Hei anyamata, ndine wophunzira wazaka 20 wazaka, ndipo iyi ndi nkhani yanga.
Zomwe ndaphunzira
Mwiniwake, sizinali ngakhale za kukula pambuyo pa masiku 30. Zinali pafupi kukhala wabwinoko kwa ine. Zachidziwikire kuti ndidazindikira kuti kuchepa kunali kundilepheretsa mwanjira imeneyi, koma chonsecho, ndimangofuna kukhala ndi moyo mokwanira. Kukula chinali chiyambi chabe, ndipo nditaphunzira momwe ndingagonjetsere, palibe chomwe chingandiletse. Ndikudziwa kuti ndikukhala munthawi yabwino kwambiri pamoyo wanga ndipo zonse zomwe ndingathe kuchita ndikukwera. Ndikumva kuti ndili pamwamba padziko lapansi ndipo monga moyo wanga ulinganizidwa. Zidutswa zonse zikugwa limodzi ndipo zimakhala bwino!
Nthawi
1-14: Mphamvu Zabodza Patatha pafupifupi sabata imodzi, ndinamva ngati ndili ndi mphamvu zonse zazikulu zomwe anthu ankadzitama nazo zomwe mwina zonse zinali m'mutu mwanga. Koma ngakhale zili choncho, sindinamvepo kuti ndili ndi moyo kuposa pamenepo.
15-30: Kusintha Apa ndi pamene ndinayamba kuzindikira kuti "mphamvu zabodza" izi sizinalipo kwenikweni, motero zinayamba kutha. Kwenikweni, ndinali kungosintha moyo wanga watsopano. Chakumapeto kwa gawoli ndi pamene ndinayamba kusamba ndi kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi usiku uliwonse.
31-45: Kulimbana ndi Vutoli Mwina gawo ili linali lovuta kwambiri kwa ine. Chilichonse chozungulira ine chinali kugonana ndipo chomwe ndinkangoganizira chinali kugonana. Ndinkada nkhawa kuti sindidzabwereranso kugonana zomwe zinandichititsa mantha ndipo zinandipangitsa kuti ndibwererenso. Komabe, apa ndi pamene ndinapeza mtsikanayu. Sitinawonjezerepo chinthu koma tinatumizirana mameseji ambiri ndipo pamapeto pake anabwera kudzandichezera ndikundipatsa chibwano. Ndingonenapo kanthu. Sindinatulutsepo katundu waukulu chonchi ndipo ndimamva bwino chonchi. Kwenikweni izi zinayikidwa mu mode yofewa, ndipo zinathandiza kwambiri zilakolako zanga zambiri.
46-60: Kugona pansi Ndipo apa panali kugona pansi koopsa. Ndikudziwa kuti nthawi yayitali ndimadzuka ndi matabwa am'mawa ndipo sindinapeze zokopa za atsikana. Kunena zoona, zinali zabwino kwambiri. Iyi inali gawo losavuta kwa ine chifukwa sindinkayenera kuda nkhawa ndi chilichonse. Choncho khalani ndi chiyembekezo anyamata! Sizoipa kwambiri.
60-90: Moyo Wanga Watsopano Apa ndi pomwe zinthu zinayamba kuyenda bwino. Ndinapeza anthu ambiri okongola, koma osati m'njira yogonana. Ndinkangofuna kuwadziwa chifukwa zinandipangitsa kukhala wokondwa kuwayang'ana ndikukhala nawo. Ndipo ndinali ndi kulimba mtima kwambiri!! Sindinamve ngati mphamvu iliyonse yamisala yayamba kukhalapo, koma ndikadziyerekeza tsopano ndi ndisanayambe kugwiritsa ntchito nofap, nditha kuwona kusiyana. Tsopano ndili ndi chibwenzi (osati mtsikana wakale), ndimasewera ultimate Frisbee sabata iliyonse, ndipo ndikuchita bwino kwambiri kusukulu.
91+: Kupita Kumbuyo Ndipo tsopano tabwerera ku nthawi ino. Ndikumva bwino, ngakhale nthawi zina chilakolako chimabwerabe. Komabe, mwamwayi ndili ndi kudziletsa kokwanira kotero kuti sindili ndi vuto nazo. Moyo wanga uli bwino kwambiri tsopano ndipo ndikukuthokozani nonse.
TL: DR
Khalani mmenemo kwa nthawi yayitali, zikhala zofunikira. Mukakumana ndi zovuta zambiri, koma mukapitilira, simukhala ndi nthawi yambiri yopumula, mudzakhala bwino. Chifukwa chake tengani mwayi uwu ndikuuluka.
Komanso, ngati muli ndi mafunso, ndiyesa kuyankha mwachangu komanso molondola momwe ndingathere 🙂
UTHENGA - Chifukwa chake ndazindikira kuti ndachedwa pang'ono pa zosintha zanga za masiku 90..
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