Pambuyo masiku 10 opanda PMO, ndinatha kugonana kwambiri ndi mkazi wanga. Sitinachite izi mwina miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, ndipo maulendo angapo apitawa adatha ndi ED kapena DE.
Koma nthawi ino ndinali wokonzeka. Ndinkachita mantha nditakana PM, mpaka ndinakhala ndikuwonetsetsa komanso kuwonana. Zachisoni ndimangokhala O ndikumaganiza zachiwerewere zakunja, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ndidakali ndi msewu wautali woti ndiyende. Koma uku kunali kuyamba kwabwino.
Mkazi wanga anali akumwetulira kwambiri pankhope yake nthawi yonseyi. Sadziwa mavuto anga makamaka, koma ndikudziwa kuti akudziwa kuti china chake chasintha. Ndikuthokoza kwambiri gululi, onse omwe amapereka ndemanga pa ulusi wanga wakale komanso kwa ena onse omwe akhala akugawana nkhani zawo ndikuwathandiza. Ndikudziwa kuti nditha kuthana ndi chizolowezi chonyansachi tsopano
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Hei aliyense. Ndine 37 / m, ndipo mothandizidwa ndi ine ndikuyesera kukankha chizolowezi cha fap (25). Ndili tsiku la 9 la nofap ndipo usikuuno ndakhala wovuta kwambiri mpaka pano. Ndikulemba zonsezi pofuna kuti ndisabwererenso.
Ndinali mwana wamanyazi komanso wodziwa zambiri, ndipo zinali zovuta kwambiri kuti ndipeze anzanga. Ndili ndi zaka 12 tidasamukira m'matawuni ndipo ndidayamba sukulu yasekondale popanda aliyense amene ndimamudziwa. Ndinayambanso kutha msinkhu nthawi yomweyo, ndipo mahomoni sanathandize aliyense. Ndinazindikira maliseche komanso momwe zimakhalira bwino, ndikubwerera kudziko lapansi m'malo mokhala m'malo anga atsopanowa. Kuchokera nthawi imeneyo ndakhala ndi chizolowezi cha 1-2x tsiku lililonse.
Chifukwa chodzimva kuti ndine wosakwanira m'thupi langa komanso momwe ndimakhalira, ndinapezeka kuti ndimachitira nsanje anyamata otchuka kusukulu. Mwanjira imeneyi malingaliro awa adalumikizana ndi MO, ndipo ndidatha kulingalira za anyamata ena. Ndikamachita izi, ndizomwe zimandivuta, ndipo ndikamadziimba mlandu kwambiri pazomwe ndasankha komanso kugonana kwanga.
Zinaipiraipira nditapeza zolaula pa intaneti. Kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 16, ndimayang'ana nkhani zolaula komanso zithunzi kuti ndisiye. AOL ndi BBS adandipatsa zinthu zambiri zopanda pake, ndipo kutsika kunapitilira. Ndimakonda kwambiri zolaula. Chodabwitsa, zochitika zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha zidandichotsa, koma zithunzi za ungwiro wamwamuna ndizomwe zidandipangitsa. Malingaliro awa adathetsa malingaliro aliwonse atsikana. Ngakhale ndidadziwika kuti hetero ngakhale pamenepo, kuganiza zogonana ndi atsikana sizinali funso. PMO inandipangitsa kumva kuti ndine wonyozeka - kodi mtsikana aliyense angafune kugona nane?
Chizolowezi changa cha PMO chakhala chosasinthasintha kuyambira pamenepo. Mwanjira inayake ndimatha kupeza anzanga ndikuchita bwino kusukulu, koma chizolowezi ichi chakhala ngati mwala woperera m'khosi mwanga, ukunditopetsa ndikundipangitsa kudziona ngati wosakwanira. Ngakhale zonsezi, ndimachita bwino m'maso mwanga: ndakwatiwa + 2, madigiri angapo apamwamba, ntchito yolipira bwino.
Kugonana ndi mkazi wanga kunali koyambirira, ndipo ndinatha kuchepetsa PMO, koma zaka zingapo zapitazi akhala osagonana. Ndimadzisamalira m'mawa komanso usiku, ndipo ndimakhala ndi mphamvu zogonana naye. Tili ndi mgwirizano wabwino, koma ndikumva ngati ndili pamalo owopsa pano - zikapitilira izi, nditha kumutaya iye komanso moyo wabwino womwe tili nawo. Izi zimawopseza zoyipa za ine, ndipo sindingalole kuti izi zichitike.
Kugonjera kumeneku kwandithandiza kwambiri. Thandizo pano ndilabwino, ndipo ndikhulupilira kuti nkhaniyi ndiyowona ndi ena. Mwa kuthandizana, titha kuthana ndi chizolowezi chonyansa ichi.
Zikomo powerenga.
KUSINTHA: Oo, zikomo chifukwa cha mayankho onse abwino. Sindikumvanso kuti ndine wosiyana kwambiri, ndipo tsopano ndikudziwa ma subreddits a tani ena omwe angakhale othandiza. Ndine wokondwa kuti ndatumiza apa.
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