Chifukwa chake m'banja mwathu, masiku okumbukira kubadwa amagawika m'magulu angapo; masiku akubadwa kuyambira Meyi - Seputembala, ndi ena kuyambira Januware - February. Pali msuweni uyu, yemwe ali ngati mchimwene wanga wotayika pankhani ya zochitika zam'banja, yemwe adakhala pafupi ndi ine pachakudya chathu cha Khrisimasi. Amayi anga anandiuza kuti awona china chake. Msuweni m'modzi (yemwe ali ngati zaka 2 wocheperako ine) anali akundiyang'ana usiku wonse. Poyamba sindimamukhulupirira kwenikweni, koma ndidangoganiza zopempha msuweni wanga kuti abwere kudzacheza payekha kwinakwake.
Zambiri za msuwani wanga; Ali ndi zaka 16, koma zaka zake sizikugwirizana ndi kukhwima kwake. Ndi mwana wanzeru, wodziwa komanso wodalirika. Iye amadziwa zomwe iye akuzinena, kuziyika izo monga choncho. Sitinakumanenso kuyambira kumapeto kwa Seputembala, patsiku lomaliza lobadwa la 'gulu'. (Ndinayamba NoFap koyambirira kwa Okutobala)
Tikulankhula, ndidamufunsa zomwe akuganiza kuti zasintha kuyambira nthawi yomwe tidakumana. Adavomereza kuti adayamba kundiyang'ana ngati momwe ndimakhalira chitsanzo chake kuyambira tsikulo, chifukwa m'malingaliro ake, ndinali wolimba mtima kwambiri, wotsimikiza komanso koposa zonse, ndimacheza ndikusunga ubale wabwino ndi aliyense amene ndidakumana naye. Anati nthawi zonse amandidziwa ngati munthu m'modzi yemwe adayamba kudzipatula kwa ena onse, omwe amapewa kulumikizana ndipo samasamala zomwe zikuchitika ku IRL, ndizomwe amakumbukira kuyambira nthawi yomwe tidakumana. Anakonda momwe angaphunzirire zambiri kuchokera kwa ine kuti akhale munthu wabwino kwambiri yemwe angakhale. Nditamva zomwe akunena zathanzi langa, ndidazindikira zomwe NoFap inali.
Kwa ine, NoFap sichinakhale chinthu chomwe ndakhala ndikuchita nawo kuti ndipeze zabwino zomwe aliyense akunena. Kuyambira pomwe ndinayamba NoFap, ndimafuna kuti ndibwerere momwe ndimakhalira ndili ndi zaka 12/13; enthuisiastic, zabwino komanso zosangalatsa kusaka dziko lapansi. Zinthu zazing'ono zomwe amayi anga amaziwona, zimasandulika zomwe ndimakonda kwambiri m'moyo. Kupeza mayamiko osawonekera monga awa, ndizosangalatsa kuwona zomwe NoFap zabweretsa pamoyo wanga wamalingaliro ndi malingaliro. Anthu amazindikira kuti ndine ndani, ndipo ndimawayamikira. Ichi ndi chitsimikizo china kuti ndikubwereranso ndikukhala ndi moyo wangwiro, ndipo ndili wokondwa kuwona zomwe dziko lapansi ladzapereka zaka zikubwerazi!
Zikomo powerenga nkhani yanga, ndimangofunika kugawana ndi anthuwa, chifukwa sizikanatheka popanda NoFap. Sindinatumize zambiri pa subreddit iyi, koma ndabwera kuno kamodzi masiku angapo kuti ndiwerenge nkhani / mauthenga olimbikitsa / ndi zina. Kwa inu nonse omwe mukuvutikira kuti mupitilize, ndikhulupilira kuti nkhani yaying'ono iyi yakulimbikitsani kuti mupitilize kusintha pakapita miyezi / zaka zotsatirazi <3. Khalani omasuka kundifunsa chilichonse chokhudza ulendo wanga wa NoFap mpaka pano 😉
Ndidachita [kumuuza za NoFap]! Zinali zovuta poyamba, popeza komwe ndimakhala nthawi zambiri sitimalankhula zolaula, koma amamvetsetsa zomwe ndikulankhula ndi zomwe NoFap ikhoza kubweretsa kwa munthu, yemwe amakonda kwambiri PMO. Sindinkafuna kumuvutitsa kuti ndifunse za moyo wake wa PMO, koma ngati ali wokonda kwambiri, ndikutsimikiza kuti awonanso dera ili 😉
Ndine wazaka XXUMX pakadali pano.
Pazifukwa zina anthu omwe ndimakumana nawo masiku ano nthawi zonse amandiuza kuti amakonda kwambiri momwe maso anga amawalira kwambiri. Zitha kukhala chifukwa choti sindinatope 24 / 7 monga momwe zidalili NoFap, ikhoza kukhala chinthu china. Idk, sindikudandaula.
Khungu langa lakhala likuwoneka bwino kuyambira tsiku 20ish (kale linali ndi ziphuphu zing'onozing'ono kuno ndi apo), ndipo tsitsi langa lakhala likuwonjezeka kwambiri mu khungu komanso kunenepa.
Zakhalanso zophweka kwambiri kukonza zinthu ndi kuzizichita kuposa kale. Ndinayambanso kugwira ntchito masana 8-10ish kuti ndichite kena kake ndi mphamvu zonse zomwe ndatsala, ndipo zotsatira pambuyo masiku XXUMX zikuwoneka kwambiri (masiku a 75 / sabata).
Moyo sukadakhala wabwino kwa ine kuposa momwe zilili pompano tbh.
Chokhacho 'chosowa' ndi chibwenzi, koma nthawi idzafika nthawi, milingo yanga yokopa yakula kwambiri kotero sindine amene amadandaula nazo. 😉
LINK - Izi zidachitika tsiku lina
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