Zofunsira kuti ayambenso kugwiritsa ntchito
Abambo anga siophunzira kwambiri, ndipo nthawi zina luso lawo limasiya zomwe timafuna. Koma adandiuza china sabata yatha, "Zachidziwikire, mowa umatha kukankhira mavuto anu kwakanthawi. Koma mowa ukatha, mavuto amabweranso. Ndipo ngati ndiwe chidakwa, mwina unawakulitsa. ” …
Zingakhale zopindulitsa kuthandiza machiritso ngati titha kudzipenda moona mtima za zomwe zidatitsogolera ku zolaula poyamba. Kodi chizolowezi chathu chakhala ndi gawo lanji kuti itithandizire kupewa kukhumudwitsidwa? Kodi "timasowa" chiyani m'miyoyo yathu chomwe chatipangitsa kuti tiziwonera zolaula?
Ndi lingaliro wamba, koma ndikuganiza kuti ndikwabwino kunena kuti ngati ndiwe bambo yemwe wachita zolaula, mwina simungagonane ndi akazi. (Ndipo monga corollary, ngati ndiwe mkazi yemwe amakonda kwambiri zachiwerewere kapena kugonana ndi amuna, mwina simungakhale ndi zibwenzi zogonana zogonana ndi abambo. Vuto muzochitika zonsezi ndi zofanana, IMHO, zimangowonekera. mosiyana chifukwa cha chikhalidwe chathu. Ngati abambo sangapeze ubale wabwino, wokonda kugonana, amatembenukira ku zolaula. Ngati amayi sangapeze ubale wogonana wathanzi, amatembenukira ku chiwerewere monga cholowa mmalo.)
Vuto la machitidwe onsewa ndi lupanga lakuthwa konsekonse. Sikuti zokonda zathu zimangotipezetsa zosowa zathu zazifupi tikamanyalanyaza muzu wamavuto athu (makamaka kuthekera kwathu kopeza zogonana ndi bwenzi lathu), komanso PANGANI MAVUTO OPSA! Pamapeto pake ndinayang'ana "Zinthu Zomwe Simunadziwe Zokhudza Zolaula" [zomwe zimapezeka patsamba lino pansi pa "Makanema"] Chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe zidandigwira ndikuzindikira kuti zolaula sizimangosokoneza mphotho zathu (zomwe timakambirana pafupifupi tsiku lililonse pamsonkhanowu ), Zimatithandizanso kuti tisachitepo kanthu pofunikira kuti muphunzire maluso amunthu omwe amafunikira kuti tipeze ubale wabwino m'miyoyo yathu.
Kodi zimachita bwanji izi? Ndiloleni ndikulembe njira zomwe ndakumana nazo pandekha:
(1) Zithunzi zolaula za porn zimabweretsa chidwi chokumana ndi akazi ndikupanga ubale wathanzi. Ndizofulumira komanso zosavuta. Zachangu kwambiri komanso zosavuta kuposa kukumana ndi azimayi, kuzifufuza kuti azigwirizana, kukhala pachiwopsezo chotenga mtima… ndipo ngakhale pamenepo, palibe mayi amene angapeze njira yolumikizirana mwachangu yomwe ingakuphunzitseni kuseweretsa maliseche mpaka nthawi yayitali kwambiri. Chifukwa chowerengera mtengo wotsika / kupindula… zolaula ndi njira yachangu yotulutsira kuposa kupeza ubale wabwino.
(2) Zolaula zimakonza zomwe mumayembekezera zazimayi komanso zogonana. Ndipo sindikuyankhula zokhazokha za “chiyembekezo cha chikhalidwe cha anthu”. Ndikulankhula pamlingo wokhazikika, ndikuwonera zolaula ndikuyembekeza kugonana koona kuti kungawoneke kwina kulikonse monga ngati kuwonera mndandanda wama TV pa kuphika kenako ndikuyembekezera ntchito yanu kukhitchini kuti iwoneke choncho.
(3) Kenako, pamwamba pa zonsezo, powerengera UMBONI wanu (womwe timanenanso tsiku ndi tsiku), imakonzanso PERCEPTION yanu! (Zomwe sitikulankhula zambiri). Tsopano popewa zolaula za masabata a 9-10, kuphatikiza kwa masabata angapo a 3-4 pakati pa orgasm, ndikuwona zochuluka kwambiri pomwe azimayi akuwonetsa zizindikiritso zakugonana. Ndipo ndikudabwa, "geez Woyera ... kodi zakhala zikupezeka pano nthawi yonseyi? Sindikudziwa. ”
Ndizachilendo, nthawi zonse ndazindikira kuti mzimayi akakhala akumwetulira kwa nthawi yayitali kuposa yofananira, kapena kuyang'ana ndi ine kwa nthawi yayitali kuposa zabwinobwino. Koma m'mbuyomu, ndinasokonezedwa ndi zolaula, ndipo sindinakhalepo ndi "zonunkhira" zatsopano zomwe ndimapeza tsopano. Pamene libido yanga imayamba kulimba, msungwana akumwetulira tsopano ayamba kukhala wofatsa kwambiri - koma zoonekera - zokongola mu mbolo yanga.
Nayi gawo lopenga. Ndinaganiza, “Hm… ngati ndilo thupi langa likuyankha, kodi lake likuchitanso chimodzimodzi?” Pomwe ndidayankhula ndi amayi pazomwe amachitazi, ndawafunsa ngati akukumana ndi zomwezo. Pafupifupi onse amavomereza… akamamwetulira mwamuna ndipo nayenso amamwetulira namuyang'ana m'maso, amatenga kachilombo kakang'ono "kameneka" kameneka, kawirikawiri kamaonekera pakumverera kwa magazi akuthamangira kumaliseche awo. …
Chitsanzo cha izi ndikuti kuyambira pomwe ndayimitsa PMO [zolaula / maliseche / orgasm] kwakanthawi, ndikuzindikira ma spikes anga okongola, zandivuta kuti ndizikhala ndekha m'chipinda ndi amayi anga. Ndipo sindikuyankhula mwanjira yokongola ya kinky. Ine ndikungotanthauza kuti ndidzakhala ndikuchezera kunyumba ndi kunja kwa ngodya ya diso langa, ndidzagwira mawonekedwe achikazi ndikudutsa, ndipo mwanjira yanga yachilengedwe ndikumakhala kaphokoso ndikuyang'ana. Inde, ndikutero, ndipo amayi anga akumwetulira kunena kuti moni, ndipo ndili ngati "EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW". Koma ndikuganiza kuti ndizotsatira zomwe sizinachitike kuti mudziwe zakugonana kwanu.
Ndiye nayi vuto lomwe tonse timakumana nalo monga kubwezeretsa zolaula. Kaya kulephera kupeza zibwenzi kumayambitsa kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula, kapena ngati kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula zimatilepheretsa kuphunzira kuti tipeze zogonana ndi funso lankhuku / dzira. Mfundo yofunika kwambiri ndi zinthu zochepa:
(1) Ndife okonda kugonana. Ndizosatheka kuti tipewe kugonana kwamuyaya. Ndipo kuyesa kulikonse kusiya PMO kuyenera kuphatikizidwa ndikuwonetsetsa mozama zomwe zidatitsogolera kuno ndikuti timapewa chiyani kukumana ndi moyo kuti tithe kupita ku zibwenzi zamtunduwu zomwe tikufuna.
(2) Zithunzi Zolaula ZILI NDI ZOTHANDIZA Pathu. Tsopano izi zokha sizili vuto. Koma popeza PERCEPTION yathu ndi yomwe imadziwitsa okhulupilira athu, tili ndi vuto lotaya zinyalala, zotayira zinyalala. Kutha kwanu kusonkhanitsa deta yolondola kwasokonezedwa. Izi ndizobwerezanso, chifukwa ndinena mwanjira ina.
Ngati mwakhala mukumvedwa ndi PMO kwa nthawi yayitali, zikhulupiliro zomwe mumakhala nazo zokhuza azimayi - zomwe zimapangitsa kuti ONSE, mukuzindikira malingaliro anu - atha kudziwitsidwa ndi zolakwika zadzidzidzi, motero sizolondola.
Mwachitsanzo, zikhulupiriro monga "azimayi sachita chidwi ndi zogonana", kapena "akazi amakopeka ndi amuna okongola" kapena "akazi samandipeza wokongola" kapena "azimayi ali ndi chidwi ndi Ryan Reynolds, osati anyamata ngati ine ”ndizokhazikitsidwa ndi malingaliro omwe anapangidwa ndi ntchito yathu ya PMO.
Nayi ina yayikulu, anthu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zolaula zambiri amachita manyazi nazo. Simukuwona anyamata akuyenda uku akunena kuti "Proud Porn mtumiaji 15 zaka ndikuwerengera". Chabwino ngati malo anu amodzi ogonana ndi omwe amakhala ndi manyazi ambiri, ndiye vuto. Chifukwa tsopano mwatenga gawo labwinobwino lamanyazi lomwe limakhalapo munyengo yathu ndipo zapangitsa 20x kukhala yoyipa. Ndikosavuta kupeza mnzanu wogonana naye mukamachita manyazi kufuna kugonana.
Chifukwa chake ngati cholinga chanu ndikukhala ndi thanzi labwino, zogonana, chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe ndafunikira ndikuchotsa zikhulupiriro zakale zomwe zimafunidwa ndi momwe amayi amagwirira ntchito ... chifukwa zambiri za zikhulupirirozi ndizokhazikitsidwa - moyenera, musayiwale - pa kutanthauzira kwathu kwa zomwe takumana nazo m'moyo zomwe zawonongeka chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Tsopano kwa ena a ife, zokhumudwitsa zathu ndi azimayi omwe adanenapo zakumwa zathu zolaula. Zidali choncho ndi ine. Abambo anga sanali otengera amuna, makolo anga anali ochokera kudziko lina, pomwe ine ndimachita bwino kwambiri maphunziro, ndinali - kwenikweni - nditakumana ndi zomwe ndimachita pakukula kwanga.
Tsoka ilo, PMO idakankhira patsogolo kuderako ndikupita kumbuyo. Ndataya unamwali wanga ku 23 ndipo sindinakhale ndi mnzake wogonana mpaka 28.
Koma sikuchedwa. Ndinkachedwa pachimake… .a WERENGA kwambiri. Koma moyo wanga wogonana wasintha mpaka pano ndikukana mokwanirana mwadala chifukwa tsopano ndikuyesera kuti thupi langa lizichita zinthu zogonana. Kuti tifike, komabe, aliyense amene ali ndi vuto la PMO akuchira ayenera kuyambiranso zomwe adakumana nazo azimayi kuti adziwe ngati zomwe zidachitikazo (komanso sizinachitike) - molondola popereka zomwe adazindikira - sizolondola chifukwa chizolowezichi chimasokoneza luso lathu la kuzindikira komanso kuzindikira.
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