Kuyang'ana kuonera zolaula, sindinathe kuwonetsa zolaula popanda kuwalimbikitsa. Ine ndiribenso chirichonse kuchokera kugonana. Chibwenzi chinali chitatha chifukwa chogonjera kugonana kwathu, komanso phindu la kugonana - aka chiwongolero - atapita chifukwa kuyang'ana anthu ena ogonana ndi njira yokha yomwe ndingachokere ....
Sindinganene kuti chizoloŵezi changa chogonana chinachotsedwa mpaka pomwe sindingathe kukhala popanda icho, koma ndithudi chinali chidakwa. Chinali chinthu chomwe ndinkafunika kuchichita, chifukwa ndinalibe mphamvu yakusiya ubale wanga.
Ndimatchulidwanso kuti ndizoledzera chifukwa chovuta kutero - zinatenga nthawi ndikuyesetsa kufufuza thupi langa ndikusangalala ndi kugonana kachiwiri.
Ine ndi mnzanga tinagawanika kumapeto kwa 2018, ndipo kumayambiriro kwa 2019 ndinadzipeza ndili pachibwenzi chatsopano. Zogonana zinali zodabwitsa - zonse zomwe ndinkasowa, koma ndinali akadakali m'maganizo kuti sindingathe kuwonetsa zolaula popanda kusangalatsa. Pamene ndinkasewera ndekha, ndimatha kuchoka maminiti - koma ziribe kanthu momwe ndayesera panthawi yogonana, izo sizikanatheka.
Ndipo kotero, ndinapanga cholinga changa chodula zolaula kwathunthu, ngati ndikufuna kuti ndizisangalala ndi kugonana kachiwiri. Ndinawachitira ngati ndikusiya ndudu - Ndinapita ku ozizira ozizira, ndipo masabata angapo oyamba anali ovuta, koma m'kupita kwa nthawi kunakhala kosavuta. Ndinayamba pofufuza thupi langa ndekha popanda zolaula, koma sindinathe kufika pachimake. Ndinali wokwiya kwambiri ndipo ndinkafuna kuvala kanema kuti andithandize kupita kumeneko - mofanana ndi pamene mukufunitsitsa kusuta - koma ndinadziuza ndekha, ndikuyesanso tsiku lotsatira. Ndipo tsiku lotsatira. Ndipo lotsatira.
Pambuyo poyesera pang'ono, ndinatha kuchoka popanda zolaula konse. M'malo moganizira malo amodzi, ndinayesa thupi langa kuti ndipeze chimene chinandipangitsa. Zinali kumasula, ndipo zinandipatsa chilimbikitso chochulukira kuti ndizichita zimenezi panthawi yogonana.
LINK - Nazi momwe ndinayambitsidwira ku zolaula
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