Oo. Sindikukhulupirira kuti ndidachita izi. 180k ndi zambiri. Ndizochepa pang'ono kuposa Harry Potter 4, kungokupatsani lingaliro. Zachidziwikire, ndiyenera kukonza kwambiri tsopano, koma ndapanga china chake ndi mawu osavuta.
Ndikuganiza makamaka chifukwa cha NoFap. Zachidziwikire, ndimalembanso nkhani zazifupi ndisanayambe izi mu Nov 2013, ndipo ndili ndi pulojekiti yolemekezeka kwambiri yomwe ndikonzekera kugwira ntchito mzaka zochepa ndikadzatha. Koma ndi NoFap, ndidalemba zambiri kuposa zosangalatsa. Kuwerenga chaka chonse kuti ndikalowe pasukulu yopanga utolankhani yabwino kwambiri mdziko langa, kulemba kunali kuwala, kamphepo kayaziyazi, nditakhala mu lesitilanti ndi kapu ya khofi ndi buledi. Unali chisangalalo. Ndidalemba nkhani zochulukirapo, kufikira nditakhala ndi lingaliro lomwe lidandilimbikitsa bukuli.
Zachidziwikire, siyinali njira yothanirana ndi zolaula, ndipo ndidabwereranso nthawi yayitali kuyambira theka la Juni, koma zidandibwezera phazi langa mwachangu kwambiri. Ndinalira ndikumapha anthu otchulidwa, kuseka nthabwala zomwe ndidayikamo, ndinkanjenjemera panthawi yamaphunziro, ndikumamvera nthawi zonse masewera a kanema OST omwe amandiyenera bwino. Zinandipangitsa kumva kuti ndili moyo. Pafupifupi 2 mpaka 4 maola patsiku. Nthawi yamtengo wapatali yomwe ndikadagwiritsa ntchito ma pixels amaliseche, m'moyo wapitawo.
Sindikudziwa ngati angamasuliridwe mchingerezi kapena zilankhulo zina, ngati agulitsa zabwino, kapena ngati angavomereze wofalitsa. Sindinalembe izi kuti ndichuma, kutchuka, kapena kudzitamandira. Ndalemba izi chifukwa ndimakonda kulemba. Zolaula zilizonse zitha kundipezera dopamine yochuluka ngati iyi. Moyo ndi waukulu kwambiri kuti sungagwiritsidwe ntchito pamaso pa chinsalu ndi buluku lanu pansi. Nonse muli ndi kuthekera kwakukulu komwe mungagwiritse ntchito pazinthu zomwe mumakonda.
O, ndikuwonjezera pa nkhani yopambana: Ndikuyamba sukulu m'masiku ochepa. Inde, ndili ndi ntchito yambiri koma koposa zonse mwayi, ndalandiridwa pakati pa anthu + 600. Apanso, NoFap siyachilendo podzipereka kwanga.
LINK - Ndalemba buku la mawu a 180 000 m'miyezi itatu!
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ZOCHITIKA - Ndili ndi nyenyezi yanga yoyamba m'miyezi 19! Osataya mtima, nayi nkhani yanga yopambana
Eya, pamapeto pake ndidafika pamenepo ndipo zimamveka zodabwitsa! Kwa chaka chimodzi ndi theka, ndimatha kupita masiku 20 max, kenako masiku 25, ndipo miyezi ingapo yapitayo ndidabwereranso tsiku la 28. Sabata yachinayi ija imandipeza nthawi iliyonse… kupatula pano! Chinsinsi chokwaniritsira zolinga zanu ndikuti, musayambe, kuyesayesa konse, chifukwa "kulephera" kamodzi, ndidaphunzira momwe zimagwirira ntchito, ndidaphunzira momwe ubongo wanga umagwirira ntchito.
Komanso, ndikuuzeni china chake: simuyenera kukhala ndi masiku 50+ kuti mukwaniritse zinthu. NoFap ndi mkhalidwe wamaganizidwe, womwe umachita bwino ngati mungasinthe zizolowezi zanu. Koma mukabwereranso, simutaya zizolowezizi, zimakhala gawo lanu. Ndinkakonda kulemba nkhani zazifupi pamaso pa NoFap, koma sizinali zachilendo. Tsopano ndidatenga habbit kuti ndilembe zambiri, ndipo sikuti ndidangosintha, koma ndikuzindikiranso kuti kulemba ndikulakalaka komwe ndimakonda kwambiri, ndipo ndimasankha kulemba masewera amakanema kapena zolaula nthawi iliyonse. Chilimwe chatha ndidalemba ngakhale mawu a 200 000 omwe ndikonzekera kutumiza mkonzi! Pamaso pa NoFap, ndimaganiza kuti "Ma Novel ndi aatali kwambiri, tiyeni timatire nkhani zazifupi". Maganizo anga onse anasintha.
Izi zimandibweretsa ku gawo lachiwiri la nkhani yanga yopambana. Chaka chatha, ndidagwira ntchito molimbika kuti ndikalowe nawo sukulu yabwino kwambiri yolemba utolankhani mdziko langa. Kwa miyezi 6, ndimagwira maola 4 patsiku, kenako 5, kenako 6, kenako 7… Ndinkakonda kukhala waulesi kwambiri, ndimangochita zochepa kuti ndipeze magiredi abwino komanso ndimathera nthawi yanga yonse pamasewera apakanema, ndipo apa ine ndinali, kugwira ntchito maola 12 tsiku limodzi ndikugona ndikumwetulira pankhope panga. Ndidakhomera mayeso olembedwa ndipo ndidachita bwino pakamwa, koma sikokwanira. Pomaliza, ndidapulumutsidwa ndi mwayi wambiri. Winawake adachoka ndipo ine ndinali wotsatira mzere. Mwinamwake ndapeza mwayi uwu, komabe, popanda NoFap, sindikanakhala ndikugwira ntchito mokwanira kuti ndikhale wapamwamba. Tsopano chaka choyamba cha sukuluyi chatha ndipo ngakhale ndili m'modzi mwa achichepere kwambiri pano, ndazindikira kuti ndidachita bwino ngati enawo.
Kodi maulamuliro apamwamba ndi enieni? Sindikudziwa. Ndine namwali wazaka 22, sindinakhalepo ndi bwenzi, ndipo mpaka nditayesa NoFap chinthu chonsechi chinali cholemetsa kwa ine. Tsopano sindikusamala, sindikumva kuti ndili ndiudindo wopeza mtsikana mwachangu momwe ndingathere. Koma ndidazindikira kusiyanasiyana ndi NoFap: Ndikudziwa motsimikiza kuti mtsikana waku Asia mkalasi mwanga ali mwa ine, ndipo ngakhale ali wokongola, sindikuganiza zokopa chifukwa sindimukonda ndipo sindikufuna ndimasewera ndi malingaliro ake pazakugonana… ndipo ndiko kusiyana kwakukulu ndi zomwe ndikadachita kale. Komanso, ndimamva kuti anthu amandiwonera pafupipafupi. Dzulo ndimamwa khofi ndi mchimwene ndipo adagwira atsikana angapo kuti atiyang'ane. Hell, pobwerera kunyumba, ndikudutsa malo omwera mowa, ndimayang'ana diso kwa mayi wokhala kwa mphindi zochepa mpaka atatembenuka. Zidamveka zodabwitsa kenanso, sizinandichitikirepo kale.
Mukumva bwanji mukamaganizira za moyo wanu NoFap isanachitike? Payekha, ndimamva chisoni. Ndikadatha kuchita zinthu zambiri ndili ku koleji, ndikadatha kuchita bwino ntchito zina zomwe ndinali nazo nthawi imeneyo, koma sindinatero, ndipo nonse mukudziwa chifukwa chake. Tsopano ndikumva kuti ndasintha. Ndimachitanso masewera (chabwino, ndimathamanga kawiri pa sabata, osachepera), ndikuwerenganso mabuku, ndikulemba, ndikumwa mvula yozizira, ndikuphunzira kuphika, ndikumwetulira Nthawi, ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimachoka m'malo anga abwino (kuwonera ma TV kapena ma wailesi kusukulu yanga ndizothandiza kuthana ndi mantha a alendo). Ponena za malo abwino, ndidapempha kuti ndisinthanitse ophunzira kwa miyezi 4 ku Canada. Ine, mnyamata yemwe sanakhazikikepo makilomita 100 kuchokera kunyumba kwa makolo ake ndipo nthawi zonse amawona banja lake sabata limodzi kapena awiri, akukhala makilomita 1 2 kuchokera kwawo? Apanso, popanda NoFap sizikanatheka.
TLDR: Chifukwa cha NoFap, ndidalemba mawu a 200 000, ndikulowa sukulu yabwino kwambiri yolemba utolankhani mdziko langa ndipo nthawi zambiri ndimakhala wosangalala kwambiri, ndipo anthu amazindikira izi. Ndinaphunzira zambiri za ine ndekha ndipo ndikuyembekeza za tsogolo langa. NoFap idasintha moyo wanga ndisanafike mwezi umodzi. Ngakhale nditakhala ndi masabata a 1-2 masabata kapena ochepera, anali akusintha moyo wanga. Chifukwa chake musataye mtima: ngakhale mikwingwirima yanu ndi yayifupi, bola ngati mutenga zizolowezi zabwino ndikubwerera pamapazi mukayambiranso, mudzamva kusiyana. Ndipo mukulakalaka mutadziwa za NoFap koyambirira.
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