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Wobadwa wopanda Msana.
Kodi msana ndi chiyani? Sanayambe wakhalapo. Mukuyankhula ndi mnyamata, yemwe wakhala nsomba zamunthu. Mukuganiza kuti zolemba zotsatirazi ndizodabwitsa, koma sindisamala. Nthawi zina chowonadi chimakhala chachilendo chotero. Nthawi zina chowonadi chimatigunda kumaso, monga momwe zidandichitira.
Ndinali chizolowezi chogonana kwa zaka zambiri. Kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 16. Ndicho chizolowezi choyipa kwambiri. Kaya ndi nzeru za kummawa, kapena kusowa kwa malankhulidwe amkati mwanu, pali chinthu chimodzi chomwe ndikudziwa chomwe chimakwaniritsidwa kudzera muzovuta zilizonse. Mwamuna wokonda zachiwerewere, sadzakhala chilichonse.
Patha zaka zambiri, koma ndingathe kungochita chimodzi. Mphamvu zakugonana ndiye msana wa munthu. Apo ine ndinanena izo. Ndatha mphamvu zanga kwazaka zambiri ndikukhala moyo wopanda phindu, wofooka, wopambana. Mwamuna wokonda zachiwerewere, yemwe amasewera maliseche kwambiri kapena amataya mphamvu zake. Chilichonse chomwe chimapangitsa mwamuna kukhala chomwe ali, wamphamvu, wokhazikika m'maganizo komanso wokhoza kuchita zomwe akuyenera kuchita mdziko lino, ndi zotsatira zakusamutsa mphamvu zakugonana kuchokera pachinthu china kupita china.
Mafilosofi akum'mawa nthawi zonse ankadziwa izi. Mphamvu zogonana zakhala zikudziwika kuti Jing. (kapena chi) - Phiri la Napoleon adalemba za izi mu chaputala chake cha Think and Grow rich, "Chinsinsi cha Kusandulika Pogonana." - Nthawi yomwe ndinasiya kuseweretsa maliseche; ndipo ndinapereka ukapolo wanga ku mawonekedwe achikazi ndipo chidwi chake chinali nthawi yomwe ndidakula msana. Mwamuna alibe chochita, koma kukula msana. Mukumuwona mwana wofookayo pakona, ndi wofooka; akudzichepetsera, kudzimvera wekha pazomwe ena amaganiza za iye, wofooka m'malingaliro; mosavuta mawu. Mutha kumutcha mwana uja kuti wasokonekera.
Sindikudziwa momwe zimagwirira ntchito. Sindikudziwa chifukwa chake ndi momwe zimakhalira. Koma kuseweretsa maliseche kapena kumwa mowa mwauchidakwa, kumandisiya ndili wofooka. Zinthu zimandifikira. Ndimadzidzimuka mosavuta. Anayankhula. Dziko lingathe kubwera kwa ine. Ndipatseni masabata atatu osakwatira ndipo ndili ndi mphamvu kuyambira pa Muzu. Phokoso lilibe kanthu, ziphulika. Ngozi, mabang'i. Kuyankhula zoyipa. Sizindivuta. Ndimayenda ndimayenda momasuka, zinthu sizimandivuta… mpaka pamlingo wina.
Izi, zidangopezeka, kudzera pagulu laposachedwa kwambiri la gulu lotsutsa zolaula. (yourbrainonporn.com) - Koma izi sizimangobwerera ku sukulu yanga yasekondale, zidandilimbikitsa mpaka ndatha zaka 20. Munthu wofooka wopanda chilichonse chosonyeza pamoyo wake. Ndili ndi maluso komanso maluso, koma palibe amene adasinthidwa kuti akhale china chake chomwe chingakhale chandalama. Ndine chimake cha zomwe mungati "Kulephera." pamagulu ambiri.
Sizinachitike mpaka nditazindikira kulimbana kowawa kofuna kusakwatiwa, kudziona ndekha, ndi kuvomereza, mpaka nditayamba kukonza zina zomwe zidawonongeka. Palibe chomwe chimapweteka kwambiri kuposa munthu wopanda moyo wocheza. Mwamuna yemwe amayendetsa, wosungulumwa, yemwe amakhala mkati ndi kunja kwa chidziwitso akulankhulana ndi anthu ochepa tsiku lililonse. "Yabodza mpaka utatha." iwo amati, koma sizigwira ntchito konse. Mabuku ambiri othandizira, njira zodzithandizira, komanso maola owerengera ndekha angangondibweretsera kumvetsetsa kwakanthawi kochepa kokhudzana ndi psyche yaumunthu, ndekha, komanso kuwonongeka komwe ndachita pazaka zambiri.
Kusakwatira. Kusakwatira kwakhala, ndipo ndiye maziko a mphamvu zonse. Ndikusakwatira ndekha, ndikukonzekera mphindi, ndinatha Kumvekanso ngati munthu. Izi, zimangobisala mchaka changa chodzipatula, ulesi komanso kudzipha. Nchiyani chinayambitsa icho? Kuchita maliseche mokakamiza. Zosadziwika kwa ine. Zomwe tinali nazo pa Google, kufunafuna "KODI kuseweretsa maliseche kukuyipirani?" - kungotsimikizidwanso ndi masamba ambiri aku Western Medical popeza ndizabwino.
Chaka chophunzira kusakwatira chinakula msana ndi umuna mwa ine. Ndinali wazaka XXUMX ndikupita pa 27 kachiwiri. Nthawiyi, ngakhale, akumayenda mosagwirizana ndi testosterone, yolimbikitsidwa ndi Manning owona. Maganizo achi Rebel-popanda-chifukwa-chosasangalatsa anali ndi ine pa malo ochezera a Chibwenzi, kuganiza zolaula, kumenya ndewu, komanso kuchita zachiwerewere zosabereka zomwe sizimabala. Kusokonezeka komanso kuphulika kwa mphamvu zakugonana popanda chitsogozo chakuwongolera kunandithandiza kukhazikika muukwati ndi kuwongolera kwanga, koma osatha kuchita china chilichonse.
Ndidapusitsidwa kuganiza kuti nthawi zambiri osakwatirana amafunika kuchita ntchito zina ngati zabwinobwino, komanso kusadzikayikira. Koma ndinapezanso ubongo wanga watsopano wa celibate Unali ndi luso la masamu komanso kukumbukira. Ndinali wokhoza koposa. Ndimamva bwino. Ndimamva kuti Ndikadamvanso chimodzimodzi pamene ndinali wachinyamata ndikumakula.
Sindinakule mpaka kukhala bambo.
Kukula muunyamata, kumapeto kwa zaka za m'ma 20 ndi chinthu chopweteka. Mukataya umuna wanu posachedwa komanso maliseche tsiku lililonse, mumazindikira kuti simunakhalepo ndi kalikonse. Koma sichinthu changwiro, chododometsa kudzipereka paumbeta chokha chomwe chidanditsogolera m'mitsempha yopenga yamisala, kugona tulo komanso kutulutsa mphamvu. Anali mphamvu yomwe sinali kupita kulikonse, kungopanga zizolowezi zatsopano zausiku posakatula pa intaneti ndikumwa mowa kwambiri.
Chithunzithunzi.
Kupezeka kwa chithunzi changa komanso kusinkhasinkha kunandipatsa njira yoti ndizitsogolere. Ndinkatha kusinkhasinkha ndikudziwona pandekha nthawi zina ndikubweretsa mbali zosiyanasiyana za chidaliro. Kudziwona ndekha muzochitika zosiyanasiyana zomwe zimachitika mothandizidwa ndi mphamvu yakusagonana kwandipangitsa kuti ndizichita izi. Zedi iyi inali njira yomangira msana. Ndipo kwakanthawi, zidawoneka choncho. Onani m'maganizo mwanu mwamphamvu pamachitidwe ena ndipo mudzakhala. Onani m'maganizo mwanu pogonjetsa adani. Zowona + za Celibacy zimawoneka ngati mwayi wanga kuti ndawonongeke.
Koma zomwe ndimaganiza nazo ndidabweretsa.
Kuwonetsera.
Pantchito yomwe ndimachita ndi anthu ovuta, ndidatenga langizo la bukulo ndikudziwona ndekha tsiku lililonse, ndikulimba mtima poyang'ana zowopsa, zamanyazi, komanso anthu okayikira. Chodabwitsa ndichakuti, zinthu izi zinayamba kuchitika. Amayamba ngakhale kuchitika, ndili kutali ndi malo antchito. Zochitika zokha? Sindikuganiza. Inali mphindi iyi yomwe ndinazindikira zomwe ndimaganiza, ndinabweretsa, ndikunditsogolera kuthekera kokuwonekera.
VS. Zoona.
Tsopano ndikudziyesa ndekha mu ntchito yomwe ndikufuna kukhala. M'mikhalidwe yomwe ndikufuna kukhala. Kuchita zinthu zomwe ndiyenera kuchita kuti ndikafike komwe ndikufuna. Ngati pali ntchito inayake yomwe ndikufuna, ndimadziwona ndikugwira ntchitoyo, kulembedwa ntchito, ndikuyamba ntchito. Ndikadakhala kuti malingaliro anga amabweretsa zomwe sindimafuna kuti zichitike, ndiye kuti zomwe ndikufuna zichitike ndikadangoyang'ana pa zabwino zokha. Ngati ndisanadziwonetse ndekha ndikulankhula ndi munthu wovuta; ndipo izi zitha kuwonekera m'masiku anga khumi, kenako ndinasiya kuwona munthu wovutayo, ndikundiyang'ana m'madyelo obiriwira.
Kuwonetsera kumapitilirabe.
Zinthu zinachitika, mosakayikira. Ayi, sindine milionea. Koma ndikuwona zenizeni. Ndikuganiza ngati mungadziwonetsere nokha pantchito yomwe mukufuna, kuphatikiza mphamvu yanu yakusakwatirana, mudzakhala ndi msana ndi kulimba mtima, ndikulimba mtima kwauzimu komwe mumapeza chifukwa chakukula kwanu kuti mufike kumene mukufuna. Palibe kukayika kuti tonsefe talumikizidwa ndi ndege yachilendo, yauzimu yomwe ndi yofananira. Ganizirani malingaliro odabwitsa, khalani moyo wodabwitsa. Dziwoneni nokha mukuchita zomwe mukufuna kuchita, mudzakhala olimba mtima komanso mphamvu kuti muchite. Koma osakwatira zidzakupatsani mphamvu.
Msana.
Kulingalira zabwino zakomwe mukufuna kukhala, kuchita, kapena zokumana nazo ndikokwanira kukupatsani msana… M'mikhalidwe imeneyi, koma osayenda m'njira zamoyo. Nditha kuona kuti ndikudzidalira kwambiri nthawi zina, koma ndilibe mphamvu zokwanira zakuwonera ndekha nthawi zonse. Nditha kuona m'maganizo mwanga ndikuchita pamaso pa anthu 20 pagombe, koma ndikakhala ndi nkhawa ndikamayendetsa mumsewu wopanikiza.
Ndimatha kudziwona ndekha akuchita molimba mtima pachionetsero cha Talente, koma sizimandibweza nkhawa kupitilira omwe amapezerera anzawo kusukulu. Nanga msana ndi chiyani ndipo timatani? Yankho la funsoli lili pagalasi.
Ngati zomwe ndimaganiza, ndikubweretsa, sindikanayerekeza ndekha kuyimilira anthu ambiri omwe amapezerera anzawo tsopano? Zachidziwikire, chithunzi cha ine ndekha poyimirira kwa ovutitsa ANANDIPATSA msana wochitira. Ndidayimirira ozunza anzawo, kuposa zomwe ndidakambirana kale. Koma ndimachitidwe omwewa pomwe ndidazindikira zomwe ndimaganiza kuti ndidabweretsa. Opezerera anzawo anali kutuluka mu Woodwork kuti AKHALE NDI INE, chifukwa ndinangoziwona! Ndipo ngati simukukhulupirira, yesani.
Panali yankho lina. Galasi. Kungondiuza ndekha kuti "sindimatengera zoyipa za aliyense." pakalilore, kwa masabata awiri owongoka, zinali zokwanira kuti ndizingoyankha mwanjira zoyenera. Palibe mphamvu zomwe zimawonongeka mu "kuganiza" kwa wopezerera, ndipo timathana ndi moyo. Inu ndi galasi. Kuyang'ana molunjika mu moyo wanu. Kudzipatsa nokha msana. Zachidziwikire, ndimantha onse omwe adadza ndikamapitiliza ndi mchitidwewu, zidasinthika. Kuda nkhawa kwama supermarket. “Anthu akundiyang'ana modabwitsa. ”
Ndidabweza.
Anthu amaganiza kuti ndine wokongola, komanso wosangalatsa. ”
Kapena .. "Anthu atha kuganiza kuti sindinachite bwino ndikawayang'ana."
"Ndimayang'ana kumene ndikufuna."
Pambuyo pochita izi, mwamantha aliwonse omwe ndinali nawo, msana wanga unakula. Inde, ndinali ndi mndandanda wa pafupifupi 20 kapena 30 zamitundumitundu zomwe zidasinthidwa, mawu abwino ndidadziwuza ndekha za mantha aliwonse omwe ndinali nawo. Patatha pafupifupi milungu iwiri, ndinadzipeza ndekha ndikuyang'ana komwe ndimafuna, ndikulankhula ndi omwe ndimafuna, ndipo nthawi zambiri sindimadzimvera chisoni. Nthawi zambiri osasamala. M'malo mwake, chachikulu ndi "Sindikusamala zomwe anthu amaganiza za ine." masabata awiri akudziuza wekha kuti .. ndipo simupereka chindapusa.
Ndipo kotero zimapitirira.
Chifukwa chiyani kusamalira konseku? Sindingathe kukuwuzani chifukwa chake. Sindikudziwa kunena zoona. Ndikudziwa kuti ngati ndikudziwona ndekha ndikulephera kumwa mowa, kenako ndikusiya mowa, ndimakonda kukhala wosachedwa kudziletsa. M'malo mwake, ndidasiya kumwa kwa mwezi umodzi pamfundo iyi yokha. Koma panafunika khama tsiku lililonse. Chithunzichi chimakhala champhamvu.
Chifukwa chiyani kukonza zonse? Zimabwereranso kuwerewere. Mtundu woyipisitsa bongo. Chidwi chimodzi chomwe chimakuwonongerani mphamvu ndi mphamvu zanu zauzimu. Ndipo zikalephera mphamvu zauzimu ndi mphamvu, mphamvu zopanda pake zimadzaza kanthu. Mumakhala dzenje lakuda lamantha, nkhawa, kuda nkhawa komanso nthawi imayamba. Zikhulupiriro zoyipa zomwe zimakhazikitsidwa ali mwana, zimakula kukhala njira ya moyo. Mumachita mantha kuchokera kwa anthu pamene mukupita kunjaku.
Izi ndi njira zokhazo zomwe ndaphunzira chaka chatha chokha, kudzera mumayesero, zolakwika, ndi kuyesa, mobwerezabwereza, komanso kupitilira maola ambiri ndilingalira. Maola osinkhasinkha pazomwe tidapangidwa, zomwe zimatikhudza mwauzimu, ndi zomwe tingachite nazo. Tonse ndife mphamvu zauzimu. Malingaliro athu ndi zomwe timaganizira zimawonetsedwa mwanjira ina. Ayi, sindinatenge $ 5,000 m'njira yanga powonera, koma ndikutsimikiza kuti ndatsegula zitseko zina pochita izi. Chifukwa chake ngati ndi choncho, sitiyenera kuda nkhawa. Chilichonse chimaperekedwa kwa ife. Zomwe tiyenera kuchita ndikuziwona m'maganizo mwathu.
Ndidawerengapo kuti zolaula ndizolumikizana ndi zikhalidwe zilizonse. Ndikamakana kugonana, ndimaganiziranso zinthu zina. Mphamvu zambiri zomwe timakhala nazo zolimbana ndi zinthu zina.
Ena mwa inu mungaganize kuti muli ndi mavuto onsewa, mwina ndi azimayi, anthu, kapena ntchito. Ndikufuna ndikuuzeni kuti, kudzera mukuzindikira kuti tili chiwonetsero cha chikumbumtima chathu, palibe chomwe chingathetsedwe kudzera pakupenyetsetsa kwina kapena malingaliro abwino kwa ife eni. Atsikana, Ntchito, Kulanga .. Chilichonse chitha kuphunziridwa.
Mabuku omwe ndikukulimbikitsani kuti muwerenge.
Psycho-Cybernetiks.
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