Osasokonezeka, koma: kukhazikika kudzilemekeza, kudzidalira, kuganiza bwino, nkhawa zochepa za anthu, ndi zina zambiri.

Moni zabwino,

Ndakhala ndikuwerenga kuno kwakanthawi kwakanthawi ndipo ndangopanga akaunti yanga kukudziwitsani kuti dzulo ndafika masiku 90 a nofap. Ndipo cholinga changa chinali choti ndidzipindule ndekha ndikapeza msungwana weniweni. Ndipo ndinatero. Dzulo ndinali ndi PIV ndi bambo, ndinali wamanjenje komanso wosangalala ngati f ***. Sindinamvepo chonchi kale. Ndimamva ngati kamwana kakuyang'ana kansalu koyamba. Ndikhulupirireni, nditha kubwera ndikungoganiza zogonana naye. Ndidamuuza kuti sindimakumana ndi zotere ndi atsikana ndipo samangonena zogonana ndi atsikana. Nthawi yomaliza yomwe ndimagonana inali chilimwe 2011. Chabwino ndinganene chiyani. Kunali kotentha. kumugwira, kununkhiza, kumverera, ndikundimva mkati mwake. Ndimadzuka ngakhale pakali pano ndikulemba izi. Anali ozizira. Adatipatsa nthawi yokhazikika, ndi zina zotero koma pomaliza pomwe ndimati ndikubwera masekondi angapo apitawo ndidasinthiratu nyama kapena china chake. zinali zabwino kwambiri kukhala ndi chidziwitso chotere patapita nthawi yayitali.

Chabwino, nayi mndandanda wanga wazotsatira zakuchita bwino:

  1. Zosasangalatsa zazing'ono (onetsetsani atsikana mumaso, ndi zina zotero) (Ndikuganiza kuti aliyense akhoza kugwirizana ndi izi)
  2. Mphamvu zambiri, makamaka mphamvu. ndipo mukamapeza zambiri zimakula. ndizowona kuti zili ngati minofu yomwe mungaphunzitse
  3. Kuzindikira. (osati mbolo yanu yokha. thupi lanu lonse. Ili ngati bokosi lamphamvu logwedezeka komanso momwe mumamverera / kutulutsa. sindingathe kufotokoza izi)
  4. Atsikana amawoneka mosiyana. palibe chotsutsa panonso. mumayang'ana atsikana ambiri achilengedwe. nkhope yake, kumwetulira kwake, ndi maso ake. ngakhale mutayang'ana miyendo yake mumaganiza ngati: "miyendo iyi ndiyabwino kwambiri". amakumenyani, mumadzuka mwa kungowayang'ana, koma mwanjira yabwino. momwe ziyenera kukhalira komanso momwe ziyenera kukhalira.
  5. Nthawi yochulukirapo yogwiritsira ntchito pazinthu zina
  6. Kulimbitsa kudzilemekeza, kudzidalira, kuganiza bwino, palibe ndondomeko yamaganizo (kachitidwe kazithunzi)
  7. Inu mukhoza kwenikweni KUTHANDIZANI rewiring mu ubongo wanu. Ndikadzuka ndimakhala ndi maganizo oopsa a dopamine ndi zinthu ndikudumphira mu ubongo wanga
  8. Kuphatikiza apo ndimakhala ndikumva kuphulika kapena kufooka mdera mwanga kapena m'mimba. monga adrenalin amakankha kuchokera pachinthu chowopsa. Sindingathe kufotokoza izi. Nditakumana ndi msungwanayo ndimakhala ndikumverera mwamphamvu kwambiri kotero kuti ndimangobwera ndikangoyang'ana pabedi patsogolo panga, podziwa kuti ndikhala nditagona pamenepo ndikukhala naye pafupi ndi ine mumasekondi ochepa. Ndinayamba kupuma movutikira, mawondo anga adafooka, m'mimba / mmimba mwanga mudadzaza agulugufe. zinthu zosaneneka. Sindingathe kufotokoza. muyenera kudzionera nokha. komanso malingaliro awa ndili nawo patsogolo pazenera langa pomwe chithunzi cha msungwana wotentha (khungu lochulukirapo limawonetsa) chikuwonekera kapena pa TV. Nthawi zambiri sindimayang'ana TV. Koma pali malonda amodzi awa aku supermarket pomwe msungwanayu akuyenda mozungulira theka wamaliseche ndi pc pc patsogolo pake. bambo, kumverera kwakudzuka mkati mwa SECONDS. kuthamanga kwakukulu kwa dopamine m'magazi anga. Sindingathe kukana. Ndinayenera kuyang'ana kumbali.
  9. Kulingalira bwino. lamulo langa linali "osayamba zomwe sungamalize" koma sindinathe kumamatira nthawi yonseyi. kotero ndili ndi ntchito zina zomwe zimakhalapo pakapita nthawi (zachinsinsi komanso zamabizinesi) nditha kuyambiranso ndikuzimaliza pomaliza chifukwa ndili ndi mphamvu tsopano
  10. Ndilibe chidwi chobwereranso. pakadali pano uku ndikumverera komwe ndili nako
  11. Ndimachita kunyamula zolemetsa. Ndizabwino. Sindingaganize kuti ndizosangalatsa kwambiri. Ikuwonjezera chifuniro chanu mphamvu ndi thupi lanu. Nditha kuwonjezera kulemera kwanga m'miyezi itatu iyi ndipo ndidapeza 3 kilogalamu ya minofu. Tsopano ndikuyesera kuti ndikhale ndi pulogalamu yopanga. sipadzakhalanso misa. reps zambiri zamapangidwe abwinoko.

Pakati pa masiku 90wa ndidakhala wankhanza kwakanthawi. Ndidali kuyenda ngati kimbudzi. Koma ndikuganiza ndizokhudzana ndi kuyesa komwe ndidachita nthawi imeneyo. Ndidayesera kukhala wosadya nyama ndipo ndidasiya nditakhala ndi malingaliro achiwawawa. Zachidziwikire ndinali ndi zolimbikitsanso. koma mutha kuwayang'anira ngati mutakhalabe olimba.

Chofunika: Ndipitiliza ndi izi. chifukwa ndinachipeza kukhala chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe chingandichitikire ndi zinthu zina zochepa m'moyo wanga. Sindingaganize kuti ndidzabwereranso. Kwenikweni, kuseweretsa maliseche ndi kwakulu komanso kogonana. Taganizirani izi, "mumadzikhudza" ndi dzanja lamwamuna. Chinthucho chimayenera kukhudzidwa ndi msungwana kapena mkazi. Sindimadzikhuza kupatula kusamba ndikutsuka. Ndikupitiliza ndi izi, ndiyesa kucheza ndi atsikana thupi langa ndikangolakalaka kulumikizana ndi mtsikana. Ndipita njira "yachilengedwe" yokhalira ndi zosangalatsa zanga pogonana ndi atsikana enieni. osati ndi pixels pazenera langa.

Sindikudziwa ngati ndinali wokonda zolaula kapena ayi, koma kwakhala masiku 90 opanda PMO. Ndinali ndi maloto angapo onyowa (sindinawawerenge, koma ngati nthawi 7 kapena 8 m'masiku 90) ndipo awiri omaliza anali patsiku langa la 90th. ndiye dzulo ndinali nayo imodzi 4am ndi ina 7am. awiri usiku umodzi. Ndipo ngakhale ndidabwera usiku womwewo, sindinathe kupitilira mphindi 10 kapena apo ndi mtsikana uja usiku watha. Ichi ndi chitsimikizo cha ubongo ngati chiwalo chapakati chogonana. ndi malingaliro ako. osati mbolo yanu. chinthu china chofunikira ndikuti sikuti nthawi zonse ubongo umagwiranso ntchito zomwe zimayenera kuchitika munthawi ya nofap iyi. Chofunika kwambiri ndikuti dontho lililonse la madzi (cum) omwe simumawononga, amasungidwa mthupi lanu ndikudyetsa malingaliro anu ndi moyo wanu (ndi thupi lanu) thanzi ndi nyonga. mphamvu zomwe ndimataya moyo wanga wonse. Ndayamba kuchepa kuyambira 12 kapena apo.

Dongosolo langa: cholinga changa ndikupitiliza kucheza ndi atsikana nthawi iliyonse ndikawamvera kapena ndikakhala ndi chilakolako chogonana. KOMA: nthawi iliyonse ndikalephera kugona ndi mtsikana m'masiku otsatirawa a 90, (monga ndikakhala tsiku langa la 180th ndipo sindinayikidwebe), ndidzadzipindulitsa ndekha, ubongo wanga, ndi moyo wanga, ndi zenizeni mkazi (wolipidwa, woperekezedwa). koma sindikutsimikiza ndi izi. Ndikufuna kudziwa malingaliro anu pankhaniyi. Zili ngati dongosolo langa lopindulitsa lomwe lapangidwira makamaka kuti ubongo wanga uthandizenso kubwereza kapena kusunga mkhalidwewo. kuti ubongo wanga udziwe: "gwiritsitsani matupi enieni". ngati mukudziwa zomwe ndikutanthauza. kotero ndi dongosololi, ndimagonana miyezi itatu iliyonse NGATI NDIPO Pokhapokha sindingathe kucheza ndi mtsikana m'modzi m'masiku 3 aliwonse.

Nditha kulemba zina. koma zakwanira pano. ngati pali mafunso, ingofunsani.

tl; Dr: gwiritsitsani nofap. Zimakupatsirani maubwino enieni a kukhala ozindikira, kudzidalira komanso kukhala ndi mphamvu. nofap ndichachilengedwe. M'malo mwake ndimasankha kukhala ndi atsikana enieni. Nthawi yochulukirapo, mphamvu zochulukirapo zochitira zinthu ndipo makamaka amazimaliza. Zinanso. Khazikika m'maganizo ndi mkhalidwe wamalingaliro.

LINK - Muli ndi masiku anga a 90 mosavuta dzulo. Mndandanda wa mapindu ndi ndondomeko yanga yamtsogolo.

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