Ngati pali china choti muphunzire kuchokera ku nkhani zopambana pa NoFap Ndikuganiza kuti kugonana komwe kumawonetsedwa pazama media ndizopanda tanthauzo. Chinthu chachiwiri choti muphunzire ndikuti kugonana konsekonse kuli ngati chakudya, mukamachigwiritsa ntchito kwambiri, mudzakhala wosasangalala kwambiri (choncho chitani izi, koma osati pafupipafupi; musadye nazo) .
Choyamba, ndimafuna kunena kuti ndine wokondwa kuti ndakwanitsa kuthana ndi vuto langa la masiku a 91. Ndiyenera kunena kuti tsambali lidandithandizira kwambiri munjira zambiri. Nkhani za ma fapstronauts ena nthawi zambiri zakhala zikuchitika m'moyo wanga, ndipo zandipangitsa kuganiza za tanthauzo la zinthu zambiri. Njira yomwe tagawana zovuta zathu komanso chidziwitso chotsatirachi ndichofunika kwa maola omwe ndatha kuwerenga tsambali. Miyezi yapitayi yakhala ulendo weniweni kwa ine. Zikomo kwambiri fapstronauts anzathu!
Ngati pali chilichonse chomwe ndimadandaula nacho tsambali ndikusowa kwa chidziwitso chochulukirapo kuchokera kwa amayi fapstronauts ndi amayi ena omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi nkhani za PMO (makamaka momwe zimakhudzira ubale pakati pa akazi ndi amuna; komanso momwe zimakhudzira kutsimikiza kwathu kutsatira maloto athu).
Ndikuganiza kuti okwatirana amatha kuchita zambiri m'moyo kuposa munthu yekhayo. Zowonadi malingaliro ndi chithandizo cha SO yanu zitha kukhala zothandiza kwambiri panthawi zomwe pamafunika kuyesetsa kwakukulu.
M'miyezi ingapo yapitayi ya moyo wanga (miyezi 3-5) ndazindikira kuti ndikufuna kucheza kwambiri, kuwerenga mabuku ndikupitiliza kuphunzira. Ndazindikiranso kuti zosangalatsa ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yogawana zokumana nazo ndi ena… Ineyo pandekha ndimadzipeza ndimakonda kwambiri zakunja ndi chilengedwe chonse. Tsoka ilo, zina mwa zolinga zanga zatsopano zimangodutsa nthawi yocheperako pakompyuta, motero: Pepani kunena kuti sindikhala ndikuwerenga zolemba zochepa ku NoFap. Pepani anyamata. Ndikukhulupirira kuti obwera kumenewo ayamba kugawana zomwe akumana nazo kuyambira positi, ndikuyamba kuyankhulana mwachangu ndi anzawo a fapstronaut (chonde, dzikakamizeni kuti mupite ku r / NoFap / new / nthawi ndi nthawi).
Ndipo chachitatu, (ichi ndiye chofunikira kwambiri) tiyenera kusiya kuwalimbikitsa azimayi. Chikhulupiriro changa ndikuti gawo lalikulu la azimayi amayembekeza kuti asayanjidwe, ndipo mwina ali bwino nazo; angofika kumene kuti avomereze zowonadi. Musalole kuti kutsutsana kumeneku kukupangitseni kuvomereza vutoli [, kuti kuloza akazi ndichinthu choyenera kuchita,] zowonadi !! Ndizolakwika kwambiri! Ndiyenera kunena kuti (ngakhale ndidakali wachichepere ndipo sindinaphunzire za malingaliro awa) kuphunzira kuyamikira amayi kuposa momwe amawonekera ndichimodzi mwazinthu zabwino kwambiri m'moyo. Pr0n idakhudza kwambiri malingaliro anga kwa akazi… ndimadana nawo chifukwa cha izi !! Sindidzayang'ananso (mawu enieni a kudzipereka kwanga amapezeka pamawu anga, kapena mutha kundifunsa za izi).
Ndikukhulupirira kuti ambiri a ife titha kudzipereka miyoyo yathu panjira yakukula kwathu. Ndipo kumbukirani nthawi zonse! Chisangalalo chilichonse m'moyo chimatha kukhala chosasangalatsa! Ndili wotsimikiza kupitiliza kuthana ndi vuto la NoFap malinga momwe ndingathere. Ndikukhulupirira kuti nthawi yomwe ndidzabwererenso sipadzakhalanso.
Khalani abale amphamvu!
LINK - Ndidakwanitsa! Ndimangofuna kugawana malingaliro ena pazovuta za NoFap.
by lewis_therin
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