Zaka 28 - Wokwatirana: masiku 365 monk mode, masiku 590 athunthu.

Ndidabweza kanthawi pang'ono za momwe ndingachitire 365 day monk mode ndi mkazi. Pa tsiku 366 ndidakondana ndi mkazi wanga. Kuyambira pamenepo ndasiya kutumiza pano. Ndimafunsa kuti komwe kantchito yanga ili kuti kodi ndimalingalira chiyani. Ndikukhulupirira kuti cheke chosavutachi chikhoza kupereka chiyembekezo kwa munthu amene akuganiza zosatheka.

Ndazichita. Ndidachita ndi SO. Ndidachita icho kwa chaka chathunthu. Aliyense angathe kuzichita ngati ndikanatha. Ndinachoka pakujambula 5-6 kangapo patsiku kuti ayi. Moyo wanga ndiwabwino. Anu akhoza kukhala nawonso. Ngati wina akufuna kudzoza andiponya PM. Apa nkuti masiku a 600!

LINK - 590 tsiku lowetsani.

by Khalidalak


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1 Chaka cha hardmode chatha.

Ndine wokondwa kunena kuti ndidapanga masiku a 365. Ndidzapitiliza ulendo wamtundu wa nofap koma Im ndikukonzeka kuyika kumbuyo kwanga kumbuyo. Usikuuno, ndipanga chikondi chotsekemera kwa mkazi wanga. WOOHOO! NDINAPANGIRA!


MAFUNSO & Mayankho

Kodi mkazi wanu anatani mutamupatsa chisankhochi? Kodi adatsutsa? Ndikutanthauza, amayi amafunikiranso kugonana, sichoncho? Ndikufunsa chifukwa ndimaganizira zotere koma ndimaopa momwe GF yanga ichitire.

Mukufuna chibwenzi chikhala kwamuyaya, sichoncho? Osachepera ndimatero. Mu mawonekedwe osatha, chaka sichiri chilichonse chofunsira. Mkazi wokhulupirika amakhala zaka zambiri chifukwa cha amuna awo odala, odwala, ovulala, ndi amuna awo akutali. Ngati zogonana ndizofunika kwambiri kwa inu ndiye kutalika kwaubwenzi wanu, ndiye kuti njira yotsatsira mkango siyabwino. Ndipo moona, bwanji mungafune kukhala ndi munthu yemwe amasamala kwambiri zakugonana kuposa momwe mukumvera?

Pambuyo pa 365 pamawonedwe amonke, kodi mudayamba kugonana ndi akazi anu nthawi zonse? Kodi munganene kuti kudziletsa kwasintha ubale? Nanga bwanji kugonana ndi mkazi wako?

Izi zidakulitsa ubale wathu momwe ndimawonera mkazi wanga kuti ndi wofanana ndendende kale. Ndizodabwitsa. Takhala limodzi pafupifupi zaka 10. China chake chimachitika m'mabanja ena momwe mumangoyamba kugonana pang'ono. Izi zimabweretsa kugwidwa kwam'maganizo komanso kwakuthupi komwe ndikuganiza kuti ndichomwe chimayambitsa chisudzulo. Mungaganize kuti kupitiriza kudziletsa kungasokoneze ubale wanga, sichoncho? Koma zidachita zosiyana. Pamene ndimafuna kugonana, koma sindinkalemba pafupipafupi momwe ndimafunira, ndimawoneka kuti ndimakana mkazi wanga. Nditasankha kusasiya, ndinatenga mphamvu yakugonana kwa tonsefe. Izi zimabweretsa kukhumudwa pang'ono muubwenzi. M'malo mokhumudwa kuti mkazi wanga "watopa kwambiri" kapena wakhumudwa chifukwa adaganiza zololeza mwana wathu wamkazi kugona pabedi pathu usiku womwe ukupangidwira chikondi. Kukhumudwa kumeneko kunatha. Ndinkadziwa kuti ndili mgululi kwa nthawi yayitali, chifukwa chake ndimayenera kulumikizana ndi mkazi wanga pamalingaliro komanso m'maganizo. Zili ngati, ndimakhala patali ngati chilango chifukwa chosowa chibwenzi, zomwe ndizovuta kuchita. Zimangobweretsa mavuto ambiri. Mwa kupeŵa ndinayandikira kwambiri m'njira zina zofunika kwambiri. Izi zimapangitsa kuti mkazi wanga azikopeka kwambiri ndi ine ngati munthu, osati kungokhala dick. Zomwe zili ngati…. ambiri azimayi ogonana. Pakutha chaka mkazi wanga amafuna kuti andang'ambe nsalu. Osati chifukwa tidakana, koma chifukwa ndidayesetsa kuyesetsa mbali zina zaubwenzi wanga zomwe zidayambitsanso chidwi chake kwa ine. Ndikumva mwachikondi kuposa kale lonse.

Chaka popanda fucking mkazi wanu? Ndinu m'bale.

Kodi mkazi wanga adasokonekera chifukwa cha miyezi 9 ali ndi pakati? Ndiyenera kuti ndinamunyenga? Kodi mkazi wanga amayenera kuchita chinyengo pamene ndinatumizidwa? Ichi ndiye cholakwika chachikulu pamalingaliro amtunduwu, ndipo chimachokera kwa anthu omwe cholinga chawo ndikungogonana ndi mkazi. Cholinga changa sichinali kugonana. Ndikhoza kugonana nthawi iliyonse yomwe ndikufuna. Cholinga chake chinali kulimbikitsa ubale wanga ndi mkazi wanga. Pambuyo pazaka 10 chibwenzi chathu chinali chosokonekera. Kugonana kunali kwabwino, koma sikunali kovuta kuganiza. Zinafika poti ndimakonda kuseweretsa maliseche kuposa zogonana chifukwa zimafunikira nthawi yanga yocheperako ndipo sindinakhumudwitse aliyense. M'malo mokonzekera chibwenzi changa, ndimayesetsa kuti ndikule. Kodi izi zitha kukhala zopindulitsa bwanji pachibwenzi changa?

Sindinaganize kwa mphindi mkazi wanga angabere. Anali munthu wothandizira kwambiri pazonsezi. Thandizo lina kuposa dera lino. Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi wina kwa moyo wanu wonse, chaka chodzipereka sichinthu chofunikira kwambiri. Ngati SO yanu silinganyengere ngati choncho, ndiye kuti ubalewo udzawonongeka.

Ndi maubwino ati akuthupi ndi m'maganizo omwe mwakumana nawo?

M'maganizo ake kumasula. Kusaganizira za akazi ngati zinthu zakugonana komanso osadzipereka miliyoni miliyoni zogonana nthawi zonse mukachoka panyumba kapena kutsegula kompyuta mwina ndiye phindu lalikulu. Osatetezedwa kwathunthu pakugonana. Ndikumva ngati "chidaliro" chomwe ndimamva kuti sichidalira kwenikweni. Kutha kwake ndikulankhula ndi mkazi osakhala ndi nkhawa kapena kuchita manyazi chifukwa cha zovuta zina zogonana kapena china chake. Ndimatha kungotenga anthu ngati anthu, amuna ndi akazi.

Kodi mungafananize bwanji moyo usanachitike komanso pambuyo pake?

Kusiyana kwausana ndi usana. Moyo wathu wogonana ndi 1000x wabwinoko. Kutha kwathu kufotokozera zolinga zathu ndikosavuta tsopano. Zinthu zambiri zangokhala zabwinoko. Sindikumutenga ngati mtolo wina womwe ndikudikirira mwayi woti ndigwire. Sindikudziwa. Ndizovuta kuzifotokoza.

Kodi mkazi wanu anali bwanji chaka chatha?

Amandithandiza kwambiri. Chibale chathu chinali pamiyala kale kotero inali mwayi wathu kuti tisinthe ndikusintha.

Kodi pali chilichonse chododometsa chomwe chidakuchitikirani panthawiyi osakonzekera kugonana ndi mkazi? Zosintha zina ndimakonda kuchita?

Ndataya 65lbs. Ndinaleka kumwa. Ndinayamba kusewera gofu ya disc. Ndinayambanso kulemba nyimbo. Ndinkacheza ndi anzanga kwambiri m'malo mozungulira nyumba tsiku lonse likukongola. Izi zimabweretsa ubale wabwino ndi abwenzi. Ndili ndi kukwezedwa kuntchito ndipo tsopano ndili manejala pano.

Id amati mbali zonse za moyo wanga zapeza phindu chaka chimenecho. Nyengo iwo anali akuchokera kapena ayi sindingathe kunena motsimikiza. Ndimakonda kuganiza kuti alipo, koma chaka chatha anali chimake cha moyo wanga.