Mutuwo ukusocheretsa pang'ono, koma nayi nkhaniyo. Nthawi zonse ndakhala ngati beta pankhani ya atsikana (ndikusemphana ndi anyamata ena), komabe ndakhala ndi akazi atatu (palibe wokongola kwambiri) amene amandigonana masiku awiri apitawa. Sindinathe kuzimva, ndipo kukhumudwa kumeneku ndi komwe kunandipangitsa kuti ndipite ku Nofap. Mwina sindinakopeke, mwina ndinali ndi nkhawa zambiri, kapena, mwina, ndinali ndi PIED.
Chifukwa chake, kwa miyezi isanu kapena chaka chathachi (wina atalephera kuyesa kwa miyezi itatu) ndinapereka njira yolimbikitsa. Ndikadakhala kuti ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito, kuyang'ana kwambiri, komanso kulephera pafupifupi PMO. Komano, nditakumana ndi mtsikana wokongola ndikuchita naye chibwenzi, ndidasokosera mathalauza anga mphindi ngati 5. Zinachitikanso ndi mtsikana wina yemwe ndinakumana naye ku Tinder. Pomwe ndidali ndi chidwi chocheza ndi kukumana ndi atsikana, Nofap adawoneka ngati wondipatsa zovuta zina.
Pafupifupi nthawi imeneyi ndipamene ndidapeza mtsikana yemwe adatenga v-khadi yanga. Ndine wotsimikiza kuti munthu wanga wakale wa Nofap sakanakhala ndi chidaliro chocheperako pomufunsa ndikumupangitsa kuti "azichita zinthu" ndi ine. Komabe, ndinaganiza zopumira 2-3 pa sabata kuti ndipewe manyazi ambiri. Sindikudziwa ngati kunali kofunikira chifukwa cha kupusitsa kwambiri komwe tidachita tisanachite zogonana masiku awiri apitawa. Ndikufuna kunena kuti sizinali choncho, chifukwa mumzimu sindine, ngakhale kuti mzere wanga watha kale.
Ndimadana kwambiri ndimamverera nditatha, ndipo ndikulakalaka ndikadapanda kuyambiranso. Ndikuyambiranso lero lero, koma ndikuganiza kuti ndigonana naye kangapo kotero kuti kugonana kumatha kumveka ngati chinthu choyenera ndisanadzipereke. Mwamwayi, mndandanda wanga "wopanda zolaula" umakhalabe wosasweka.
Nofap adandidziwikitsa kwambiri ndipo adanditsogolera kukhala ndi mwayi wopeza akazi (ndikupanga ubale wabwino ngati ndingasankhe), koma kwa ine zikuwoneka kuti zadzetsa chisangalalo chochuluka. Komabe, zidathandiza kwambiri kutaya v-khadi yanga. Posinkhasinkha mwina sikunali ndi munthu woyenera, koma ndimafunikira chizolowezicho kuti ndisawoneke wopanda mphamvu kwa wina yemwe ndingafune kukhala naye pachibwenzi.
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ZOTHANDIZA ZOYAMBIRA - Nofap ya ED / Premature Ejaculation
Ndine wamwamuna wa 22 y / o yemwe nthawi zonse amakhala ndi mavuto polankhula ndi atsikana, ndipo nditapeza mwayi (kanayi) ndinali ndi vuto loukweza. (Komabe atsikanawa sanali okongola. Sindinkafunika kukhala ndi chidaliro chilichonse kuti ndikafike komwe ndimakhala nawo.) Ndinkakonda kukhala PMO tsiku lililonse ndipo nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Mwanjira iliyonse, ndinali ndi nkhawa kuti ngakhale nditapeza vuto la mtsikana IRL ndikadakhala ngati masekondi awiri. Mosakayikira izi sizinathandize kuti ayambe kuzimva.
Kenako ndidachita nofap, ndipo ndidakumana ndi zabwino zambiri za pyschological, placebo kapena ayi. Ndinabwereranso kamodzi patsiku 45, ndipo zinali masiku 67 apitawo. Chifukwa cha nofap, ndikukhulupirira, ndafika poti ndikhale wokonzeka kuyamba kufunsa atsikana zambiri kuposa kale, ndikadakhala kuti ndikadakhala kuti sindinali otanganidwa kwambiri kukonzekera mayeso oyenerera (LSAT) awiri miyezi. (Komabe ndidakhala ndi tsiku labwino pakati ndi mtsikana masabata awiri apitawa, tidapsompsona koma palibe chomwe chidachitika.) Pambuyo poyesedwa, masewera ake anali otsimikizika. Pakadali pano kauntala wanga wamasiku adzakhala chinthu choti ndikunyadiranso.
Komabe, ngakhale ndili ndi chidaliro chonse kuti ndizitha kuzimitsa nthawiyo ikafika, ndilibe lingaliro loti ndidzachita bwanji. Ndikuda nkhawa kuti nditapanda kusokoneza bongo ndidzangokhala pamphepete nthawi yonseyi. Nthawi zina ndimamva ngati ndikungopita tsiku langa. Kodi nonse mukunena chiyani za izi? (Zikomo powerenga btw.)
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