpaka nditawona nofap. Nditawerenga zolemba, nthawi yomweyo ndimaganiza kuti nofap ithetsa kusungulumwa kwanga ndikupeza chibwenzi. Chifukwa chake ndidadzipereka. Mtsinje wanga woyamba unali masiku anayi, koma nthawi yopuma yozizira imatha masiku 3-1. Ndinakhala masiku atatu mpaka February 2. Ndimakumbukira zowawa zambiri, ndinali wosungulumwa komanso wosalimba - ndinazunzidwa pang'ono panthawiyi. Kenako ndidalimbitsa pang'onopang'ono mphamvu - ndidagunda sabata, kenako ndimagunda miyezi iwiri ndipo zidanditengera mpaka Juni. Munthawi imeneyi, ndidaphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito chipinda changa kugona basi. Ndinachotsanso facebook yanga ndikupewa ma youtube kuti ndipewe zoyambitsa.
- Gawo 2: Ndinapita kumsasa wachilimwe usiku wonse. Izi zidandithandizira kukhala ndi chidaliro popeza ndidazindikira kuti anthu akhoza kundikonda ndi kundilandira (kunja kwa makolo anga). Ndinalowa mchaka cha 11 cha sukulu ndikudzidalira. Mu Seputembala, ndidaganiza kuti ndikufuna kupita kusukulu yotchedwa Northwestern. Sindingachite china chilichonse kupatula kuphunzira - Kudzuka 4:00 AM ndikungoyang'ana ntchito mpaka 10:00 PM) Pokhala pulogalamu yovuta kwambiri yotchedwa IB, ndidasokoneza mayeso anga ambiri ndi mafunso - ndipo izi zidapangitsa kudzikayikira kwambiri. Maphunziro anga awiri oyipitsitsa anali Econ ndi French. Ndipo Mpaka Meyi ndidapitilizabe ndandanda yanga - ndinali ndi zifukwa zambiri. Ndidalemba mayeso mu Meyi ndipo ndidatenthedwa - sindinkafunanso kuphunzira. Ndidachita nofap pafupifupi miyezi 10 munthawi imeneyi (Seputembala mpaka Juni). Chifukwa cha nofap, ndinali ndi chidwi chochuluka. Ndaphunzira kuti cholinga chimapangitsa nofap kukhala yosavuta kwambiri.
- Gawo 3: Gawo 12. Ndidachita miyezi ya 6 kenako miyezi ya 3 (ndidasweka pa tchuthi cha XD yotentha).
- TL; DR: Nofap imapangidwa bwino ndi cholinga - sankhani cholinga chomwe mukufuna (china chomwe mungapereke chilichonse) ndikuchikwaniritsa. Dzikhulupirireni - aliyense atha kupita miyezi 10. Ndimakukondani nonse - gulu labwino la nofap komanso mwayi wabwino.
LINK - Ngati ndingathe, inunso mutha kutero: Nkhani yopambana yomwe siyimakhudzanso atsikana.
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