Uwu ndiye mwayi wanga woyamba koma ndakhala ndikuwerenga gawoli kwa miyezi ingapo ndipo ndiyenera kunena ZIKOMO NONSE. Kuwerenga zolemba zanu tsiku ndi tsiku kwandithandiza kulimba mtima komanso kundipatsa chidwi. Popeza ndinalibe baji pa reddit tsambali (https://chains.cc) zathandiza kwambiri.
Zokhudza ine: 24 / M, Namwali, sanapsompsone msungwana, sanakhalepo ndi bwenzi. Ndine wachikhristu komanso INTJ. Ndinayamba kuseweretsa maliseche ndili pafupi ndi 13 pafupifupi mwangozi (mwachitsanzo, sindimadziwa kuti zotsatira zake zidzakhala zotani 😉 PMOing pafupi ndili ndi zaka 14. Ndinkakonda kuseweretsa maliseche pakati pa tsiku kamodzi kamodzi patsiku lililonse la 3. Pazaka zingapo zapitazi , Ndayesa kangapo kuti ndisiye koma zinali zovuta kwambiri: Ndinabwereranso patatha mwezi umodzi kuti ndione ngati zonse zikuyenda bwino (sindinadziwe chilichonse chokhudza ma flatline) ndipo patadutsa masiku 20 nditayamba maloto ogonana Sindinayambe ndaonapo zolaula zolimba kapena zinthu zachilendo koma monga Mkhristu ndinamva bwino kwambiri, koma inali njira yanga yothetsera mavuto anga ndi a banja.
Chifukwa chiyani ndinayamba ulendowu ?: Kunena zowona, ndidayamba chifukwa ndimafuna ntchito yoyipa kwambiri kotero ndimaganiza kuti mwanjira imeneyi Mulungu athetsa mavuto. Patsiku la 20 ndidalandira imelo yonena kuti sindinapeze ntchito.
Njira: Chifukwa chake, kusapeza ntchito kuphatikiza ma symtoms obwezeretsa kunapangitsa masiku 50-60 kukhala gehena wamoyo. Kumva kunali kovuta koma ndinaphunzira kusamalira ndikukumana nawo m'malo mochita PMOing. Panthawiyo, ndinawerenga zolemba za anthu omwe amapeza mphamvu zambiri komanso zopambana ndipo ndimaganiza: kodi izi zikundigwirira ntchito? Yankho ndilo inde. Mwezi woyamba unali wovuta kwambiri chifukwa cha zolimbikitsazi komanso kukhumudwa koma chifukwa cha reddit ndikuyesera kudzipangitsa ndekha nditha kukana zolimbikitsazo. Kuphatikiza apo, mukafika kumtunda wautali simukufuna kupitako mosavuta…
Ndidawerenga za anthu ambiri omwe adabwereranso patatha masiku 30 kapena 60 chifukwa "adamasuka", ndimayesetsa kwambiri kuti ndisataye mtima ndikuchenjera nthawi iliyonse ndikakhala ndi malingaliro monga: izi zikuyenda bwino, tsopano ndizosavuta zina ndi zina. Komabe, mozungulira tsiku 70 ndimakhala wovuta kwambiri komanso zithunzi zomwe zidatulutsidwa zidayambitsidwa ndikukambirana kwathunthu pa intaneti. Ngakhale zili zonse zomwe ndimatha kusunga njira yanga.
Results: Chifukwa cha noFAP tsopano ndikudzidalira kwambiri kwa amayi. Ndikudziwa chifukwa ndimayankhula nawo kuti ndimawakonda, osafunikira, komanso osawayang'ana nthawi zonse. Ndizosangalatsa kuti atsikana tsopano ali ndi chidwi ndi ine, ndipo ngakhale ayamba kundiyang'ana! Ndidawerenga za izi, ndipo sindinakhulupirire… ndimaganiza kuti ayenera kuti anali kupanga izi, kapena amangodziwa kwambiri, koma ndizowona.
Ndimamvanso kuti ndili ndi mphamvu zambiri. Ndidayamba kukweza, ndikukwera njinga yanga kwa maola ambiri ndipo ndikumva kuti kugona kwanga kwa maola angapo kwa 8 kumakhala kothandiza kwambiri.
Sindikuganiza kuti ndinali ndi ED koma ndikudziwa kuti zinthu zasintha popeza tsopano ndili ndi ma boners ovuta kwambiri.
Zomwe zikuchitika: Ndili ndi zolimbikitsabe, koma tsopano nditha kuzilamulira (hoorey !!!) Ndimayesetsa kuyandikira atsikana popeza ndili wamtali kwambiri (6'3 ku Spain ndiwamtali kwambiri) ndipo kukhala Mkhristu kumapangitsa zinthu kukhala zovuta kwambiri (nchiyani mukuganiza? Ndikuganiza kuti ndiwe wokongola kwambiri, koma, kodi ndiwe mkhristu? haha)
Vuto lotsatira ndi chiyani?: Kunena zowona ndimaopa kuti ndikangofika masiku 90 odziwika, zinthu zimatha kusintha kapena ndimakhala womasuka. Kodi chikhala chandamale chotsatira? Masiku 180 ali kutali kwambiri kotero ndikuganiza kuti ndipita ku 120. Ndimaganiziranso kuti nditha kukhala wokonda kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti, chifukwa chake ndiyesetsa kusiya kuyigwiritsa ntchito kwambiri, koma ndizovuta kudziwa nthawi yomwe mwakhala succeding ndipo mukamabwerezabwereza mukasiya kusiya kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti…
Zinthu zopindulitsa: Ndimapitiliza kugwiritsa ntchito laputopu yanga m'chipinda changa chogona, chowopseza chachikulu chomwe chimayenera kuyendetsedwa. Ndiyenera kuyang'anitsitsa atsikana ambiri. Ndikutanthauza, mukuyamba kuchita mantha ndipo ngati simudzawayandikira, cholinga chake ndi chiyani?
Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zitha kuthandiza wina aliyense mwanjira iliyonse, ndipo ndikupepesa chifukwa cha zolakwa za galamala, Chingerezi si chilankhulo changa.
Pitilizani!
by callmemp
ZOCHITIKA - Masiku XXUMX. Kudzuka ku maloto oyipa.
Patha masiku 200 ndipo ngakhale pakhala nthawi yovuta sindingakhale wokondwa polimbana ndi zopanda pake izi chifukwa ndizofunikira.
Ndinalemba lipoti lathunthu masana 90 kuti mutha kuwona Pano koma kukhala m'masiku a 200 kwakhala chinthu chosiyana kwambiri ndi ine.
Kudzuka Inde, tsopano ndikumverera kuti ndikubwezeretsanso umunthu wanga wakale. Motani? Ndiyambanso kumva, ndikuyamba kusamalira, kuthana ndi mantha anga ndikusangalala ndi moyo. Ndakhala ndikumwalira pafupi ndi ine, ndipo ndimayesetsa kudumpha zowawa ndi zowawa m'moyo wanga (yesetsani kuzipewa pogwiritsa ntchito mayankho opanda thanzi) koma tsopano ndikudziwa kuti si njira yochitira izi, koma pitani mukakumane nanu kuwawa ndi mantha ndikuzigonjetsa, amenewo ndi mayankho athanzi komanso okhwima ndipo ndili wokondwa kuti ndikuchita. Ndikumva bwino kwambiri ndipo ndiyenera kukhala nawo.
Ndikudziwa masiku 200 sakhala ochulukirapo poyerekeza ndi nthawi yomwe ndakhala ndikukula koma palibe chifukwa chokana kukonzanso kwake ndipo ndimayesetsa kupeza 300, 365, 1000… ndi zina zambiri.
Ndi chiyani chinanso chomwe chasintha m'moyo wanga? Popeza sindiyenera kuyang'ana kwambiri posabala, mphamvu zanga zawonjezeka ndipo ndili ndi ufulu kuchotsa zizolowezi zina zoipa monga kusaka intaneti mokakamiza, kugwiritsa ntchito laputopu mchipinda changa ndikukhala ndi zizolowezi zatsopano monga kukhala odziletsa kwambiri, kudya thanzi labwino, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi komanso kukhala omasuka kwambiri.
Upangiri Ndikulangiza kwambiri kwa aliyense kuti: * Osayesa kusasintha, chitani china chake chomwe chimakupangitsani kukhala otanganidwa * Dziwani kuti iyi ndi nkhondo ndipo simungadzilole nokha kapena mungalephere mosayembekezera * Osagwiritsa ntchito laputopu yanu mkati chipinda chanu * Lekani kudzikhudza nokha * Pitirizani kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi * Lowani NoFapWar yotsatira
Palinso malo oti ndisinthe, nthawi zina ndimakhala ndikubisalira zithunzi zomwe sindimayenera koma ndimaganiza kuti ndikungoyenera kutsogolera zomwe ndikugonana.
Khalani omasuka kufunsa malangizo kapena kundiuzako malangizo alionse omwe mungawone kukhala othandiza.
Khalani amphamvu!
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