TL; DR pansipa, koma izi ndi zofunika kuziwerenga.
Ndabwereranso kangapo m'mbuyomu. Ndayamba nofap mobwerezabwereza. Koma pamapeto pake ndidafika pano, masiku 40, ndipo ndikhala pa nofap kwakanthawi, osachepera miyezi 3. Ndiye nchiyani chomwe chidandisinthira nthawi ino kuti ndimatha kukhala ndi nofap?
Ndikupita zambiri pamoyo wanga pompano. Kuyesera kupeza ntchito ndi ndalama ndikofunikira kwambiri pakadali pano zomwe zimangokhala m'maganizo mwanga pafupifupi pafupipafupi. M'mbuyomu, ndimagwiritsa ntchito kuphuka kuti ndithandizirepo kwakanthawi, koma ndidakula kwambiri kotero kuti ndimakhala ndi vuto la erectile. Sindingathe kuyesetsa kupulumutsa moyo wanga. Izi zidawopseza kutuluka mwa ine, ZOLEMBEDWA!
Chifukwa chake, tsopano ndinali ndi chowonjezera china chofuna kuletsa kusefa. Popeza mitengo imakwera kwambiri, ndinadziwa kuti ndiyenera kusiya. Chifukwa chake ndidayang'ana pa zinthu zofunika kwambiri, ndikuyika malingaliro anga pamlingo wapamwamba. Gawo lomwe ndimasungira zolinga zanga zazitali komanso mphotho m'maganizo, osangoyang'ana pa mpumulo wosakhalitsa komanso chikhutiro cha kusefa.
Albert Einstein adati: "Sitingathetse mavuto athu ndimaganizo omwe tidagwiritsa ntchito tidawalenga." Tiyenera kulingalira pamlingo wopitilira vutolo apo ayi tikadakhala mumkhalidwe womwewo wamavuto, ndipo titha kulephera.
Ngati tikhala pamlingo wofanana ndi "kukula ndi chisangalalo ndi kukhutira ndi kupumula, koma ndiyenera kuyesetsa kuziletsa", ndiye kuti tayenerabe kulephera. Maganizo awa sali okwanira. Koma ngati titenga malingaliro athu onse kupita kumtunda, ndiye kuti sitimaganiziranso kukula ngati njira.
Pano pali chitsanzo:
Ngati munthu wachuma atakupatsirani 1 madola miliyoni ngati mungaletse kusefa kwa miyezi ya 6, kodi mungachite? Zachidziwikire, mutha kuyimitsa madola miliyoni.
Nanga bwanji za chitsanzo china:
Ngati psychopath angakuuzeni kuti: "Mukapanda kusiya kuseweretsa maliseche kwa miyezi 6, ndikupha aliyense m'banja mwanu." Kodi mungaleke kufalikira ndiye?
Ndikhulupilira choncho, chifukwa cha banja lanu.
Ndiye kodi izi zikutanthauza chiyani? Zikutanthauza kuti palibe chifukwa CHENICHENI choti simungaleke kukula.
Simukusowa mphotho ya madola miliyoni kuti musiye kukula. Simusowa kuopseza kuti banja lanu lifa ngati mupitiliza kuseweretsa maliseche. Phindu lenileni logwirika komanso losagwirika ndilofunika kwambiri kuposa madola miliyoni kwa inu.
Dziwani BWINO PABWINO!
Lekani kusewera m'malingaliro kuti ndinu ofooka. Simuli. Ngati mitengoyo ndi yokwanira, mutha ndipo mutha kusiya kuseweretsa maliseche. Kwezani malingaliro anu pamalingaliro awa. Yakwana nthawi yoti mudzilimbire nokha. Mitengo ndiyokwera kwambiri.
Mwina mukufunika kutulutsa ndikumvera wophunzitsa wolimba (kapena wophunzitsa kubowola) m'malingaliro anu ndikumulola akutsogolereni ndikuphunzitseni. Ngati mulibe mphunzitsi wovuta wamkati, ndiye pangani chimodzi m'malingaliro anu. Wophunzitsa wamkati samakulolani kuti mupereke zifukwa. Sakulolani kuti mukhale ofooka. Amakhala nanu nthawi zonse ndipo sasiya kukutsutsani mpaka mutakwanitsa kukwaniritsa zizolowezi ndi zizolowezi zatsopano. Ndiye chikondi chanu cholimba.
Ngati mukuvutika ndi nofap, sikuti mukumva ndikungodziwa kuti mphoto ndizofunikira kuti musiye kusefa. Lingalirani ndikumvetsetsa kuti mphotho yayitali ya nofap ndiyofunikira kwambiri kuposa chithandizo chochepa chakanthawi chomwe kusefa kumakupatsani.
Njira yothetsera vuto la kusefera ndikuti mukuyesera kuithetsa pamlingo womwe vuto lidapangidwira. Izi zikuyenera kulephera. Muyenera kutenga lingaliro lanu kukhala lokwera kwambiri ndikuwona kutalika kwakutali, komwe mumadziwona nokha ngati munthu watsopano yemwe akuwongolera ndipo tsopano ali ndi zabwino zonse zokhala munthu wogonana, wodalirika.
Ngati mukuganiza motalikirana kwa nthawi yayitali, zimasinthiratu zochita zanu, ndipo zimasintha zochita zanu, kenako zimakusintha monga munthu, kuyambira momwe mulili tsopano, kukhala munthu wabwino yemwe mukufuna kukhala. Umu ndi momwe zosintha ZONSE zamuyaya zimakhalira.
Mavuto anga a erectile adapita patatha masiku a 30. Ndagonapo kawiri m'masiku omaliza a 10 ndipo ndinali wonyada kwambiri ndi boner yanga kotero kuti ndimadziiseka ndekha.
TL; DR - Nofap imagwira ntchito. Ubwino wake ndikofunika. Koma muyenera kupanga pamtengo wokwanira kuti muchite bwino.
Muyenera kusintha malingaliro anu aposachedwa ndi malingaliro apamwamba omwe amawonjezerapo ndikuthana ndi chiyeso chokhutira pomwepo posintha zolakalaka zanu zosafunikira, monga nyama ndi malingaliro apamwamba a zolinga zazitali komanso mphotho. ndipo sungani chimenecho m'malingaliro anu kwanthawi yayitali.
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