Sindikukhulupirira kuti ndidakwanitsa masiku 90, ndikuyesera koyamba komabe! Sindimaganiza kuti ndikhoza kuchita izi poyamba, ndipo panali nthawi zambiri pomwe ndidatsala pang'ono kugonja, koma zinthu zomwe mungachite mukayika malingaliro anu kwa iwo ndizodabwitsa kwambiri.
Mbiri yaying'ono yokhudza ine komanso chifukwa chomwe ndidaganiza zopangira izi: Ndine womaliza maphunziro aku koleji, pano pafupifupi mwezi umodzi nditamaliza sukulu. M'chaka changa chomaliza ndinali pachibwenzi ndi mtsikana yemwe ndimamukonda kwambiri. Anali wanzeru komanso wokongola, combo simumapeza kawirikawiri. Tonsefe timakonda kuyimba, ndipo tinali ndi nthabwala zofananira zofananira, vuto lina zikafika kwa ine ndi aliyense. Titha kunena zinthu zachilendo kwambiri kuti tisekere wina ndi mnzake, komabe zonsezi zimawoneka ngati zabwinobwino. Sindingathe kufunsa zambiri.
Chokhacho ndichakuti sanadziwe zambiri m'chipinda chogona ndipo amafuna kuti zinthu zizichedwa kuyenda pang'onopang'ono kuposa liwiro laubongo wanga wokhudzana ndi zolaula womwe umayenera kupita. Izi zinandikhumudwitsa, ndipo nthawi zosangalatsa zinayamba kuoneka ngati ntchito kwa ine. Pambuyo pake zinafika poti tikhoza kupusitsika, ndiyeno nthawi yomwe adachoka ndidakwera pa PC ulendo wina. Ndipo gawo lomvetsa chisoni ndiloti, muubongo wanga wosokonezeka, ndidakonda zotsalazo.
Pambuyo pake, zokhumudwitsa zanga zidafalikira mbali zina za maubale athu. Sindinali chibwenzi chabwino konse, adazindikira, ndipo pambuyo pake tinaganiza zogawanika. Chifukwa chake, kuti tipeze nkhani yayitali motalikirapo, ndinali wokhumudwa, ndinapeza kuti nkhaniyo inali yolakwika, ndinazindikira komwe ndinalakwika mu maubale (mwina siangokhala amenewo, koma zinali zowerengera mlandu wanga,) ndipo anaganiza zoyesera.
Pafupifupi sabata imodzi kuchokera pamenepo mtsikana yemweyu amandilumikizitsa kuchokera ku buluu akundiuza momwe adakwiya ndikakwiya pazonse zomwe zidachitika komanso momwe akuchitira bwino tsopano popanda ine. Ndidapepesa pa chilichonse chomwe ndidachita ndikumuuza zomwe ndimachita nofap komanso momwe zidasinthira malingaliro anga pazinthu zonse ndi momwe zidapangira kuti zikhale bwino. Tinayambanso kulankhula ndipo tsopano tili ndi anzathu abwino. Tinakumana kawiri nthawi yonse ya masiku a 90 ndipo tidachita zinthu zina .. kotero izi zinali pafupi ndi hardmode koma ayi.
Chabwino, lolani ndi gawo labwino. Mosakayikira ndinali ndimafunso ambiri m'milungu yoyamba ya 3. Anthu inu muyenera kundikhulupirira; Zimakhala zosavuta kutalikirana ndikupitilira, ndipo mapindu ake amawonekera kwambiri komanso amakhazikika. Ponena za zabwino zake:
1) Poyamba ndinali munthu wamanyazi, ndipo ndidakali m'njira zina. Koma tsopano ndimakonda kucheza ndi anthu, ndipo ndili bwino kwambiri pakulankhulana komanso kuyang'anana ndi anthu. Izi ndizowona makamaka azimayi.
2) Kulimbitsa thupi: Ndinali msungwana wokongola waulesi nditamaliza maphunziro anga, ndipo mawonekedwe anga anali kuyandikira pang'onopang'ono mafuta onenepa. Ndinaganiza zoyamba kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndikupita kukathamanga. Sindinasiye kupita kumalo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi 3 kamodzi pa sabata kuyambira pano, ndipo tsopano ndimasewera frisbee katatu pamlungu. Ndili bwino tsopano chifukwa cha izo, ndikudzimva bwino za inenso.
3) Ndikufunadi kuchita zinthu. Ndinkakhala wokhutira nditakhala kunyumba, kumakhala ndikusewera ndikusewera masewera apakanema ndi anzanga pomwe koleji idakwera ndisanachitike. Ngakhale ndizosangalatsa monga momwe ziliri nthawi zina, ndiyenera kusintha. Ndinalowa nawo makalabu ena ndi zochitika kusukulu. Ndimayesetsa kutsuka nyumba yanga tsiku lililonse, ngakhale nditangopita kusukulu kuti ndikagwire ntchito.
4) CHIKULU CHIKULU: Sindingathe kupereka chiwerewere chimodzi chokhudzana ndi kugonana. Chikhalidwe cha ku koleji chimayika nkhawa kwambiri pazolumikizana, kugona, ndi zina zambiri. Ndikakhala kuti sindimachita izi, zidandipweteka. Ngakhale zina zonse zomwe ndimachita bwino, ndimamva ngati kuti ndili wolephera m'moyo chifukwa sindinkagonana ndi mtsikana wina kumapeto kwa sabata iliyonse, ndipo sindinadziwe momwe ndingatengere atsikana kumabala kapena maphwando ngati anzanga ena . Tsopano ine sindikusamala kwenikweni za izo. Ndine wowopsya ngati gehena, koma ndikuzindikiranso kuti moyo wanga uli ndi cholinga chachikulu kuposa kungoyenda nthawi zonse.
Chodabwitsa chinali chakuti ndikamalowa muubwenzi, nthawi zachiwerewere zimanditopetsa. Sindingathe kupambana! Zikomo zolaula!
Kutsika:
1) Ma Flatline - ndi enieni! Ndinadutsa milungu iwiri kumayambiriro kwa mwezi wa 3 ndikukhala wocheperako pazonse. Amachoka komabe; palibe chifukwa choyesa "zinthu zanu" kuti muwone ngati zikugwira ntchito!
2) Zimalimbikitsa - nthawi zina mumathera nthawi yochuluka kulimbana ndi zokhumba kuposa momwe zingatengere kuti muthe ndikutha. Koma chigonjetso chilichonse chimakupatsani mphamvu.
3) Zopambana - sindimapha anthu tsiku lililonse, koma monga ndidanenera, sindisamala.
Ndipo chinthu china chomwe ndimafuna kuwonjezera: Ndikudziwa masewera amakanema amadana ndi subreddit iyi chifukwa ndimatsutsana ndi anthu ndipo mutha kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu kucheza. Zomwe ndimatenga ndikuti muyenera kuziona ngati chilichonse chomwe mumakonda kuchita. Mutha kuyiphatikizira m'moyo wanu, koma osapanga izi. Ndimakondweretsabe ola limodzi kapena awiri amasewera mu nthawi yanga yopuma ngati njira yopumira kuchokera tsiku lalitali kapena kupumula kumapeto kwa sabata. Muyenera kuchita chilichonse chomwe chimakusangalatsani munthawi yanu yaulere, bola ngati mupanga nthawi yolumikizana ndi ena munthawi zina patsiku.
TL; DR: Kodi nofap inachititsa kuti nditayike msungwana wodabwitsa. Zimavuta poyamba koma zimakhala zosavuta, ndipo pamakhala maubwino ambiri. Chitani zomwe zimakusangalatsani!
LINK - [Masiku a 90] ndinapanga! Nkhani yanga / khoma la zolemba mkati
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