Sindinakhudze Dick wanga kwa masiku 50, sindinakonzepo (mwachiwonekere ndatsuka). Chifukwa chake, ndidaganiza zoyambira ulendo ndipo zakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri! Kotero, ndili ndi zaka 18 ndayesera kusiya kukula (ndinayamba kukula zaka 2 zapitazo) pafupifupi miyezi 4/5 tsopano.
Sindingathe ngakhale kudutsa sabata limodzi pafupifupi miyezi 4. Ine sindimakhoza basi kuchita izo. Ngakhale masiku 3 osaphuka ingakhale yovuta kwambiri.
Nditayamba kukula, ndimaganiza kuti zinali zachilendo. Mukudziwa kubowola. Mumasanthula zinthu zina ndikukula ndikumazindikira kuti ndi zathanzi, zabwinobwino, mumatha kugona bwino, kuyang'ana kwambiri komanso chilichonse chomwe angakuuzeni. Ayi, ayi, ayi, ayi, ayi, ayi! Tonsefe timakhulupirira mawebusayiti owoneka bwinowa kuti tithandizire kukula.
Chifukwa chake patatha zaka 2 ndikukula, ndinamva kuti ndikusiyana. Sindinamve momwe ndimamvera, sindinachite momwe ndimachitiramo ndi zina zambiri. Ndinkadziwa kuti china chake chalakwika chifukwa ndimakhala wovuta pagulu. Kotero, ine ndinayesera kuyika chala pa icho, chinalakwika ndi chiyani?
Miyezi 6 yapitayo ndinawona kanema wamnyamata yemwe anali kuchita NoFap. Anali ndimavuto ofanana ndi ine kotero ndimaganiza kuti ndapeza vuto lomwe likundikokera kumbuyo. Pambuyo pa tsiku limenelo ndinayamba ulendo wanga ndi NoFap. Ndidazindikira kuti sindingathe kuzichita ndekha choncho ndidaganiza zolowa nawo subreddit miyezi ingapo pambuyo pake.
Kugonjera kumeneku kunandithandiza. Inu anyamata mumandilimbikitsanso. Ndawerenga nkhani zanu zambiri, zolemba ndi zolephera. Zikomo.
Masiku XXUMX apitawa ndidayamba kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi nthawi zonse. Ndinangochotsa zonse ndipo ndaganiza zodzipereka kuti ndikhale munthu wabwino. Nanunso muyenera kutero.
Ngati mukumva kuti simukuchita chidwi, mwatopa, kucheza nawo pang'ono, osakondedwa, osadziwika ndi zina zambiri yambitsani NoFap tsopano! Koma ndikutanthauza pompano! Muyenera kupita kunja ndikusintha moyo wanu. Osati mawa, TSOPANO! Ngati ndingapeze masiku 50 osatha, ndiye kuti mutha kupeza masiku ∞ osapsa.
Ndikumva bwanji pakadali pano? Sindine womangika pagulu. Ichi ndichifukwa chake sindikubwereranso posachedwa. Ndazindikira kuti ndikulankhula ndi anthu atsopano, ndipo zovuta zamtunduwu zikuchoka pang'onopang'ono. Koma ndikafika kumeneko. Ndikumva kukhala wolunjika, wolimbikitsidwa, wokondwa, wolimbikitsidwa, wamphamvu etc.
Uwu ndi ulendo wanga, ndipo uwu ndi umodzi mwamaulendo abwino kwambiri amoyo wanga mpaka pano.
Moyo watsopano, tikuwonani masana 90!
- Ndikupepesa chifukwa cha mtundu uliwonse kapena / kapena galamala yanga, ndine wachi Dutch. '
LINK - Ndemanga zanga zowona mtima za 50 masiku a NoFap
by DrMonty123
ZOCHITIKA - Ndinafikira mtsikana ndipo ndi bwenzi langa tsopano
Chifukwa chake pomwe ndimachita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndidawona msungwana wokongola kwambiri, akuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi pogwiritsa ntchito makina ndipo amandiyang'anitsitsa. Sindingathe kuyang'anitsitsa pazomwe ndimachita. Ndimangomuyang'ana ngati watayika. Nthawi iliyonse akandiyang'ana ndimatembenuza mutu wanga mwachangu.
Zinali zopusa kwambiri mpaka ndinayamba kunjenjemera, sindimadziwa choti ndichite. Kenako ndidadzifunsa funso ili: "Kodi ndingomuyandikira ndikumuuza zomwe zili zabwino?". Ndinadziwa kuti tsopano kapena ayi.
Pamene ndinali kunjenjemera moseketsa, ndinaganiza zopita kwa iye ndipo ndinadziuza ndekha kuti: "Ino ndiye mphindi". Paphewa kumbuyo, chifuwa mmwamba! Ndidamuyang'ana m'maso momwemonso, nayenso ndidaseka ndipo nayenso. Ndidamufunsa zomwe akuphunzitsa lero ndipo adayankha kuti: "Ndikuphunzitsa miyendo yanga lero, iwe?". Ndinayankhadi "Inenso!" nditatha kukhala ndi chifuwa!
Ndidamuuza kuti ndidachita masewera olimbitsa thupi modabwitsa ndipo adachita chidwi ndipo amafuna kuti ndichite nawo masewera olimbitsa thupi. Inde ndizowona, kuyambira pondigwedeza matako ndikuchita mantha kwambiri kuti ndiyankhule, ndikuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi msungwana wosakhulupirira! Ndipo tidaphunzitsidwadi ngati maola awiri limodzi!
Tinakambirana zambiri ndipo ndinamukonda. Ndidamupatsa mayankho ndipo adayamba kundibwezera. Kodi mungaganizire izi? Adayamba kundikonda! Monga zinandipatsa nambala yanu kuti tizitha kuphunzitsanso aliyense! Adandipatsa!
Tsiku lotsatira ndidamufunsa ngati akufuna kuphunzitsa ndipo adati inde. Tinaphunzitsana ndikudya limodzi ngati 5 masiku otsatizana! Tinapita ku cinema limodzi. Ndipo zonsezi zinachitika pasanathe mlungu umodzi! Ndimaganiza kuti ndikulota ndipo nditha kudzuka mphindi iliyonse.
Anandiitanira kunyumba kwake masiku awiri apitawo ndipo ndinakumana ndi makolo ake. Ndinali kudya kunyumba kwake ndipo tinkangowonera makanema limodzi (sitinachite zogonana).
Ndipo dzulo linali D-Day kwa ine. Ndidamuitanira kunyumba kwanga ndipo tidachitanso zomwe tidachita kunyumba kwake koma nthawi ino tidagonana. Sindimafuna kuchita izi molawirira koma zidangochitika. Nthawi zingapo zogonana pambuyo pake (inde zinali zopenga) ndidamupempha kuti akhale bwenzi langa! Ndipo anati inde!
Iyi ndi nkhani yopenga kwambiri yomwe ndakumanapo nayo. Kodi zidachitika bwanji kwa ine? Kodi ndili ndi mwayi?
Zikomo powerenga izi. Zomwe ndimafuna kukuwuzani ndikuti chidaliro ndichofunikira, kulumikizana ndikofunikira, kuyandikira ndikofunikira. Sinthani batani ndikungochita. Ngati mukuchita mantha kufikira munthu. Musakhale. Mukangochita izi simudzanong'oneza bondo. Ndikhulupirire. Ngati simukuwombera simungathe kugunda!
Khalani okhazikika ndipo ndikhulupilira kuti aliyense wa inu adzagunda zolinga zanu!
Khalani ndi tsiku labwino OSATI kusefera!
Mtendere!
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