Ulendo wopita ku masiku a 90 unali wovuta. Ndisanafike pachimake, nthawi zambiri ndimadzifunsa ngati zingasinthe moyo wanga. Zisintha chiyani?
Zinanditengera pafupifupi chaka ndi theka kuti ndikwaniritse chizindikiro cha tsiku la 90 pa Hardmode. Ndayesapo ulendowu m'mbuyomu, ndikuupanga masiku a 60 kenako ndikubwereranso nthawi yakanthawi kofooka. Chifukwa chake, ndidayesanso pa Softmode ndikumaliza ulendowu. Kugwiritsa ntchito chidwi kuchokera ku kuyesera kwa Softmode ndinatha kumaliza Hardmode.
Ndikakumbukira zakale, zimandimvetsa chisoni kuganizira nthawi yonse yomwe ndinawononga pa zolaula. Pali nthawi zina pomwe ndimakumbukira mipata yoti ndikhale moyo wabwino. Kukhala ndi zibwenzi ndili pasukulu. Kuti mukhale ndi gawo lotsogolera anzanga. Kutaya unamwali wanga kukhala woponderezedwa kapena kuutaya kwa mlendo ku phwando la kuyunivesite. Kukumana ndi anthu atsopano. Kuthandiza anthu. Kuti ndikhale ndekha.
Awa ndi mphindi zomwe zimapweteka kwambiri paulendowu, kaya ndi Hard kapena Softmode. Adzakukakamizani kuti mupeze chitonthozo, kuchokera kuzolaula, ma videogames, kanema wawayilesi, chakudya, kugona, mankhwala osokoneza bongo, mowa, mahule, ndi zina zambiri.
Phunziro lomwe masiku awa a 90 adandiphunzitsa ndikuti ndisamangokhalira zakale, kusunthira kutsogolo ndikukhala moyo wamasiku ano.
Pambuyo masiku 90, ine, monga ambiri omwe afika pamwambo wopatulikawu, ndidapanga chisankho kwa PMO. Kuti mudziwe ngati ndaphunzirapo chilichonse posawonera zolaula kwanthawi yayitali. Sizinandidabwitse, zanditsimikizira kuti ndinali wolondola. Zolakwika sizinali vuto. Pambuyo pa PMOing, sindinamve kuti ndine wolakwa, wonyansa, wotayika kapena wokhumudwa. Zinkawoneka bwino.
Chomwe chidapangitsa kuti chikhale chisangalalo chinali chitonthozo chomwe zolaula zidapereka. Zinandithandizira kupirira nthawi zovuta komanso zinapangitsa kuti nthawi zosavuta zizikhala bwino. Sindikunena zolaula, ma videogames, maudzu kapena mowa chifukwa cha zomwe zidachitika m'mbuyomu.
Kusenza udindo pazisankho zomwe zidapangidwa kukhala phunziro lotsatira. Kulandila udindo kunandithandiza kuzindikira zoyambitsa, kunandipangitsa kuti ndizikhala wolamulira ndipo pamapeto pake ndinaloledwa kupita mtsogolo.
Kusinkhasinkha, kusunga zolembalemba, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi m'mawa uliwonse, kuwerengera a Hanuman Chalisa, kutenga nawo mbali mu pulogalamu ya chitukuko cha achinyamata. Sindinachitepo chilichonse mwa izi kapena sindikadachita izi 2 zaka zingapo zapitazo. Moyo umakhala wochulukirapo kuyerekeza ndi momwe zimamvekera ngati kuti ndimayenera kulandira zilizonse zomwe ena akuganiza kuti ndikayenera. AYI, ayi.
Bukulo, Mindility in Plain English lolemba ndi Ven. Henepola Gunaratana, amabwera kwambiri. Bukuli likufotokoza za kusinkhasinkha, komwe kumatha kukhala chida chothandiza munthawi yamavuto.
Pomaliza, poyang'ana tsopano, zambiri zasintha. Chovuta chatha. NoFap tsopano ndi gawo la moyo wanga. Palibe amene angachotse izi kwa inu ndi ine.
"Iye amene amalamulira zakale, amalamulira zam'tsogolo. Iye amene amalamulira zamakono, amazilamulira zakale.”- Anatero George Orwell
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