Zaka 20 - Liwu lakuya, Chidaliro chachikulu, Kusavuta kucheza nawo, Super Calm, Pempho lalikulu pakugonana, sindikuyendetsa aliyense

Zinthu zambiri zasintha kuyambira popewa. Choyimira cham'mbuyo chinali masiku 150 +, masiku 60 kuti adutse mpaka tidutse chingwe chapitacho.

Kodi ndingakwanitse bwanji kuleka nthawi yayitali?

Choyambirira, sindimakhala kunyumba nthawi yonseyi, ndimaphunzira ndipo sindikhala ndekha, chifukwa izi zimandipangitsa kuti ndisayandikire, koma tbh, ndizotheka, koma sindikufuna. Ndimakhala wotanganidwa nthawi zonse, kupatula ndikamagona, ndikamasuka ndimapita kumalo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena ndimathamanga, kumapeto kwa sabata ndimapita kumakalabu etc. Koma mavuto amabwera ndikabwerera kunyumba ndikukhala ndekha kumeneko kwakanthawi, ndiye zolimbikitsazi zikukwera, koma pang'ono pang'ono, palibe chopenga chomwe sindingathe kuchilamulira. Chinsinsi ndicho kukhala otanganidwa, kusungulumwa, kusungulumwa ndiye mdani wathu wamkulu, chifukwa chake tiyenera kupewa. Sabata yapitayi, ndinali ndi maloto onyentchera, 2 motsatira ndipo zotsatira zake zinali zoyipa, chilakolakocho chinali chachikulu kwambiri (ndimayendera banja langa kunyumba kwanga ndipo ndinali ndekha), mutu wanga udachita chizungulire, koma ine basi ndinanyamula chikwama changa ndikupita kumalo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi, nditabwerera kunyumba, ndinamva bwino. Ndikuyesera njira yosungira umuna, imathandizadi, komabe ndizovuta kuyisamalira, chifukwa nthawi zina mumadzuka musanalote mwakachetechete ndipo mwanjira ina mumazisiya, koma nthawi zina ayi…

Ndikungopitilizabe ndi moyo.

Chibwenzi ndi zopinga.

Samalani ndi "Tinder", chifukwa ngati mungayang'ane kwakanthawi Itha kukuyambitsani, kudzutsa, mwina ikhoza kukubwezeretsani m'mbuyo, ndimagwiritsa ntchito Tinder, koma ndidazindikira, kuti sichabwino muubongo wanu, pomwe ambiri Atsikanawo ndi amaliseche, kungolimbikitsa ma egos + ambiri a iwo si achilengedwe, ndiye kuti uwu ndi msampha, adzaika malingaliro anu pamakhalidwe oyipa omwe angadziphe nokha ndipo mudzaganiza kuti simuli mgulu lawo . Ingosiya kugwiritsa ntchito tinder.

Pakati pa mzerewu, ndidakumana ndi msungwana (osati tinder), iyi inali nthawi yoyamba mzaka 3 pomwe ndimayesa chibwenzi ndikutsegulira msungwana. Tinapita kukamwa khofi kawiri (palibe chomwe chidakumbatirana mwachisoni), tidacheza kwambiri, koma adandiuza kuti chibwenzi chake choyambacho chidamukhudza, choncho akuopa kupitiliza ndipo sakudziwa ngati akufuna kukwatiwa ndi m'modzi tsiku. Chabwino, ndikulemekeza lingaliro lake, koma gawo lopweteka ndiloti mukumukonda kwambiri mtsikanayo ndipo mukumvetsetsa, kuti palibe mwayi kupatula kukhala mabwenzi… Koma chabwino, ndikulimba mtima kuyesera kupita patsiku. Pakadali pano ndikumva kanthu kena, sindikumva ngati kuti ndasiyidwa ndi ligi ya wina, mwina atsikana omwe akuti -ndinu mu ligi yanga… .tsikana, mwina mwatuluka mu ligi ngati mukuwoneka onyenga? (chabwino, palibe amene anandiuza zimenezo, koma inu mukumva lingaliro), ndine wotsimikiza ndipo ndikudziwa kuti ndine wofunika.

Patsiku lakale la 150+ atsikana omwe anali mgululi ankasewera ndi chifuwa changa ngati chomata. Paphwandopo, msungwana wina yemwe anali ndi bwenzi lake adandigwira bulu ndikundiuza kuti ndili ndi bulu wabwino (chodabwitsa ndichakuti, sindimachita masewera ndipo ma buns anga sanaphunzitsidwe), chifukwa chake ndimawafunsa, ndi awo chabwino, amangoyankha: mukufuna kuyesa? ………. Inde, anali abwino, ndikukutsimikizirani, koma m'modzi mwa iwo anali ngati wolera, kotero palibe chomwe chingachitike

Pakalipano, atsikana akundiyang'ana pafupipafupi, kumapeto kwa sabata lino mtsikana wina wopanda pake amandilembera ine ndikundifunsa ngati ndikufuna kuyenda naye, motero ndidavomera.

ubwino:

  • Liwu lozama
  • Nkhope yambiri yoyeretsa
  • Chidaliro chambiri
  • Chida chachikulu pakugonana
  • Kupanga chisankho chabwino
  • Yosavuta kucheza
  • Kuchuluka kwa minofu yayikulu ndi zotsatira zabwino mu masewera olimbitsa thupi
  • Kwambiri mwaukali, ndikunena zomwe ndikuganiza.
  • Sindikuthamangitsa aliyense kuti avomereze
  • Kulimbitsa Mtima
  • Beard ikukula bwino komanso 2x ikufulumira

Kutsika:

  • Maloto amvula nthawi ndi nthawi
  • Super mosavuta kukwiya
  • Kutchera khutu kwambiri, zonse zikutembenukira ndikosavuta
  • Kusinthika kwa ululu, tsiku lina nditha kukhala woseketsa, wina ndikupha (kwambiri af)
  • Ndikuwona zopindulitsa zochepa chifukwa ndikuyamba kuzolowera, osayenda pamadzi kapena chilichonse.

Lero:

Ndikumva kukhala wamkulu kwambiri, ndimayankhula zochepa, ndimangomvera ndikunena kena kofunikira pakafunika kutero. Nthawi zambiri ndimakhala wotopa komanso tulo, koma mwina ndichifukwa chophunzira. Ndipitiliza kupita patsogolo pamzere wanga, ndikukhala monga kale. Ngati muli ndi mafunso, omasuka kufunsa.

LINK - Masiku 90 afika, ndilibe mabuleki.

by Pepala