Patha masiku 90 kuyambira pomwe ndidayamba nofap pa hardmode. Miyezi itatu yomwe yakhala yovuta. Ndinayamba nofap milungu ingapo nditatha. Ubalewo udakhala zaka zisanu ndipo kutha kwake kudandigunda kwambiri.
Kusungulumwa, chisoni, nkhawa kudzera padenga, kugona tulo. Kotero sinali nthawi yabwino kuyambitsa zovuta ngati nofap, koma ndinatsiriza kuyang'ananso nkhani yotchuka ya TED (Ndinayesapo nofap chaka chatha kwa miyezi itatu kuti ndiwone ngati ndingathe) ndikuzindikira kuti sindingathe pitilizani chizolowezi chomwe chidatsutsana ndi thanzi langa.
Posakhalitsa ndinazindikira kuti kusuta kwa PMO kunali chizindikiro cha mavuto anga. Ndili ndimavuto okhudzana ndi kulera ana omwe ndakhala ndikuchita nawo miyezi yapitayi. Ndinapezanso buku lomwe limakhudza kwambiri moyo wanga, No More Mr. Nice Guy lolemba Robert Glover. Ngati mukukhala ndi mavuto pofotokoza zosowa ndi zokonda zanu ndikumva kufuna kusangalatsa anthu ndikulingalira zomwe iwo angafune, ndikulimbikitsa kuwerenga zowerenga buku laulere: http://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy-ebook/dp/B004C438CW/
Ngati simuli omvera, mwangotaya kanthawi kochepa kuti muwerenge zowonetserako (ndipo mwina mungalimbikitse munthu amene mumamudziwa). Ngati muli m'gulu la omvera, ili likhoza kukhala limodzi mwa mabuku ofunikira kwambiri pamoyo wanu. Ndikudziwa zinali za ine. Mwachidule: kusamalira zosowa za anthu ena ndikuyembekeza kuti adzakusamalirani sizigwira ntchito ndipo kumangokupatsani mphamvu komanso kukwiya.
Zomwe ndazindikira panthawiyi:
- Ndili ndi kukhazikika kwamalingaliro. Ndimakhala wosungulumwa kwambiri, wokhumudwa komanso wokwiya kuposa kale, koma kutengeka uku sikundigwedeza monga momwe amachitira. Ndikosavuta kuwalola kuti abwere kudzayendetsa njira yawo tsopano.
- Kuda nkhawa pang'ono. Kwa zaka zingapo zapitazi nkhawa yakhala boogeyman wanga. Nthawi zina moyo wanga umakhala wambiri pakuthana ndi nkhawa komanso kupewa zinthu zomwe zingayambitse. Sabata yatha ndidakumana ndi chinthu chomwe ndakhala ndikupewa kwa nthawi yoposa chaka chimodzi chomwe chidali chimodzi mwama mantha anga akulu ndi palibe chomwe chidachitika! Ndizodabwitsa.
- Ndikuwoneka bwino. Nkhope yanga ikuwoneka bwino. Chiganizo chachilendo kuti mutchule, koma ndi momwe ziliri.
- Ndimadzimva bwino ndipo ndikugwiritsa ntchito kudzidalira kwanga. Chomwe chimandithandiza kwambiri ndikuti sindiyeneranso kudziona kuti ndine wolakwa chifukwa chazinsinsi zanga. Nditha kuloleza aliyense kuti agwiritse ntchito kompyuta yanga osaganiziranso ndipo sindiyenera kuganiza zomwe mnzanga kapena mtsikana yemwe ndimamufuna angaganize zolaula zomwe ndimaziwona, popeza Sindikuonanso chisawawa. Ufulu komanso kudzilemekeza!
- Nditha kumvetsetsa za azimayi ndikuwawona ngati anthu m'malo moyimira amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Nditayang'ana zolaula ndimaganiziranso kuti sindimayang'ana akazi, koma zili ngati nkhani ya TED momwe munali chithunzi cha nsomba ikufunsa "madzi amadzi ndi otani?" Ndimadzimvanso mlandu kwambiri tsopano momwe ndimawaonera akazi, koma ndimayesetsa kuzisiya.
Simunakhalepo ndi maloto akunyowa, ngakhale ndili masiku 90 ndisanapap. Ndikuganiza kuti zikutanthauza kuti thupi langa ndi ubongo sizinapezeke bwino. Ziribe kanthu, ndiwapatsa nthawi. Ndikupitirizabe pa hardmode mpaka nditayambiranso chibwenzi. Ndatsimikiza mtima kuchita zachiwerewere kudzera maloto onyentchera kapena ndi mkazi kuyambira pano.
Ndiye izi ndi zomwe ndakumanapo nazo. Kodi nofap imakupatsani mphamvu zoposa? Ndikumva bwino tsopano, popeza ndadwala chimfine ndipo sindikuganiza kuti Superman akutenga chimfine. Koma nofap imachotsa chophimbacho chomwe chimakusiyanitsani ndi malingaliro anu, anthu ena ndi dziko lonse lapansi, chophimba chomwe mwadziwonera nokha mosazindikira ndi zolaula.
Zachidziwikire kuti Nofap imapangitsa moyo kukhala wabwino. Ndimalimbikitsa.
KULUMIKIZANA - Masiku 90 pa hardmode: zomwe ndakumanapo nazo
by dudeman_26
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