Ndalemba zolemba zingapo zazitali chaka chatha ndikufotokoza momwe mungachitire chidwi ndi zolaula, komanso momwe mungathetsere. Patsiku lokumbukira, ndikungofuna kunena kuti ndikuthokoza bwanji kuti sindinachite zolaula.
Kukhala womasuka ku ukapolo wa zolaula ndi mphatso yayikulu kuposa chilichonse chomwe ndingaganizire. Inde, mayesero alipo. Inde, ndimatha kugwa nthawi iliyonse ngati sindikhala tcheru komanso woona mtima. Koma, moyo womwe ndikukhala tsopano ndi wosiyana ndi moyo wanga chaka chapitacho. M'mbuyomu, ndimamva ngati kugonjera kuyeseraku ndikosapeweka. Ndinali ndadzipereka kulira kwa sireni nthawi zambiri kotero ndimaganiza kuti kulibe chiyembekezo. Sindinadziwe ngati tingapambane nkhondoyi.
Tsopano ndikudziwa kuti zitha, ndikuti pali amuna ambiri kumeneko omwe akupambana. Ndikuthokoza kwambiri chifukwa chogonjera kumeneku. Nonse a inu paulendowu, khalani olimba mtima pitilizani ndewu!
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MWEZI 6 - 6 yayikulu
Hei nonse, ndimangofuna kulemba zolemba pamwezi wanga wa 6. Wokongola. Ndimangofuna kuti nditsegule ngati aliyense ali ndi mafunso, ndiyankha. Ngati mukuganiza kuti mukufuna kuyamba izi… chitani izi. Ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zabwino kwambiri zomwe ndidachitapo.
Chiyambi: Ndine 34 ndipo ndinayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndili ndi zaka 12. Kuledzera kumeneku kunali pafupifupi 5 - 7 nthawi pasabata ndi ma binges omwe amalumpha mpaka ~ 10 patsiku. Ndakhala P free masiku 180, ndipo MO mfulu masiku 167. (MO anali wopanda zongopeka) Zinthu zazikuluzikulu zakhala: reddit, ybop, Ted's yokhudzana ndi zolaula, kuwulula kwathunthu ndi mkazi wanga kuphatikiza kuyankha mafunso onse moona mtima, kuyankha mlandu ndi m'busa wanga, kuwona mlangizi wazokwatirana sabata iliyonse, ndi x3watch .
ADVICE
Nthawi yanga yovuta kwambiri inali pa 2 - 3 sabata. Thupi lanu likuyesera kuti mudziwe komwe zolaula zapita, ndi momwe zingabwezeretsere. - Ndiroleni ndikuuzeni chinsinsi chakuchita izi bwino. Mphamvu yakudziletsa sikubwera m'masiku osavuta, koma kunkhondo zomwe mumapulumuka. Ndipano pomwe muyenera kuyamba kuganizira mozama za izi. Kodi mukufunadi kuchita izi kwa nthawi yayitali? Ngati muli, ino ndi nthawi yoti mukhale ndi zida zokwanira. Nazi zina zofunika kuchita:
akapsa
- Dziwani, ndipo phunzirani kwa iwo.
- Choyambitsa pano chikhoza kukhala loto, kapena mwina ndichomwe chidachitika kale. Zilibe kanthu kuti zidafika bwanji pamenepo, ingokhalani ndikungoyang'ana muubongo wanu komwe adachokera, ndipo dziwani kuti tsopano muli pachiwopsezo
- Maloto ogonana amayamwa, omveka komanso osavuta. Ndizo zoyambitsa zazikulu kwambiri zomwe mungakhale nazo, ndikukusiyirani moto tsiku lonse kufunafuna kumasulidwa. Mutha kuzichita nofap, kapena fap ... Ndikupangira nofap pakadali pano kuti muchiritse. Dziwani mozama ubongo wanu ndikamalowa, ndipo nenani "Dzina langa ndi ndipo sindimayang'ana zolaula "
Zopewera
- Zinthu zotsutsa ndi zida za nkhondo zomwe zimapangitsa kuti malingaliro anu atenthedwe pakanthawi kochepa, ndikuthandizani kukumbutsa za inu omwe siopusa.
- Zomwe ndimayambitsa zotsutsana nazo zimakhala, kuganizira zamakampani opanga zolaula komanso momwe zimawonongera anthu omwe akukhudzidwa. Ngati ndili ndi zolaula zomwe sizingathe m'mutu mwanga, ndimaganizira zomwe zimachitika ochita sewerowo akamaliza. Ndikuganiza zowona zake, komanso momwe amadzichiritsira okha matenda opatsirana pogonana. Ndimaganizira za mayiyo komanso momwe angakhalire yekha, akulira pakona penapake, atakhumudwa ndi moyo wake. Ndimaganizira za momwe ndingayang'anire zolaula, ndikuthandizira.
- Izi zimabwera pambuyo pake, koma ndimaganiziranso za momwe moyo wanga wakulira. Ndakhala pabanja zaka 14, ndipo ubale wanga ndi mkazi wanga ndiwodabwitsa. Ubale wanga ndi ana anga ndiwodabwitsa. Sindikumangidwa ndi makompyuta / foni kuyesera kudzikondweretsa ndekha. Chofunika koposa, ndimamva bwino za ine ndekha. Ndikudziwa kuti izi zikumveka ngati zadyera, koma ndizolimbikitsa kwambiri kuti musapewe zolaula. Moyo uli bwino basi
Misc.
- Osangolota… konse… osazichita. Ngati mukufuna kusamba, ganizirani za momwe akumvera, ndipo ndi zomwezo. Palibe zamaliseche, zogonana, zovala zamkati, zilizonse, muubongo. Ngati choyimbira chikudumphira muubongo wanu, sinthani chinthu china.
- Pezani malo mwa inu nokha omwe simukuyenera kuti muzitha. Ndinakula msanga, koma kenako ndinamva kuti zinali zosafunikira, ndipo sindinapite miyezi 10 ikubwerayi. Zachidziwikire, osangokhala ndi zongoyerekeza.
- Pezani pulogalamu yoyankha mlandu pakompyuta yanu ndi foni. Ine ndekha ndimagwiritsa ntchito maso apangano. Ine ndekha ndimaona kuti sindikuzifuna, koma ndizabwino kwambiri kuganiza kuti zida zimenezo ndizoletsa. Ndizosangalatsanso kuti abusa anga ndi akazi anga amatha kuwona zochitika zanga pa intaneti nthawi iliyonse. Izi mwachiwonekere zimapangitsa zolaula kukhala zopanda malire, komanso zimapangitsa kuti malo amtunduwu asakhalenso malire. Mukudziwa, iwo omwe mungapange mwayi woti akhumudwe nawo mwangozi. Mapulogalamu oyankha mlandu amatseka zinthuzo.
- Imeneyi inali yanga kwa ine, koma inali gawo lofunika kwambiri pakuchira kwanga. Muli ndi mkazi, kambiranani naye. Ngati sakudziwa kuti muli ndi vuto la zolaula, muuzeni. Kenako muuzeni kuti atha kufunsa funso lililonse, ndipo muyankha moona mtima. Zimasokoneza, ndipo pali mwayi woti akusiyani… koma chinali chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe ndidachitapo m'moyo wanga. Ndinali wogwiritsa ntchito zolaula kwa zaka 23, ndipo inali nthawi yoyamba mzaka zambiri kuti ndinalibe chinsinsi chamdima mumtima mwanga. Imeneyinso ndi anti-choyambitsa chabwino kwa ine… SINDIFUNA kukhala ndi china chake chobisika mumtima mwanga. Sikoyenera.
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