Ndine wamwamuna wa 21yo. Ichi ndiye chingwe choyera kwambiri m'moyo wanga. Komabe, sizinachitike zokha. Ndinafika pofunika m'moyo wanga pomwe ndinkaona kuti sindingathe kulumikizana ndi ena. Maganizo anga anali kunja kwa zenera, ndipo ndimatha kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti masiku osatha. Ndinkadandaula kwambiri ndipo ndinayamba kuganiza zodzipha tsiku lililonse.
Kwina, mwamwayi, ndidafika poti sindinathenso kutenganso. Ndidawadula. Kusintha sikunachitike mwachangu. Zinthu zinaipiraipira. Komabe ndimadziwa kuti mwina ndimasintha ndikusintha ndikukhala mamuna, kapena ndimangobisala ndikubisala zaka makumi awiri ndikudzuka pambuyo pake ndikudandaula. Ndikamwalira mawa, ndikusiya choloŵa chanji?
Lero nditha kunena moona mtima kuti ndine wokondwa, ndimatha kulumikizana ndi ena ndikuwathandizadi pamoyo wawo. Sindikuyendetsedwa ndimalingaliro anga.
Izi ndi zinthu zomwe zandibweretsa kuno:
- Wogwirizana naye pazomwe mumayang'ana (ndi kuwona mtima kwathunthu!)
- Masiku a 30 a kulangidwa
- Palibe chosangalatsa! Izi kwa ine ndi imodzi mwazofunikira kwambiri.
- NoFap
- Zochita zolimbitsa thupi tsiku lililonse
- Chikhulupiriro kuti zinthu zikhala bwino
Ndikuwona kuti ngati wamwamuna, ndi gawo la chikhalidwe changa kufuna kuthana ndi zovuta zomwe ndakumana nazo. Ndimawona Pornfree ndi NoFap ngati amodzi mwa "zoyambitsa" zomwe zimandisiyanitsa kukhala mnyamata. Chidaliro changa, nthabwala komanso mphamvu zamaganizidwe anga zakula kwambiri. Sindikhutira ndi kungokhala chete, ndikufuna kufufuza ndikugonjetsa ndikukhala ndi moyo!
Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zimathandiza aliyense amene amawerenga izi mwanjira ina! Zabwino zonse aliyense paulendowu ndi ine!
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