Zaka 20 - Zachiritsidwa patatha zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri zakuchedwa kutulutsidwa

Tandimverani. Nofap adagwira ntchito yanga yayikulu. Tsatirani. Osapitirira. Sambani nthawi zonse. Ndakhala ndikulimbana ndi DE kwazaka 7… ZAKA ZISANU NDI ZIWIRI. Zidawononga chidaliro changa, misala yanga, ndipo zidatsala pang'ono kuwononga ubale wanga.

Ndayesa chiphunzitsochi nthawi 10+. Nthawi iliyonse ndikakhala ndi vuto la nofap ndikugonana, ndimamaliza. Nthawi iliyonse ndikachoka pagalimoto, sindingathe kutulutsa wina aliyense kukhudza koma yanga. Ndimakana kukhala motero.

Pambuyo pokhala ndi chiwerewere changwiro usiku uno (ndikumaliza), ndikutha kunena motsimikiza kuti sindidzabwereranso. Izi ndi izi. Chilichonse chinali changwiro usikuuno ndipo ndikudziwa chifukwa cha nofap. Ndidayenda bwino tsiku lonse lomwe lidatitsogolera mpaka pomwe ndidakwanitsa kutsatira mwathupi. Iye anali wokhutitsidwa. Ndinakhutitsidwa. Tikumacheza sabata ino.

Ngati mukulimbana ndi DE ndipo muli pa subreddit iyi, mwina ndi zotsatira zoyipa zakukula kwambiri. Ndikhulupirire. Ndakhala ndikulimbana ndi vuto ili kwanthawi yayitali. Ngati mukuvutika ndi DE ndipo mukufuna kuchira, tsatirani njira izi.

  1. Osadutsa. Chifukwa chomwe simukutha kumaliza ndi chifukwa chakuti mulibe chiyembekezo. Kusintha sikuthandiza izi. Mutha kukhazikitsanso baji yanu nthawi iliyonse mukamatha chifukwa mukukulitsa matenda anu komanso kusokonekera kwanu.
  2. Osamenyetsa bishopu. Osatsamwitsa nkhuku. Osasintha. Ili ndiye vuto lonse. Ichi ndichifukwa chake mukuyang'ana mayankho, Neo. Ichi ndichifukwa chake mwakhala moyo wanu wonse mukundifunafuna. Ikani dick wanu pansi kuti achiritse. Mukakonzeka, mulole mkazi azigwire. Mudzakhala okondwa kuti munatero.
  3. Uyu atha kukhala ngati kunja uko, koma ndimakhulupirira zolimba. Sambani nthawi zonse. Sungani malo anu oyera. Mukumva kukhala wathanzi pansipa, zomwe zingakuthandizeni.
  4. Osaganizira kwambiri. Ndikudziwa kuti ndizovuta kwambiri. Monga munthu yemwe adalimbana ndi izi, ndikudziwa. Mukadzapanga chingwe cha nofap, izi zimakhala zosavuta ngakhale. Mukakhala ndi chidwi ndi kukhudza kwazimayi, zidzakhala zosavuta kutayika munthawiyo. Ingomvererani.
  5. Osayang'ana zolaula. Mudzadziwononga nokha m'maganizo. Dziko lenileni ndiye malo okha omwe muyenera kukhalapo ngati mukumenya nkhondoyi. Ndi anthu onga ife, sitingathe kuyang'ana zolaula. Zimatilepheretsa kugwira ntchito.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zimathandiza winawake. DE ndi yachilendo. Palibe zolemba zambiri za izo, koma zidandigawanitsa. Ngati pali wina aliyense kunja uko amene akulimbana nazo - simuli nokha. Ndinalibe aliyense wondithandiza. Ndidazindikira izi ndekha, ndikuziyika ndikuziwona kuti ndizothandiza.

NoFap ndiye mwayi wanu wogwira ntchito moyenera. Ndinachira. Ndakhala ndikudzikhudzira kuyambira ndili ndi zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri. Ndine 20. NoFap inali mankhwala kwa ine. Chifukwa chake chonde tengani upangiri wanga, osadzipweteka nokha, ndipo dziperekeni.

Khalani olimba mtima ndipo musathere. ndicho chinthu choyipitsitsa chomwe mungachite.

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