TL; DR: Sindinali wozizwitsa. Tsopano ndiri. Musataye mtima pavuto la NoFap! Mapindu ndi enieni! Ndili wamng'ono kwambiri ndinapezeka ndi Asperger's Syndrome.
Moni, Fapstronauts! Ndimasangalala lero, chifukwa lero, patatha zaka ndikulimbana ndi izi, ndatsiriza masiku 30! Pambuyo pa zaka 2, ndangolemba kumene lero lipoti langa la 30! Ndimo momwe zinalili zovuta, komanso zothandiza!
Ine ndiwuzani momwe izo zinayambira, ndiyeno ine ndikupatsani inu malangizo. (Ngati simukukonda kuwerenga, ndibwino kungowerenga gawo la malangizo. Sindidzanena.):)
Malangizo:
1) Yambani!
2) Pezani Moyo Wathanzi ndi Ntchito!
3) Lowani / r / NoFapWar !
4) Kumbukirani, ubwino wabwera kuchokera kuulendo, osati NoFap mwiniwake!
5) Musataye konse!
Panthawi yomwe ndimapezeka, sindinkadziwa kwenikweni zomwe zinali kuchitika, kapena chifukwa chake ndimayenera kupita kukaonana ndi wodwala matenda amodzi kamodzi pamwezi. Ine sindimakhoza kumvetsa zomwe Asperger anali.
Asperger ndi gawo la Autism spectrum, ndipo makamaka vuto lalikulu lomwe limayambitsa ndikumvetsa kusagwirizana pakati pa anthu. Ndi Asperger, sindinathe "kuona" zonse zomwe anthu ena akuchita. Sindinkadziwa kuti mumayenera kuyang'ana anthu mu diso. Sindinadziwe kuti mumayenera kunena "hi", kapena mawu ena, "hello", kwa anthu moni. Ndicho chimene Asperger amachita. Zimakhala ngati wina aliyense amadziwa malamulo a momwe angayankhulire ndi anthu kupatula ine. Anayiwala kundiuza zoyenera kuchita. Ndipo izo zinatenga nthawi YONGA kuti ine nditsimikize izo.
Kusukulu ya pulayimale, sindinayambe kulankhula ndi aliyense. Ndinali ndi anzanga ochepa, ndipo sindinapitepo tsiku lililonse. Ndinafika poti ndikuganiza kuti sindingathe kulankhula ndi wina aliyense kunja kwa banja langa. Ndinasunga ndekha.
Chinthu china chomwe chinali kuchitika pakatikati ndi kusekondale ndinali ndikukula kwambiri. Pafupifupi tsiku lililonse, ndipo ndinkatha kuonera zolaula nthawi iliyonse imene ndingathe. Izi zinapitirizanso kuchotsa galimoto yanga kuti ndiyankhule ndi anthu ena. Ndipotu, sindinayambe nkomwe kulankhula ndi anthu ena! Sizinali zosangalatsa, ndipo sizinakwaniritse, chifukwa sindinkafuna anthu ena kukhutira. Zonse zomwe ndinkafunikira zinali zolaula.
Ndinali wosatetezeka kwambiri moti mng'ono wanga anakakamizika kutenga chovala cha "wamkulu". Nthawi zonse wakhala akundikonda kuposa ine. Msungwana aliyense yemwe tinakumana naye nthawi zonse ankamumenya, osati ine. Ndipo nthawi zonse ndimamupempha kuti andipatse malangizo pa zomwe ndikuyenera kuchita. Nthawi zonse ankasokonezeka kwambiri chifukwa chake ndinali "wolemekezeka". Anali ndi mabwenzi ake, ndipo ngakhale kuti ankandikonda kwambiri, ndimatha kunena kuti anali wamanyazi pang'ono kukhala ndi ine nthawi iliyonse pamene anali ndi abwenzi ake. Iye sanayesetse kundiletsa ine, koma ndi zomwe zinachitika.
Kotero, sindimakonda zaka zanga zapakati, kapena sukulu ya sekondale chifukwa cha nkhaniyi. Pamene nthawi idapitirira, ndinkangokhalira kulankhula ndi anthu, koma nthawi zonse ndinkadzidalira kwambiri, ndinkachita mantha ndi ena, ndipo sindinadziwe ndekha.
Ku koleji, mchimwene wanga anandiuza za nkhani ya TED yomwe adaiwona, Kuwona Zolaula Kwakukulu, komanso kuti ayesa kuyesa vuto la 90 tsiku nofap. (Iye anali ndi vuto lake lomwelo ndi zolaula) Iye anandiuza ine za phindu lonse lomwe liyenera kubweretsa!
Ndinaganiza zowonera ndekha. Ndinali ndikukayikira kuti kuseweretsa maliseche kungakhale kunandichititsa mavuto, pamwamba pa Asperger wanga. Vidiyoyi inanenapo za momwe PMO imasinthira galimoto yanu kuti muyanjane ndi amayi. Zonsezi zomwe zimasonyeza kuti ndimadwala ndizofunikira kwambiri pamoyo wanga. Vidiyoyi inayankhula za NoFap, kotero ndinaganiza zolembera ku subreddit, ndikupatsani! Ndipo kotero ine ndinakhala Wophunzira, ndipo ndinawona gulu ili likukula mpaka oposa olemba 100,000!
Dulani tsopano, moyo wanga wapita kumbali inayo! Ndimamva bwino!
Sikunali konse Asperger yemwe anali kundibweza ine! Anali PMO! (Kuchita zosemphana ndi zolaula kunandichititsa ine!)
Kulankhula ndi anthu sikungakhale kosavuta. Ndilibe vuto lililonse pobwera ndi zinthu zowonongeka kapena zowonongeka, ndipo kuyanjana kwa anthu ndi mphepo! Anthu amadabwa kwambiri pozindikira kuti ndili pa Autism spectrum ngati ndikuwauza. Palibe amene akuzindikira!
Mchimwene wanga wandiuza momwe ndikuwonekera mochititsa mantha kuti wandiwona ndikupanga.
Komanso, posachedwapa pamene ndikukambirana ndi mchimwene wanga, anandiuza za atsikana ena omwe anali kulankhula naye, kuti akumuuza AMBUYE momwe iwo ankakondera kuti ine ndinali. ME !!!
Ndinadabwa kuona kuti ndikhoza kuoneka ngati wokongola. Nthawi zonse ndinkaganiza kuti sindinali!
Ndipo, kuno ku koleji, ndakhala ndikutha kupita kumasiku angapo ndi akazi abwino kwambiri! (Osati onse panthawi yomweyo)
NoFap ndi imodzi mwa zinthu zazikulu zomwe ndapezapo! Inu nonse muli ndi mwayi wokhala ndi mudziwu, monga momwe ndirili!
Malangizo okufika masiku a 30:
1) Yambani!
Ayi ndithu, izi ndizo malangizo anga amphamvu kwambiri. Pamene ndili ndi vuto loipa kwambiri, ngati ndikukwera bulu wanga ku bafa ndi pee, chilakolako chimatha! Mphindi masabata!
Sindidziwa ndendende chifukwa chake izi zimachitika. Zili ngati kuti maganizo anga akufuna kuti ndiwonongeke kwambiri, zomwe zimandichititsa kumva kuti ndikuyenera kuwona kuti ndikuyenera kuwombera kompyuta. (Yemwe! Izo zikumveka zopweteka, momwe ine ndinayankhulira izo)
Koma izo zikugwirizana. Mukudziwa momwe mumapangira nkhuni nthawi zina? Chabwino ndi chiyani china chomwe muyenera kuchita m'mawa? Muyenera kuyang'ana zoipa kwambiri. Mukamaliza pee, matabwa amatha.
Ndikakhala ndi boner ndipo kwenikweni, kwenikweni, ndikufunadi kuwona zolaula, ngati ndikuona, chilakolakocho chimasokonekera. Ndikudziwa kuti anthu ena adziwona izi, choncho amangoziwombera, ndipo nthenda iliyonse ikapweteka.
2) Pangani thanzi ndi ntchito!
Mukudziwa anthu onse omwe ali pano omwe amakamba za kudya nthawi zonse, akugwira ntchito, komanso momwe izi zilili zovuta pazochitika za NoFap. Pali chifukwa chake akutiuza zimenezo. Ndi chifukwa chakuti akulondola!
Tsopano, sindine mnyamata amene amapita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi tsiku lililonse kwa maola ndi kupopera chitsulo chachikulu. Ine ndiribe minofu yaikulu, komabe ine ndiri nawo anthu otsalira ndipo akundiuza bwino momwe ine ndikuwonekera bwino: makolo, abwenzi, ndi malingana ndi m'bale wanga, akazi okongola.
Chinthu chofunika ndikuzindikira thanzi lanu. Ndipo nthawi zambiri, ndi zinthu zazing'ono zomwe zimawerengera kwambiri. Sindinadye wathanzi kwambiri, koma sindinadye kwambiri, ndipo ndimayesetsa kudya zinthu zomwe ndikudziwa kuti zidzasunga m'malo mokoma. Zipatso ndi zitsamba zimakupatsani inu zabwino!
Chitani zokhazokha. Imwani madzi ambiri. Pezani tulo tambiri. Pitani kunja ndi kuthamanga kwa maminiti a 10 m'mawa. Kudana kuthamanga ndi chilakolako? Tulukani ndikuyenda kwa maminiti 10 m'mawa. Chitani zochitika zina tsiku ndi tsiku. Mphindi 10 tsiku ndi bwino kuposa kanthu. Osachepera, nthawi zonse mupite bwino kuposa chilichonse! Pang'ono patsiku tsiku lililonse. Mudzawona kusintha!
3) Lowani ku NoFap nkhondo! / r / NoFapWar
Icho chinali chopambana changa chachikulu. Nkhondo ya NoFap ndizolimbikitsa kwambiri, chifukwa zimangochitika kamodzi pa miyezi ingapo. Nkhondoyo ili ndi magulu awiri a Fapstronauts, Periwinkle (Blue), ndi Orangered (Red). Asirikali anu ndi abale anu, ndipo muyenera kumenyera nkhondo, chifukwa ngati mutabweranso panthawi ya nkhondo, ndinu osowa, ndipo simungayambirane mpaka miyezi yambiri. Gulu lomwe lili ndi zochepa kwambiri pa tsiku lomaliza limatchulidwa kuti ndi lopambana!
Iyi ndi nkhondo yanga ya 3rd NoFap, ndipo kukhala ndi wina amene ndimamenyera kwandithandiza kwambiri.
Yang'anirani / r / NoFapWar . Pulogalamu yamakono yomwe tikugwira ikutha pa January 1st. Pambuyo pake, ndikuyembekeza kudzakhala nanu nonse ku nkhondo ya NFW V! Ndikukulimbikitsani nonse kuti mutenge mbali, ndipo muwone ngati zikuthandizani kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu.
4) NoFap si yankho lolondola! (Komabe, ndi!)
Ichi ndi chinthu chimene ndimakonda kumva pang'ono pa NoFap, koma chifukwa ndi choonadi chovuta kumva.
Cholinga cha NoFap ndicho kukuthandizani kuthetsa chizoloŵezi cha zolaula ndi maliseche. Zimayenera kukuthandizani kusiya kuwona akazi ngati zinthu zogonana zomwe nthawizonse zimawoneka kuti sizingatheke, ndi kuyamba kuziwona ngati anthu enieni, odabwitsa.
Koma NoFap si matsenga "kuchiza mapiritsi onse". Zili ngati njira yowonjezera. Inu simungakhoze kuchita vuto la NoFap, palibe china chirichonse, ndipo mukuyembekeza matsenga ena amachitika. Muyenera kuchita zinthu zina. Zopindulitsa sizichokera ku NoFap. Madalitso amachokera ku kudzikonda komwe kumachokera ku NoFap.
Zomwe zikunenedwa, pakadalibe chifukwa chakuti pali 130,000 ya ife yomwe yatumizidwa ku tsamba lino. Pali chinachake champhamvu pamsana ndi tsiku la 90. Popanda NoFap, ambiri a ife sitingayambe takhala tikulimbikitsidwa kuti tichite bwino. Zingakhale zogwirizana ndi mahomoni (pheromones, testosterone, ndi zina zotero). Amandimenya. Kodi ndi chiani chomwe chimapangitsa NoFap kutipangitsa kuti tizichita bwino?
Chimene ndikhoza kunena ndi ichi: Asanafike NoFap, moyo wanga unayamwa. Tsopano, izo siziri. Mwadzidzidzi?
5) Musataye mtima!
Ndakhala ndikuchita NoFap kwa zaka 2! 2 !!! Zoposa masiku 730! Ndangotsala pang'ono kufika 30 lero! Ndamva anthu omwe akupanga 120 tsikuli poyesa kubwereranso! Kodi ali abwino kuposa ine? Sizimasangalatsa kanthu! Chifukwa ndinapanga masiku a 30! Ndinangopitirizabe kuyesera mpaka nditapambana!
Ngati simungataye mtima pa izi, ngati mupitirizabe kuyesera, mutheka.
Khalani olimba, Fapstronauts!
Ndipo kwa Aquamarines anga, ndi gulu lonse la Periwinkle Army Ndikunena kuti: Kuwononga Zowonongeka Kwa Orange! Tidzalamulira chilengedwe kamodzinso!
CAW CAW !!!
LINK - POMALIZA!!! Pambuyo pa 2 ZAKA ZAMBIRI NDAKACHITA !!!
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