Lero, ndikufuna kugawana nawo zamasiku 90 a NoFap. Ndiloleni ndigawireko pang'ono pokha. Ndine wachikulire ku South Africa ndipo ndidzakhala ndikuchita chaka changa chomaliza kusukulu nditatha kuthamangitsa maloto anga. Ndinakulira bwino. Ndili ndi zaka 18 chaka chino.
Ndakhala ndikulimbana mosazindikira ndi zolaula pafupifupi zaka 5 tsopano. Nthawi yomwe ndidazindikira ndi pomwe ndidayamba kuzindikira kuti zizolowezi zanga zolaula zidasokoneza thupi langa ndi malingaliro anga.
Ndinayamba mosazindikira kusintha malingaliro anga okhudza akazi ndi umuna. Ndinali munthu wodwala kwambiri, ndinayamba kudwala mosavuta ndipo ndinayamba kutengeka ndi chilichonse ndi moyo wanga ngakhale ndidakali wachichepere ndimawona kuti chikuwopseza tsogolo langa.
Ndine wofufuza
. Ngati ndikufuna kudziwa zinazake. Ndisaka pa Google. Ndimayamika kwambiri kwa omwe amapanga Google chifukwa chofufuza mochititsa chidwi chonchi. Chifukwa chake ndimakhala wofunitsitsa kudziwa za zisonyezo zanga komanso zolaula komanso maliseche monga gulu. Mbali zina za intaneti zati zinali zabwino komanso zabwinobwino ndipo ena amawoneka kuti sagwirizana. Sindikukhulupirira chilichonse chomwe ndimamva. Ndimapanga kafukufuku wanga ndisanasankhe zomwe ndimakhulupirira.
Pakati pa izo, ndinapunthwa pa webusaitiyi NoFap ndipo ndinaganiza zowona zochitika za anthu ndikukula ndi zolaula. Ndidawerenga zokambirana zambiri pamisonkhano ndipo ambiri adavomereza kuti ali ndi mavuto azaumoyo chifukwa chakukula kwambiri komanso zolaula.
Pofika koyambirira kwa chaka chino, ndinali nditapeza zovuta masiku 14 komanso masiku 20 otsutsana ndi mabaji opambana Mukudziwa zomwe ndikutanthauza. Ndinaganiza kuti ndikufuna kuchita chinthu chokhumba, chachikulu. Kenako ndinapunthwa Masiku 90 NoFap. Ndinali woopsa kuti ndi nthawi yayitali ndikukhutira.
Nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndimayesa inali kuuluka. Ndidapeputsa vutoli ndipo sindinadziwe momwe ndikupitira patsogolo.
Tinali ndi nthawi yopuma yayitali….
Ndinali wokondwa koyamba kuti ndipume patali kusukulu ndiye masikuwo adakhala otalikirapo ndipo ndimakhala wosungulumwa pang'ono ngakhale ndimakhala ndi banja. Munthu wofooka amafuna zoipa malingaliro. Sikuti ndimangonena za moyo womwewo ndiye ndidayamba kuwunika momwe ndingawongolere kapena kufulumizitsa kupambana kwanga mtsogolo pogwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanga mwanzeru.
Ndinasankha kuti sindichita maliseche masiku 90 molunjika.
Ndidapumira m'masiku oyamba a 20 chifukwa ndidakhala ndi chizolowezi chopita patapita nthawi yayitali. Nditakwanitsa zaka 30. Yohhhh !!! Sindinawonepo thupi langa likuponyera zinthu zambiri tsiku limodzi. Ndinali h **** ngati heck. Koma pokhala ine ndidanyalanyaza ndikupitiliza ndi zomwe ndimachita.
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Yayyyyy !!! Pomaliza ndidzawona gululi ndi chilichonse. Sindinkaganiza kuti ndikumana ndi atsikana (omwe si banja) patapita nthawi yayitali. Ndili pasukulu yogonera komweko soooo…. mumagwira chimango chachikulu. Ndinali mkati mwa masiku anga a 40 ndipo ndimathamangirabe mwamphamvu. Zinali zonyenga koma ndidayesetsa kwambiri kukhala ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana nthawi zonse. Palibe nthawi yokhala opanda munthu.
Ndidakwanitsa ndipo zidayamba kukhala zovuta koma ndimayenera kuzindikira kuti malingaliro anu amatsukidwa panthawiyi kuti musayambitsidwe mosavuta koma mukadzachita bwino (amasiyana pakati pa anthu). Ndinakwanitsa kufika zaka za m'ma 60, 70 ndi 80.
Pofika masiku anga omaliza, ndinali nditayamba kukonda ndikuyamikira zinthu zambiri koma koposa zonse. Ndidasankha kusintha zizolowezi zomwe zimapeza thanzi labwino ndikuwonjezera kutukuka kwanga m'malingaliro mwanga ndi thupi. Panali zopindulitsa ku NoFap koma eyy ndi ulendo wovuta (makamaka ngati simugonana kapena kukhalabe namwali).
Ndinabwereranso (akukula popanda zolaula) masiku 4 asanakwane.
Makhalidwe a nkhaniyi. Sinthani kuti mukhale bwino kuti mudzisamalire nokha. Zinthu zabwino zimakopeka ndi mphamvu zabwino. Chifukwa chake chodabwitsa chodabwitsa anthu mwanjira ina amakumana ndi kuchuluka kwakukondwererana koma heyyyyy !! NoFap ndi malo abwino oti mupezeko chithandizo ndipo ndichizolowezi chokhazikitsa kuti matupi anu azipeza zakudya komanso thanzi labwino.
Ndikulangiza mabuku omwe andithandiza pantchito yonseyi. Ndimenyeni ngati mukufuna thandizo kapena ngati mukufuna wina woti alankhule naye ☆☆☆.
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