Zaka 25 - Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula kunasokoneza malingaliro anga & ndipo kunandipangitsa kukhala A-hole

Wawa, ndine Mat. Ndine 25, ndipo ndadziwombolera (kuyambira chiyambi cha 2014, kuchokeranso pang'ono) kuchokera ku zolaula nditazisunga kwazaka pafupifupi khumi.

Ndimakumbukira monga zidalili dzulo… Inali nthawi yotentha chaka changa cha kusekondale pasukulu yasekondale, ndipo ndidazindikira momwe ndingayendere malo omwe makolo athu amatipatsa. Icho chinali chomaliza ngakhale chinthu chanzeru pang'ono chomwe ndikukumbukira ndikuchita ... Chifukwa sindinadziwe momwe zingakuonongereni.

Pali zovuta zambiri zomwe zingachitike chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula, ndidakumana ndi ziwiri zomwe ndikufuna kugawana nawo. Choyamba ndikukhulupirira kuti zimasokoneza chiweruzo chanu. Ndinali wachinyamata wowala zonsezi zisanachitike, ndikudziwika kuti ndi m'modzi mwa anthu anzeru kwambiri m'kalasi mwanga. Komabe, mpaka pano ndakwanitsa kupanga zisankho zomwe sizikutanthauza ndekha, ndipo ndavulaza. Chotsatira chachiwiri ndi choyipitsitsa kwambiri… .. Anthu omwe amandikonda kwambiri ndipo ndidangobwezera chidani. Pamene malingaliro anga adasinthiratu pafupifupi mwezi wapitawo ndidayang'ana mbiri ya msungwana yemwe anali wokonda kwambiri kuposa ine kwa nthawi yayitali ndimamudziwa, ndipo ndidangogwa pansi ndikuyamba kulira. Ndikumva kuti sindikhala zotsatirazi.

Koma chenjezo lokwanira, ndabwera kudzakondwerera. Ngakhale pali zinthu zina, komanso koposa zonse anthu, zomwe sindibwerera. Ndikumva ngati ndikadali ndi tsogolo labwino. Choonadi kusiya izi ndikulimbikitsa kwambiri ... kutchula m'modzi mwa ogwiritsa a Reddit "Zili ngati kubadwanso pambuyo pa zaka zakufa." Kupita pamwamba ndikhoza kunena kuti ndikudziwa chifukwa chake ndikukhalanso.

Chabwino ndizo. Nthawi zambiri ndimakonda kufupikitsa zinthu, koma ndimawona kufunika kofotokozera chifukwa ndizofunika kwambiri kuti nditumikire. Ndimalandila zokambirana zilizonse. Ndikuganiza kuti awa ndi malo abwino owerengera mlandu komanso upangiri. Chifukwa chake ngati mukumva kuti mutha kufotokoza, kapena kungathandize, kapena mukufuna thandizo khalani omasuka. Zabwino zonse kwa aliyense amene akuyenda.

ulusi: Ndakhala omasuka pomaliza… Mfulu pomaliza!

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