Vlog: Masiku a 250 a Nofap / NoPorn / NoOrgasm
Masiku 90 a Whirlwind Tobias Palibe, alibe vuto lililonse, osakhazikika, osawona zolaula.
Chaka chatha, blog ndimakonda kuchedwa Roissy / Chateau Mkulu wamtima anali ndi ndemanga yolembedwa ndi m'modzi mwa otsatira ake anzeru. Adafotokoza tsoka lake ndi akazi, ndipo chifukwa chake adataya iwo kwathunthu; kuyang'ana pa Kusinkhasinkha, kunyamula, kuwerenga ndi kuchita nyimbo. Amaletsanso kuseweretsa maliseche pafupipafupi, kumangochita "kawirikawiri". Ndipo kenaka zamatsenga zinachitika. Adafotokozera azimayi omwe adakopeka naye mwadzidzidzi, adamupeza wosaletseka. Anatinso kuti akukweza msika wake wogonana kudzera pakukula kwake, komanso kuti azimayi amatha kuzindikira kuti sanathere. Wodabwitsidwa komanso wolimbikitsidwa, ndidadziuza kuti iyi ndi njira yopita patsogolo.
Ndinali ndi zokumana nazo m'mbuyomu zodziletsa kale, chifukwa chopita masiku 14 popanda chifukwa chotayika pagalimoto chilichonse m'moyo (kuphatikiza chisangalalo). Tsiku la 14 litafika, ndinayamba kuda nkhawa kuti nditaya chilakolako changa chogonana ndikudziyang'anira ndekha zisanachitike. Chifukwa chake, poganizira izi ndidatenga "kawirikawiri" kamodzi kapena kawiri pamwezi. Ndinayesa izi kwakanthawi, osapita kulikonse koma ndikungodzikhululukira chifukwa ndimawona ngati kuti ndine ndekha amene ndimadzilamulira.
Kenako, pa blog yomweyi otsatira ena adayamba kukambirana yamachikimachi.com. Nthawi zambiri ndimawombera ngati mumbo-jumbo wa zaka zatsopano, sindinayang'ane zomwe zalembedwazo ndipo sindimadziwa. Zinali choncho, mpaka nditazindikira kuti Nofapthread V2.
Kupeza sikunakhalepo ndi tanthauzo lililonse pamoyo wanga. Kodi ndiyomwe ndikudzikakamiza kuti ndisiye? Kamodzi kapena kawiri mwezi uliwonse kapena nditaya kwathunthu kugonana? Nanga bwanji gulu lonse? BWANJI POPANDA POPANDA KWA MASIKU 90.
Ndinawonera makanema a Gary Wilson. Ndinawerenga zokumana nazo za anthu ena. Chilichonse chinali chomveka. Ndangokhala ndi zibwenzi ziwiri zokha, ndipo ndimakhala ndi mavuto kumapeto kwake. Ndinapita zaka 6 osagonana, koma sindinasamale chifukwa nthawi zonse panali kompyuta komanso intaneti yothamanga kwambiri yomwe imandidikira kunyumba. Ndinadziwa zomwe ziyenera kuchitika.
Patatha masiku 90, ndili pano. Sindinakhazikike kamodzi, sindinawonenso zolaula ndipo chifukwa chokhala wosakwatiwa sindinakhale ndi vuto limodzi. Ndikumva kuti ndili ndi mphamvu panthawiyi, ndimadziwika bwino pakati pa anzanga chifukwa chochepetsa zosangalatsa m'moyo wanga (ndikukhulupirira zimalimbitsa malingaliro). Sindinamwe mowa kwa zaka zambiri, ndinasiya chokoleti zaka 2 zapitazo ndi maswiti chaka chapitacho. Ndimamva ngati chinthu chotsatira kusiya kuseweretsa maliseche, koma ndikuwona kuti ndizosatheka. Tsopano ndikudziwa chowonadi.
Ndipo chowonadi nchakuti mwachita zonse zomwe mungathe. Panalibe chinthu chimodzi china chomwe inu mukanakhoza kuchita. Kodi mutha kukhala munthawi imeneyo momwe mungathere, ndi maso owoneka bwino, ndi chikondi mumtima mwanu? Ndi chimwemwe mumtima mwako? Ngati mungathe kuchita njonda imeneyo - ndiye kuti ndinu angwiro.
Winawake adalemba izi pa ulusi wakale. Ndimamvera tsiku lililonse, ndi imodzi mwa mphatso zazikulu kwambiri zomwe ndalandira kuyambira nthawi yanga pano. Ndikulakalaka kuti aliyense amene ndimamudziwa athe kuwona izi, ndikutenga theka la zomwe ndatenga.
Ndiye, chikuchitika ndi chiyani m'masiku a 90?
- Kulimba mtima.
- Kukula masewera anga pantchito - Ndikupita kukwezedwa.
- Kutha kuthana ndi nkhawa zochulukirapo chifukwa chokhala ndi mutu wowoneka bwino (wopanda malingaliro opanga zolaula)
- Sindikumveranso manyazi chifukwa chogonana ndi zolaula zolaula, kulimbikitsa maso.
- Kukhala ndi mitundu ingapo yazomwe akazi angawoneke ngati "okongola"
- Kulimbikitsidwa kukhala nazo, ndikusangalala ndikuyanjana mosawerengeka ndi atsikana.
- Kuzindikira kuseweretsa maliseche sikofunikira pamoyo.
- Kumva maloto abwinodi, ogonana omwe amakuwonongerani kutali.
Nanga nchiyani chikuchitika tsopano?
Cholinga changa choyambirira chinali kugunda masiku 90, ndikudzisamalira. Komabe patatha masiku 50 kapena masiku angapo ndinazindikira kuti sindingathe kubwerera. Monga momwe ndimakhalira kuzizira kwazaka 6 patatha zaka 2 sindimatha kuganiza zogonananso, sindingaganizirenso kuseweretsa maliseche.
Dongosolo langa lotsatira linali kupanga masamba ochepa azibwenzi, kupita pa zibwenzi mwachangu, njira zozizira ndi zina zambiri ndikuwona ngati ndingalumikizane ndi munthu wina ndikukhala ndi moyo wathanzi wogonana kotero sindiyeneranso kuseweretsa maliseche. Komabe, ndimamva ngati ndikhoza kusunga izi kwa masiku ena 110. Pali gawo lina mwa ine lomwe limafuna kudziwa kuti ndingatenge nthawi yayitali bwanji ndisanakhalepo pachimake, ndipo ndikadzayamba kucheza ndi atsikana sindidzawona zomwe ndingathe kuchita pankhani yaumbeta.
Ndili pa mpanda wokhudzana ndi izi… koma ndakhala ndikulakalaka zogonana kuchokera kwa munthu wina posachedwa ndipo akhoza kundipangira chisankho.
Ndikulunga izi ndi mawu omaliza.
Tonse tikulemba patsamba lino chifukwa tikufuna kukonza thanzi lathu, kusintha thupi lathu, komanso kuwonjezera mphamvu zathu. Izi zimatenga ntchito, kudzipereka komanso kusasinthika. Koma, kumbali inayo tidasunthira kukweza zinthu, tadutsa m'zidikha zazikulu. Kuphunzitsidwa kukana komanso kupirira kwa mtima kumapangitsa ma mahomoni kukhala opindulitsa mu ubongo wathu wa ubongo, ndipo zitha kuchititsa kuti tisinthe mitundu.
Sitinasinthe kuti tipewe zosangalatsa. Osati kugwedeza ndiko kutsutsa. Kuletsa kuseweretsa maliseche sikumatulutsa mankhwala opindulitsa, chifukwa ubongo wanu umachita chilichonse chotheka kuti muthe kusankha. Ndi chifukwa chake ndimamva kuti nofap imafunikira malingaliro apamwamba kuposa momwe mungachititsireko masewera olimbitsa thupi. Pezani malingaliro amenewo. Khalani nawo.
Pali zambiri zambiri pamoyo uno, kuposa kugwiritsa ntchito manja anu kutulutsa chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe zimabweretsa moyo weniweniwo.
-Tobias
Momwe ndidamalizira masiku a 339 a COMPLETE kudziletsa (Kukhala ndi chikondi) ** KUTHA KWA ZONSE
Hei nonse, izi zidachitika masabata angapo apitawa ndipo sindinafike pozilemba. Umenewu ndi mtundu womwe ndidasindikiza pamsonkhano wina womwe ndidayenda pafupipafupi, ndasiya zina zomwe ndimaganiza kuti chiwerengerochi chikhoza kukhala chowerenga kosavomerezeka, ndipo zina zomwe sizothandiza.
Ndiyambitsa nkhaniyi ndi chodzikanira. Kwa iwo omwe sakundidziwa, uwu ndiye mndandanda wanga woyamba wa Nofap / Noporn. Sindinasankhe "zovuta", kusakwatira kapena chilichonse chomwe mungasankhe; Sindinakhalepo ndi mwayi wokhala pachibwenzi. Ndinali pachibwenzi kwa miyezi 2 1/2 kuyambira koyambirira kwa Januware, koma zochitika ndi zina zidatilepheretsa kupitilira kucheza pagulu.
Komabe chifukwa cha zosintha zingapo, ndidaganiza zoyesa mapulogalamu azibwenzi / mawebusayiti. Sindikukhala ndi chiyembekezo chachikulu ndi iwo, ndikudziwa kuti anthu amakhala opambana pamenepo koma nthawi zonse ndimakhulupirira kuti ziyembekezo zazikulu zomwezo ndizokhumudwitsa.
Ndi mapulogalamu ambiri abwenzi masiku ano, mutha kunena chidwi ndi munthu mwa kungodina batani, limatulukira pazidziwitso zawo ndipo mutha kuwatumizira uthenga wongonena chidwi kuchokera pamenepo.
Mtsikanayo m'nkhaniyi, adandiwonetsa chidwi. Ndinakakamizidwa, ndipo ndinatumiza uthenga. Popeza mayankho ake anali achidule, ndimamukayikira kuti ndi bot ndikumufunsa kuti likulu la Canada ndi chiyani; "Ottawa". Zotsatira zake anali wowona, kapena anali ndi mayendedwe apamwamba oyankha. Mwanjira iliyonse kutsata kwanthawi yomweyo kunali kwachilendo, koma ndimapitiliza kulankhulana naye, ndipo ndidazindikira kuti zimawavuta kulumikizana konse chifukwa chodziwa kulankhula Chingerezi.
Zolemba zina:
-Ali pamalopo kuti athetse kusungulumwa ndipo amangofuna kuyankhula; osagonana kapena maubale.
-Ndili bwino ndili nazo. Nditha kukhala kuti ndadutsa nthawi yayitali ndisanapite, koma zandithandiza kuchepetsa libido yanga ndikuwunika momwe kumasulidwa kosafunikira.
-Timalumikizana bwino kwambiri, -mwini sanalankhulanepo ndi wina aliyense ngati ine kale. Zomwe amakumana nazo ndi anyamata ndikuti amangokhala ndi chidwi ndi chinthu chimodzi ndipo samakambirana nawo mozama komanso mozama. Sanamvepo kudalira kapena kukhala womasuka ndi wina aliyense, ndipo sangathe kuyika chifukwa chake amadzimvera choncho.
-Akukambirana koma amawulukira kunyumba "kwamuyaya" sabata limodzi. Pali pafupifupi pafupifupi 100km mtunda, nawonso. Chimodzi mwazomwe amawopa kwambiri, ndikukhala pafupi ndi wina kenako ndikusiyidwa kapena kukokedwa.
-Ndine wotsutsana, ndikadakhala ndi zokumana nazo, ngakhale zitakhala zazifupi bwanji ndikuziyamikira m'malo mongopewa ndikudandaula kuti ndidachita izi. Ndimatha kuphunzitsira nzeru imeneyi mwa iye.
- Ndimayesetsa kumuyendera, koma timavutika kuti tipeze nthawi yake.
-Amabwera kuno m'malo mwake, kwa masiku angapo.
Monga momwe mungaganizire, tisanakumane tinakambirana zauchikulire komanso zachikulire pazomwe timakumana tikakhala pagulu la ena. Anali wolimbikira kuti tisachite chilichonse chogonana - ndinamuuza kuti sindingafune kuti achite chilichonse chomwe sakumva bwino, ndipo ngati china chake chingachitike chingakhale chifukwa chimamveka bwino. Sindingamusiye.
Tsopano ndikudziwa momwe ambuye ambiri odziwa zinthu angaganizire, makamaka omwe amadziwa gulu la PUA. Mtsikana akati sakugonana nanu, zikutanthauza kuti malingalirowo afika m'mutu mwake koma amangowopa kuti mukungotsatira chinthu chimodzi; chomwecho tikufuna chiyembekezo chotsutsana ndi kukakamira kuti palibe chomwe chidzachitike. Kaya zikuchitikadi kapena ayi, zonse zili pakadali pano.
Komabe pali zosiyana zina ndi izi- Anali ndi chidziwitso chogonana, ngakhale kuyesa yekha.
Chifukwa chake ndimalingaliro onsewo, sindimayembekezera chilichonse. M'malo mwake kwakanthawi panali gawo la ine lomwe likadakana mwayi uliwonse ndi mtsikana aliyense mpaka tsiku la 365, kungonena kuti ndatha chaka chonse osamasulidwa kuposa Nocturnal Emissions. Koma ndinamva kuti ndili pafupi ndi msungwanayu, ndipo sindinkafuna kumukana ngati nthawiyo idawonekera pazinthu zopanda pake. Osanenapo mwina ndi mwayi wokhawo kwa miyezi, mwina ngakhale zaka zomwe ndiyenera kuwona ngati ndachira. Koma mwina palibe chomwe chingachitike komabe kusankha kudzapangidwira ine.
Kubwerera ku zokambirana zathu: Chilichonse chokhudzana ndi kugonana sichinali pamakadi, koma tikhoza "kupsompsonana". Anali "kuziganizira", makamaka zidakhala nthabwala pakati pathu. Atafika, anali wamanjenje koma ndinayamba kukhudzana nawo pafupi nthawi yomweyo ndikumamupangitsa kukhala womasuka. Tinagwirana manja, anapumitsa mutu wake pachifuwa panga, monga banja wamba. Ndidamubweretsa kuntchito kwanga ndipo anthu adandifunsa kuti ndamudziwa kwa nthawi yayitali bwanji, chifukwa "timakhala ngati timadziwana kwazaka zambiri".
Panali mphindi zochepa zomwe ndikadakhoza kumpsompsona, adazimvanso nati "Ndikuganizira zakupsompsona kapena ayi". Nthawi iliyonse ndikangodziletsa, kumwetulira, ndikuyang'ana m'maso mwake, ndikuseka pang'ono pang'ono, ndikunena; "Udzandipsompsona ukakonzeka".
Izi zikuchepera, chifukwa chake ndifika kuzinthu zofunikira.
Tikati tapuma pantchito, sitinapsompsone. Anamaliza kundifunsa chifukwa chomwe sindikufuna kumpsompsona, pomwe ndidamuuza kuti ndidatero ndipo adayankha nati "Bwanji osayesa". Chifukwa chake, tidapsompsona. Ndipo idakulira kuchokera pamenepo, kwenikweni.
Kotero nchiyani chinachitika?
Ndili ndi ntchito 5 zamanja. Sindinamulimbikitse kuti andigwire, adayika manja ake pamenepo. Koma adati kwa ine "Sindikudziwa zomwe ndikuyenera kuchita" - zikusonyeza kuti anali asanakhudzepo mwamuna. Chifukwa chake ndimayenera kudzilimbitsa, kuti iye azindisangalatsa. Zodabwitsazi ndizodabwitsa, ayi? M'miyezi yapitayi ya 11 ndidakhala ndikuganiza kuti ngati nditapeza mkazi, nditha kungochotsa manja ndikumulola kuti agwire ntchito yonse, mwachiyembekezo ndikasinthanso nditha kugonjera popanda kukhala wolamulira. Musaganize.
Mukudandaula kuti zimamveka bwanji, kuchita maliseche kwa masekondi 2-3 kuti mupeze handjob. Zinamveka… zabwinobwino. Sindinamve manyazi, kulibe mlandu, kunyansidwa. Ndinangozipeza ndizodabwitsa ndikuseka. Zandipatsa manyazi pang'ono pazonsezi, koma kunena zowona ndakhala ndikunyozedwa kwambiri za maliseche.
Kodi ndimatulutsa umuna? Inde. Ndimakumbukira bwino nthawi yomwe ndidamva kuti "kulumikizana", mumadziwa momwe zinthu zingapitirire mutafika pachimake. Ndikumva "kudina" kokha, pomwe msungwana yemwe sanakhalepo ndi mnyamata m'mbuyomo akukulamulirani, zinali zazikulu. Kukwanira kunena kuti ndidamupatsa zonena, ndipo adandibweretsera vuto.
Izi zinkachitika nthawi iliyonse. Nditataya unamwali wanga zaka 7 zapitazo, ndipo ndakhala ndikuvutika chifukwa chokhala ndisanatenthedwe pokhapokha ndikakhala 100% ndikuwongolera komanso kwa nthawi yayitali kuyambira, nditatha miyezi 11 ndikudziletsa nditha kukhala wosangalala ndi mnzanga komanso ndimakhala ndi vuto lochepa . Ndiyeneranso kudziwa kuti mtundu wanga womangika unali wodabwitsa, koma ED sinakhalepo vuto kwa ine. Komabe ndikudziwa kuti pali anthu kunja uko omwe angayembekezere kutsika pang'ono atasiya kwambiri, kotero ndine wokondwa kuti nditha kugwiritsa ntchito akaunti yanga kutsutsa izi motsutsana ndi maakaunti a ena.
Nanga nchiyani chikuchitika tsopano?
Ndikupitabe ku Nofap (NoPorn ndi give). Masiku 339 amenewo osachitapo kanthu, akhala ofunika kwambiri. tsiku lililonse =. Panopa ndikukumana ndi zovuta, makamaka nditakhala ndi ziphuphu za 5 m'masiku awiri koma ndikudziwa kuti ndimatha kuzidutsa. Inenso sindili pantchito, koma ndili ndi zambiri pano zoti ndizitanganidwa.
Chimachitika ndi chiani ndi mtsikanayo? …Sindikudziwa. Tikulumikizanabe, ndipo ndakhala ndikulumikizana ndi wina kudziko lina kale koma uyu sapezeka pang'ono. Koma ndikudziwa kuti ndiyamikira nthawi yomwe ndidakhala naye, ndipo ndikhulupilira kuti atero.
Zikomo powerenga. Ndayika izi apa, chifukwa ndilibe kabuku komabe zimawoneka ngati zoyenera.
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