Papita kanthawi kuchokera pomwe ndakhala ndikupita ku subreddit iyi tsopano. Ndizopusa kuganiza kuti ndidazichita. Sindingakuuzeni anyamata kangati pomwe ndidabwereranso zaka ~ 2 zomwe ndimayesera kumaliza NoFap, amatcha ndikovuta kwambiri pazifukwa. Ndidasinthiratu subreddit iyi chifukwa idakhala yochulukira kumangomva za izi, zomwe zidangondipangitsa kukhala zovuta kwambiri kwa ine, osanenapo za kuseweretsa maliseche za zabwino zomwe mumalandira.
Nkhani yakumbuyo kwanga, ndinali munthu wamba wamba amene ndimaganiza kuti zolaula sizinali vuto lalikulu. Ndikhoza kugwiritsa ntchito 3-4 nthawi pa sabata, sizinkawoneka ngati chinthu chachikulu panthawiyo. Ndikutanthauza kuti zinali ponseponse kuti anyamata onse amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Komabe, tsiku lina ndinapeza NoFap ndipo nditamva maakaunti a anthu omwe adaimaliza, ndinayenera kuyesa.
Ndinabwerezabwereza kangapo, koma pamapeto pake ndinathetsa vutoli. Sindingalole kuti zindiyendere bwino. Ndinaphunzira zambiri za ine ndekha komanso zachiwerewere ndimayesetsa.
Ndiye deathlux? Kodi mumalandira zapamwamba? - Osati kwenikweni. Ubwino womwe mumapeza kudzera ku NoFap ndiwambiri komanso wodabwitsa, koma mawu oti mphamvu zazikuluzikulu ndizokokomeza. Chodziwika kwambiri kwa ine chinali chidziwitso, chinali chozama kwambiri. Mwinanso milungu itatu ya 3 nditha kuzilandira, zinali ngati kuti chifunga ichi chidachotsedwa, muyenera kuchiwona kuti mukhulupirire. Mphamvu ina yamphamvu kwambiri "m'malingaliro mwanga, inali yolimbikitsira kuti zitheke. Ndikukumbukira nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndimapita kukawombera ndipo ndinadzipeza ndekha ndikuwerenga, kusewera gitala ndi piyano, sichinali china.
Chofunika kwambiri:
- Pitilizani, ndinabwereranso kangapo koma sindinalole kuti ndilephere.
- Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi yowonjezera yomwe muli nayo kuti mudzitukutse ndikukhala munthu yemwe mukufuna kukhala.
- Musagwiritse ntchito zolaula kachiwiri, ndi vuto.
Chinthu chotsiriza chomwe ndikufuna kuwonjezera ndi zolaula zokha. Nditamaliza vutoli, zikuwoneka ngati zachilendo kwa ine kuti anthu, makamaka anyamata, sachita nawo zolaula. Ndizosadabwitsa kuti kuwonongeka komwe kumakuchitirani, makamaka pamalingaliro anu. Ndikuganiza kuti ndi zomwe zanenedwa m'mawu omwe ndidamvapo kale kuti: "Sikuti zolaula ndi zoipa, koma ndizabwino kwa inu."
Kumbukirani mawu anzeru a Winston Churchill, ngati mukupita ku gehena, pitirizani.
Zokhumba zabwino, ngati muli ndi mafunso, omasuka kufunsa.
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