Ndine 20, wamwamuna, ndipo ndakhala ndikulimbana ndi maliseche komanso zolaula kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 10. Imeneyi inali njira yanga yolimbanirana ndi malingaliro okhumudwa omwe ndidakulira m'banja losavomerezeka. Kwa nthawi yonse yomwe ndakhala ndikuchita nofap, ndakhala ndikudzifunsa ngati ndadodometsa kukula kwa malingaliro anga ndili mwana.
Pomwe ndili ndi vuto lalikulu ndili ndi zizindikilo zomwe zimamveka ngati Asperger, zomwe zimandiwopsa. Komanso ndakhala ndikuuzidwa pafupipafupi kuti ndimasintha kwambiri, kuti ndimatha kuchoka pamunthu wina kupita ku wina (makamaka ndikabwereranso, simukakhala pa mzere wabwino).
Kuwerenga izi mutha kukhala wokhumudwa, koma pali nkhani yabwino. Ndikukhulupirira ndi mtima wonse kuti zomwe ndaphunzira ndili pa nofap zakhalabe nane ngakhale nditayambiranso. Chilichonse chothandiza ndi chilichonse chomwe ndaphunzira sichidapitirire kulingalira, nkhawa, komanso kukhumudwa.
Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndimakhulupirira kuti ulendo wa wachinyamata ndi wamkulu ndi wosiyana kwambiri (ndipo mwina umakhala wovuta kwambiri). Ngati mumakonda kuseweretsa mwana ndipo mukuyesetsa kuthana ndi vuto ili, khalani pomwepo! Muyenera kuthana ndi zinthu ziwiri: zizindikiro zolaula komanso ng'ombe yomwe ikupita patsogolo.
Ndakhala ndikuyesera nofap kwa zaka 2.5 ndipo moyo wanga wasintha. Kutsata kulumikizana kwabwino ndi atsikana, kutha kucheza ndi kupanga abwenzi, komanso wabwino kwambiri, kukhala ndi chidwi chodzuka pabedi. Ndachita masiku onse a 90 ndipo pamapeto pake zonse ndadziwona ndasandulika munthu wosiyana kotheratu komanso wodabwitsa.
Yembekezerani kuti mudzabwerere ndi kubwerera komwe mudali, koma bola mukazindikira komwe mukufuna kukhala, mudzayambiranso. Masiku 10 pakadali pano ndikupita kwa ena 90, abale abwino!
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