Pambuyo pa zomwe mwina ndinali 50th kapena kuyesayesa kwanga ndinapanga masiku 90 (zovuta). Choyamba kukwaniritsa zonse zomwe zimachitika chifukwa chokhala ndi nthawi yayitali zimadzisangalatsa zokha, tonsefe timadziwa momwe zingakhalire zovuta. Pomwe ndimayamba kuyesa nofap ndikupeza gawo ili, ndimakhala wofunitsitsa kudziwa zaubwino womwe inu nomwe mumatha kusiya kwakanthawi. Chifukwa chake ndimaganiza kuti ndigawana malingaliro anga ndi iwo omwe angakhale achidwi ngati ine.
Ndiyamba ponena kuti sindikumva ngati munthu watsopano kapena chilichonse chachilendo ngati chimenecho. Ndikudziwa ena a ife timazindikira kuti mwina mphamvu zazikulu zitha kukhala zazikulu kwambiri ngati momwe zingakhalire ngati chiyambi chatsopano. Ndani akudziwa, mwina ndi za ena, koma sizinali choncho kwa ine. Izi zati ndikumva bwino m'njira zingapo. Chodziwika kwambiri ndikudzidalira kwambiri. Ndikosavuta kuyankhula pamaso pa magulu, kukumana ndi anthu atsopano, komanso kucheza nawo. Zinthu izi zinkandivuta kwambiri ndipo ndimakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri m'malo ngati amenewa, kuganiza mozama chilichonse, ndikumatha kuchita modzidzimutsa. Tsopano ndizosowa. Lero anthu omwe sindikudziwa bwino amawoneka ngati akufuna kuti azicheza nawo nthawi yayitali, ndipo amawayamba ndi ine pafupipafupi. Ndimakhalanso ndi nthawi yosavuta yolankhula ndi atsikana. Ndakhala ndimadeti angapo ndipo pomwe sindinalumikizane ndi aliyense kuyambira pomwe ndidayamba, ndimamva kuti mwina sindili patali kwambiri (mwina ndikuyembekeza haha) zakhala zosavuta ndipo zikuwoneka kuti akuchita zambiri ine.
Ndinazindikiranso kuti ndinalibenso anzanga apamtima asanayambe ulendowu. PMO adasokoneza 'cholinga' cha amayi m'malingaliro mwanga zomwe ndikudziwa kuti ndizambiri za inu. Malingaliro awa atha tsopano ndipo ndapanga akazi a platonic abwenzi omwe ndimacheza nawo pafupipafupi (ngati mulibe lingaliro labwino kupeza ena, atha kukhala abwenzi abwino komanso othandiza m'njira zambiri).
Ndimalota kwambiri kuposa kale. Osati pro kapena lingaliro kwa ine, koma kusiyananso kwina kwandazindikira.
Kuposa china chilichonse ngakhale ndimamva bwino pakhungu langa, zomwe sizingasinthidwe. Sindikukonzekera kugwiritsa ntchito PMO kachiwiri. Ndidayang'ana Ted Talk pomwe wasayansi uyu adati zitha kutenga miyezi 5 kuti ubongo wa achinyamata uchira pazovuta za PMO, chifukwa chake ndikukonzekera kupitirira izi kuti ndione momwe zilili.
Izi ndizitali kuposa momwe ndimayembekezera koma ndikukhulupirira kuti ena mwa inu mutha kuzipeza kukhala zolimbikitsa / zolimbikitsa. Ngati muli ndi mafunso chonde funsani, ndiyesetsa kuyankha zothandiza.
Khalani amphamvu! Ndipo khalani panjira!
LINK - Lipoti la tsiku la 90.
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