Zaka zitatu zapitazo, ndili pachibwenzi ndi bwenzi langa lapano, ndidatenga vuto la nofap kuti ndithane ndi ED ndikuchedwa kuthamangitsa mavuto omwe akhala akundivutitsa kwazaka zambiri (ndinali 36 panthawiyo). Ndakhala ndikuonera zolaula kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 15 ndipo zotsatira zake zimakhala zowonekera ndikafuna kugonana ndi azimayi enieni, mavuto am'maganizo adakhala kumbuyo.
Tawonani, ndimaganiza kuti nkhawa zanga zambiri komanso mayendedwe a azimayi zimachitika chifukwa chodzidalira, kusowa chidziwitso kapena "kulawa" mwa akazi (palibe m'modzi yemwe adakhalapo wokwanira), ndipo adayambiranso zoyambira cholinga chopeza junk yanga pamwamba. Zidachita zodabwitsa ndipo pomwe tidalumikizana, kugonana kwathu kunali kosangalatsa ndipo kwakhala komweko.
Ndipo ndipamene zinthu zinavuta kwambiri.
Kwenikweni ine ndinabwerera mkati mwa miyezi ingapo ife tikukhala limodzi chifukwa cha lingaliro lachinyengo la chitetezo chomwe moyo wathu wa kugonana unaperekedwa. Malingana ngati zinthu ziri pabedi zinali zabwino, kubwerera ku zolaula zolaula zinali zabwino. Momwemo, molakwika kwambiri ine ndinali.
Tsopano, nkofunika kuzindikira kuti ubale wathu sunakhale wophweka ndipo pakhala zovuta zambiri ndi mikangano yomwe yakhala yovuta kuthana nayo. Kukula kunakhala mpumulo komanso njira yobwerera kwa iye atandikwiyitsa. Koma nthawi zonse tikapsompsonana ndikupanga, sindinakhalepo ndi vuto lililonse, chifukwa chake ndimangodya ndipo zimayamba kugunda kwambiri. Ndipo ndipamenenso imvi idayamba kukhazikika: kusowa chidwi, kusadzidalira, kusowa kolowera, chisokonezo, ndi zina zambiri. Zinayamba kukhudza moyo wanga wantchito, moyo wanga wopanga komanso, ubale wanga. Koma mpaka sabata yatha pomwe ndidavomereza zoonadi izi komanso kuti ndimachita zolaula (zomwe sindinavomereze poyambiranso).
Masiku asanu apitawo, nditapsa mtima kwambiri kwa PMO, ndidakumana ndi kanema wa Terry Crews / r / pcmasterrace za PC yake kumanga ndipo zanditsogolera ku kanema ka YouTube ndi mavidiyo ake akukambirana za zolaula zake. Ndinayamikira kwambiri zomwe adapeza ndikukambirana za izo ndipo chinachake chinandifotokozera mkati mwanga kuti ndikufunika kuphunzitsidwa kachilombo kazonda zolaula komanso zotsatira za maganizo zomwe zili ndi wogwiritsa ntchito. Ndipo ndi zomwe ndakhala ndikuchita kuyambira nthawi imeneyo.
Ndatulukira kwa GF yanga chifukwa cha vuto langa (ngakhale, mwatsoka, izo sizikuwoneka ngati ubale wathu udzapanga izo) komanso makolo anga ndikungochita zomwezo zinakweza nkhawa kwambiri ndi nkhawa zomwe ndakhala ndikutha kugona bwino usiku kwa nthawi yoyamba mu miyezi. Kotero makamaka ine ndikubwerera pa ngolo nthawi ino kuti ndiyambitse vuto lozama lachizolowezi. Ndikudziŵa kuti mwadzidzidzi ndikuyenda ulendo wamtchire, koma chofunika kwambiri ndikudziwa kuti pali njira yabwino yodzidzimvera nokha ndi anthu omwe mumakonda ndipo ndikukhulupirira kuti ndingathe kumenyana (palibe chilango chofunira).
Zikomo powerenga komanso kuyembekezera kuti izi zikhale bwino nthawi ino
TL / DR: Kubwezeretsanso bwino zaka 3 zapitazo kuti athe kuchiza ED ndikuchedwa kuchepetsa mavuto, kubwereranso mwakhama chifukwa cha chinyengo cha ubale ndi mgwirizano wovuta, kubwerera pagale kuti athe kuchiza.
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