- Chidaliro chambiri
- Kupititsa patsogolo kwamaso
- Mphamvu zowonjezera komanso chilimbikitso chothana ndi mavuto anga komanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi (Ran 6km dzulo).
- Kuda nkhawa pang'ono pamisonkhano komanso pochita ulaliki.
- Ndine woseketsa komanso woseketsa kwambiri.
- Kulimbitsa ndende
- Atsikana amadzigonana ndi ine ndipo amandigwira mwadzidzidzi m'manja mwanga (Izi sizinkachitika kale!)
- Maloto owoneka bwino
Pali enanso ochepa omwe sindingathe kuwaganizira pakadali pano, koma ulendowu wakhaladi wofunika mpaka pano!
ZOCHITIKA - Pa Zolaula, Maliseche & Kutulutsa
Pa Zolaula, Maliseche & Kutulutsa - Kutulutsa mawu
David Deida, Njira Ya Munthu Wapamwamba:
"Mwanjira yochenjera, kutulutsa umuna mopitirira muyeso kumachepetsa kulimba mtima kwanu pachiwopsezo, mwaukadaulo komanso mwauzimu. Mukukhazikika kuti muchite zokwanira kuti mupeze, kuti mukhale omasuka, koma mupeza kuti mungakonde kuwonera TV m'malo mongolemba buku lanu, kusinkhasinkha, kapena kuyimba foni yofunika kwambiri. Mudzakhala ndi chilimbikitso chokwanira chokhala ndi moyo wabwino, koma ma ejaculations amakuchotsani mphamvu 'yochepetsera' mphamvu yofunikira kubaya khoma lanu laulesi ndikudutsamo zopinga zomwe zimabwera mdziko lapansi. Mphatso yanu imakhala yosayamikirika. ”
Alain De Botton - Chifukwa Chomwe Amuna Ambiri Sakhala Amunthu Okwanira Kugwiritsa Ntchito Zolaula
Zolaula, monga mowa ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo, zimachepetsa kuthekera kwathu kopirira mitundu yamavuto omwe amafunikira kuti titsogoze miyoyo yathu moyenera. Makamaka, zimachepetsa kuthekera kwathu kulekerera zinthu ziwiri zoyipa izi, nkhawa komanso kusowa mtendere.
Tsamba lonse la intaneti likuwonetsa zolaula, ndiwwwopulumutsa mosasangalatsa komwe sitingathe kukana, machitidwe omwe amatitsogolera omwe ambiri alibe chochita ndi zosowa zathu zenizeni.
Nkhani Yathunthu: http://blogs.wsj.com/speakeasy/2012/12/26/why-we-should-limit-internet-pornography/
Mawu a Matt Fradd
“Zolaula zimatilonjeza ufulu, komabe tinakhala akapolo. Porn zimatilonjeza kukondana, komabe tinangopeza kudzipatula. Porn zimatilonjeza chisangalalo, komabe pamapeto pake tinatopa. Zithunzi zolaula zinatilonjeza 'zosangalatsa za akulu' komabe tinakhala achinyamata. ”
CS Lewis, The Great Divorce:
"Kusilira ndi chinthu chosauka, chofowoka, chongonong'oneza kanthu poyerekeza ndi kuchuluka kwa mphamvu ndi chikhumbo chomwe chitha kupezeka chikhumbo chapha."
Kalata Yaumwini Kuchokera ku Lewis kupita kwa Keith Masson (wopezeka mu The Collected Letters of CS Lewis, Vol 3)
"Kwa ine vuto lenileni lodziseweretsa maliseche likhoza kukhala kuti zimatenga chilimbikitso chomwe, mwakuvomerezeka, chimatsogolera munthu kuchokera mwa iye kuti akwaniritse (ndikusintha) umunthu wake mwa wina ndikubweza; Atumizanso munthuyo kundende yake, kuti akasunge gulu la akwatibwi oyerekeza.
Ndipo mayi uyu, pomwe adavomerezedwa, amagwira ntchito motsutsana ndi kutuluka kwake ndikuphatikizana kwenikweni ndi mkazi weniweni.
Kwa abambo nthawi zonse amakhala opezeka, ogwirira ntchito nthawi zonse, safuna kudzipereka kapena kusintha zinthu zina, ndipo amatha kupatsidwa zinthu zokopa komanso zachiwerewere zomwe palibe mkazi yemwe angalimbane naye.
Mwa akwatibwi amithunzi nthawi zonse amakopedwa, wokonda zangwiro nthawi zonse; osafunsidwa chifukwa cha kusadzikonda kwake, palibe chinyengo chomwe chidakakamizidwa pachabe.
Choopsa ndichakuti ndiyambe kukonda ndende. ”
John Mayer pa zolaula
Ndi njira yatsopano ya synaptic. Mumadzuka m'mawa, tsegulani tsamba lazithunzi, ndipo zimatsogolera ku bokosi la zowonera la Pandora. Pakhala pali masiku pomwe ndidawona ma vaginas 300 ndisanadzuke pabedi.
Zithunzi zolaula pa intaneti zasintha ziyembekezo za mibadwo yanga. Kodi mungatani kuti muzipanga ziwonetsero nthawi zonse potengera kuwombera kambiri? Mukuyang'ana imodzi… mwa 100 yomwe mumalumbira kuti ndiomwe muzimalize, ndipo simumaliza. Masekondi makumi awiri apitawa mumaganiza kuti chithunzicho chinali chinthu chotentha kwambiri chomwe simunawonepo, koma mumachiponyera ndikupitiliza kusaka kwanu ndikupitilizabe kudzachedwa kuntchito. Kodi izi sizimakhudza bwanji psychology yokhala ndiubwenzi ndi winawake? Iyenera kutero.
Source: Mafunso a John Mayer a Playboy
Mawu a Dr. Judith Reisman
Zithunzi zolaula zimapangitsa kuti munthu azilephera kugwira ntchito ndi mphamvu zanu zogonana. "Ngati sangakondane ndi wokondedwa wake," akutero Reisman, "ngati akuyenera kuyang'ana chithunzi, ngati akuyenera kulingalira chochitika, kuti afikire kutalika kwa kumaliza ndi munthu uyu, ndiye kuti salinso Ndi mphamvu yake, si choncho? Amvekedwa. Adabera. Wotsitsidwa. M'malo mwake, waponyedwa m'maso. ”
Mawu olembedwa mu 1871: (zina mwazinthu izi mwina ndizowonera)
“… Chizolowezi chonyazitsa kwambiri komanso chowononga… Mwina palibe choipa chomwe chimapweteketsa thupi ndi thupi… chimachedwetsa kukula, kusokoneza mphamvu zamaganizidwe ndikuchepetsa wovutikayo kukhala womvetsa chisoni. Wovutikayo amafuna kukhala payekha, ndipo safuna kusangalala ndi anzawo; ali ndi vuto la mutu, kudzuka komanso kusowa mtendere usiku, kupweteka m'malo osiyanasiyana amthupi, kunyentchera, kusungulumwa, kusakumbukika, kufooka kumbuyo ndi ziwalo zoberekera, chilakolako chosiyanasiyana, mantha, kulephera kuyang'ana munthu pankhope, kusadzidalira pa kuthekera kwake… [Potsirizira pake] padzakhala zosokoneza za dongosolo; kutentha kwadzidzidzi pamaso; nkhope imakhala yotuwa komanso yowuma; maso ali ndi khungu lotopetsa, laubweya; tsitsi limakhala louma ndikugawanika kumapeto; nthawi zina pamakhala ululu kudera lamtima; kupuma movutikira; kugunda kwa mtima; Zizindikiro za dyspepsia zimawonekera; tulo tasokonezeka; pali kudzimbidwa; chifuwa; kuyabwa pakhosi; pamapeto pake munthu yense amawonongeka, kuthupi, mwamakhalidwe ndi m'maganizo. ”
Phiri la Napoleon - Ganizani Ndikulemera
MUTU 11 CHINSINSI CHA KUTSUTSA KWA SEX
Chikhumbo chakugonana ndiye champhamvu kwambiri pazilakolako za anthu.
Akamayendetsedwa ndi chikhumbochi, abambo amakhala ndi chidwi cholimba, kulimba mtima, kulimbikira, kulimbikira, ndi luso la kulenga lomwe sizimadziwika nawo nthawi zina. Chikhumbo chakugonana ndizolimba komanso champhamvu kwambiri. Tikalumikizidwa, ndikuwongolera mzere wina, mphamvu yolimbikitsayi imakhala ndi chidwi chonse cholimba, kulimba mtima, ndi zina zotere, zomwe zitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati mphamvu zakulenga m'mabuku, zaluso, kapena ntchito ina iliyonse kapena kuyimbira, kuphatikiza, kumene, kudzikundikira chuma.
Mtsinje umathinitsidwa, ndipo madzi ake amawongoleredwa kwakanthawi, koma pomaliza, umakakamiza kutulutsa. Zomwezi ndi zomwe zimachitika mu kugonana. Itha kumizidwa ndi kuwongolera kwakanthawi, koma chibadwa chake chimapangitsa kuti nthawi zonse kufunafuna njira zowonetsera. Ngati sichingasinthidwe mukuyesetsa kwanu kupeza, ipeza njira yoyenera.
Mwamwayi, munthu yemwe wapeza momwe angaperekere kutulutsa kugonana kudzera mu njira inayake yakukonzekereratu, chifukwa atazindikira izi, adadzikweza kukhala wanzeru.
MUTU 11 CHINSINSI CHA KUSINTHA KWA SEX: http://www.sacred-texts.com/nth/tgr/tgr16.htm
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