Lero ndafika masiku 90. Nkhani yayitali, NoFap yasintha moyo wanga. Ndikulemba izi kuti ndikhulupirire kuti ndibwezeretsanso ndikulimbikitsa ena. Choyamba, tiyeni tiyambire ndi komwe ndinali ndisanakhale NoFap, kenako ndikufotokozera komwe ndili tsopano! Onetsetsani kuti mwawerenga gawo lonse la "Tiyeni tikambirane za komwe ndili", Ndikudziwa kuti zikulimbikitsani! Kumbukirani, izi zitha kukhala INU m'masiku 90 okha!
Ngakhale anali mnyamata wazaka 20 wokongola, Atsikana anakanidwa ndi ine. Atsikana ambiri amatha kunena kuti ndine wokongola, abwenzi anzanga amati ndine 8/10. Mungaganize kuti atsikana anali onse pa ine, ZOLAKWIKA. Nditha kupeza Snapchat kapena nambala ya atsikana, koma m'malemba awiri oyamba, nthawi zonse imangokhala pansi. Zinali ngati panali chizindikiro chakumbuyo kwanga chikunena "Osalankhula ndi munthu uyu."
Ine ndakhala ndiri nthawizonse munthu wofuna kwambiri, Kuyambitsa mabizinesi ochepa ama e-commerce m'mbuyomu. Komabe, ngakhale ndichita bwino kwambiri, ndakhala ndikudzilimbitsa ndekha ndikumva kuti pali mtundu winawake kutseka pakati panga ndi zolinga zanga zamtsogolo.
Ndimabweza, ndimakonda kuthamangitsa aliyense, osati atsikana okha. Ndinkadziuza ndekha kuti ndine munthu wodalirika, koma ndimayesetsa kwambiri. Ndimayenda mozungulira ndi yanga chifuwa chodzitukumula, mikono ikugwedezeka mozungulira. Ichi sichinali chidaliro chenicheni. Ndikakhala pagulu, lingaliro langa # 1 nthawi zonse limakhala "Ndikudabwa ngati anthu akuganiza kuti ndikuwoneka wotsimikiza pakali pano" kapena "Kodi ndikuyenda mokwanira." Lingaliro langa lonse lidatengera zomwe anthu ena amaganiza za ine.
Zinganditengere kwamuyaya kuti ndiyandikire atsikana m'njira yochulukirapo kuposa abwenzi. Ndipo ndikangoyandikira, zimatha sabata limodzi kapena awiri.
Ndinali ndi ochuluka a zibwenzi zazikazi. Ndikakhala pagulu, ndimayesetsa kuyang'ana atsikana, chifukwa chidwi chidandipatsa dopamine. KOMA, atsikana amatero kawirikawiri ndiyang'aneni m'maso mwanga. Zinali ngati ndili ndi chophimba choyipa chophimba maso anga.
Nthawi zonse ndimanyamula chikumbumtima manyazi ndi liwongo. Maganizo oipawa adaphimba chilichonse chomwe ndimachita.
Mwina nditha kuyiwala zinthu zochepa, komabe, ndikuyembekeza kuti izi ndizolimbikitsa. Ndikufuna kunena kuti kukopa kwa akazi sikuyenera kukhala chifukwa chachikulu choyambira NoFap. Ganizirani nokha anyamata, mutha kukwaniritsa chilichonse! Komabe, ndikunena za zitsanzo zingapo za zokopa za akazi monga, kunena zowona, zikulimbikitsani kuposa njira zina.
Chiwonetsero 1- Tiyambe ndi zomwe aliyense akufuna kumva. Chokopa cha akazi (werengani chinthu chonsechi, ndichopenga). Ndinakumana ndi mtsikana uyu m'kalasi yanga yolembera chaka chatha, tiyeni timutche dzina lake K. Tidagwirira ntchito limodzi kangapo pantchito, ndipo ngakhale tidasangalala ndi kampani ina iliyonse, china chake chinali kutilepheretsa kuyandikira. Ndinkamukonda kwambiri popeza ndiwodabwitsa kwambiri ndipo kwenikweni ndi 9/10, koma kulakwa kwanga kunandipangitsa kumva kuti anali wabwino kwambiri kwa ine. Kuletsa kumeneku kwatha. Nazi zitsanzo zopenga za zomwe zachitika posachedwa:
Ndinapachika ndi K masabata awiri apitawa (aka kanali koyamba kupachikidwa kusukulu) ndipo adatinso "wow ndikumva ngati ndimalota, ndakhala ndikudikirira nthawi yayitali." Atsikana amatha kudziwa mphamvu zanu mukakhala pa mzere. Anatinso “Pali china chake chokhudza inu chomwe chikuwoneka kuti ndi chapadera kwambiri. Zili ngati muli ndi mphamvu zambiri m'moyo wanu, ndikumva mphamvu yanu. ” Ndikudziwa kuti sakananena izi, komanso sindingakhalepo ngati ndikadali ndi maliseche.
Kuphatikiza apo, tikulendewera, mnzake wapamtima adabwera kudzakhala nafe kwa mphindi zochepa. Mnzake wapamtima anandivomereza nthawi yomweyo. Mnzake wapamtima akunyamuka, adatembenukira kwa K nati (pamaso panga pankhope panga) "wow sindinakumaneko ndi wina wonga iye, ali bwino kuposa momwe wafotokozera!" Komanso! Momwe ndimalemba izi, ndidapeza nkhope kuchokera kwa K ndipo tsopano tikukapemphera kumapeto kwa sabata!
Chiwonetsero 2- Atsikana pamapeto pake amakopeka ndi ine. Kwa nthawi yoyamba m'moyo wanga, ndili ndi anzanga OONA. Mwa njira, ndikulankhula za mtsikana watsopano mchitsanzo ichi, timutcha mtsikana watsopanoyu M. M ndipo timalankhula kangapo tsiku lililonse, timathandizana wina ndi mnzake, ndipo timakhala ndi "abwenzi omwe ali ndi maubwino" osagwirizana kupitirira. Zakhala zotsitsimutsa kwenikweni ndipo zandipatsa chidziwitso chokwanira chokhala bwenzi labwino, loganizira ena komanso lothandiza kwa atsikana.
Chiwonetsero 3- Atsikana akundiyang'ana kulikonse komwe ndikupita. Sabata yatha, ndinali kudalira chitseko cha galimoto yanga ndili pawonetsero yamagalimoto, ndipo gulu la atsikana anayi okongola kwambiri anali pafupi 30 mapazi. M'modzi mwa iwo adandiona ndipo adandilozetsa dzanja lake, kenako atsikana atatuwo adatembenuka kuti ayang'ane. Ndinali wopanda unphased komanso wotsimikiza. Sindinayang'ane kumbali, sindinasunthe mosakhazikika, ndinangoima pamenepo ndikumwetulira kwinaku atsikana onse akungondiyang'ana modabwa. Amatha kumva mphamvu zanga zachimuna. Ndili ndi chidaliro kwambiri polankhula ndi atsikana tsopano. Zili ngati kuti ubongo wanga umadziwa zomwe ndinganene, sindiyeneranso kuganiza.
Chiwonetsero 4- Ngakhale pa Zoom imafuna makalasi aku University, ndimatha kupanga ubale wapamtima mwachangu ndi anthu. Poyamba ndinkachita zoipa kwambiri ndikamayandikira anthu. Kukambirana kungakhale kwapamwamba kwambiri. Tsopano, zili ngati kuti pali mphamvu yomwe ikuwombera kuchokera kwa ine amene ndikulankhula naye. Ndimatha kupanga ubale ndi anthu mwachangu. Chifukwa chake… Ndimaphunzira pasukulu yokhala ndi gulu lotchuka kwambiri la basketball ndipo ndili mkalasi ndi m'modzi wodziwika bwino wachimwemwe. Tidayikidwa mchipinda chomwecho pa Zoom, ndipo titalankhula kwa mphindi zochepa, tidatha kumanga Chiyanjano cholimba kotero kuti lero lero ndazindikira kuti anditsata pa Instagram.
chidaliro- Tsopano ndili ndi chidaliro chonse mwachilengedwe. Sindiyesanso kutsimikizira ndekha. Sindiyesetsanso kuyenda molimba mtima. Ndine ine ndekha, chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti ndine wokwanira. Ndipo chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti ndine wokwanira, aliyense amandiwona kuti ndine wabwino. Chidaliro changa chokhazikika komanso chachilengedwe sichimangondipangitsa kukhala wosangalala, komanso chandilola kuti ndikhale ndi vuto lililonse ndikakumana ndi anthu ena. Tsopano ndikhoza kupanga ubale wabwino ndi atsikana ndi anyamata. Ndikuganiza kuti izi ndichifukwa choti ndathetseratu manyazi komanso kudziimba mlandu.
Mabwenzi- Ndakhala ndi mwayi wambiri wopanga maubwenzi m'miyezi yapitayi. Nthawi zambiri ndimakhala wochezeka, koma monga ndanenera kale, ndimawoneka kuti ndimathamangitsa anthu. Tsopano ndimatha kulumikizana ndi anthu ndikukhala abwenzi nthawi yomweyo. Mwachitsanzo, masabata angapo apitawa ndidapita kunyumba yamzanga kunyanja ndipo anthu ena 5 osasinthika adalipo. Nthawi yomweyo ndinayamba kucheza nawo onse, ndinali ndi nthawi yodabwitsa, ndipo tsopano m'modzi wawo ndi m'modzi wa anzanga apamtima, ndi mnzake wamtsogolo wamalonda.
Kuchita Bizinesi- Sindinakhalepo ndi zotulukapo zatsopano zatsopano ndi bizinesi, komabe, ndikumva zanga kulimbitsa thupi tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndili ndi chidaliro chonse kuti ndikwaniritsa zolinga zanga za e-commerce posachedwa, ndipo zikadzachitika, ndidzalemekeza NoFap pazambiri zanga zopambana. NoFap yandilola kuti ndiyang'ane moyo wanga mosakondera, ndipo chinthu chimodzi chomwe ndidazindikira posachedwa ndikuti ndiyenera kuyamba kuchita zinthu tsiku ndi tsiku kuti ndikwaniritse zolinga zanga mwachangu. Ndikuganiza kuti ulendowu wa NoFap wandilola kuti ndizingoganizira zodzichiritsa ndekha kuchokera mkati, ndipo tsopano ndizitha kukwaniritsa zolinga zanga zakunja mosavuta.
Kukambirana- Ndinakhala wokonda kulankhula kwambiri. Izi zimabwerera kuzitsanzo zokopa za akazi ndi K, koma nthawi iliyonse ndikamacheza yayitali ndi mzanga watsopano kapena wakale, amakhala nthawi zonse ndikuchita mantha ndimomwe ndimathandizira pazokambirana. K ndi mnzake wapamtima adanena kuti ndine munthu wosangalatsa kwambiri yemwe adalankhulapo naye. Iwo adati "ndimamva ngati ndine wolemba wotchuka padziko lonse lapansi, ndimawawerengera imodzi mwa nkhani zanga zopambana."
Ndikukhulupirira kuti uthengawu walimbikitsa wina kuti ayesere NoFap kapena kuthana ndi vuto. Ndine wokondwa kukuwonani nonse mukukwaniritsa zolinga zanu. Ndingakonde kuyankha mafunso aliwonse omwe nonse muli nawo, choncho chonde khalani omasuka kundifunsa chilichonse chomwe chili m'maganizo mwanu. Ndikukhulupirira kuti nkhaniyi ifikira anthu ambiri momwe zingathere, kotero chonde kondani, sungani kapena siyani ndemanga ngati mukumverera! Zikomo kwambiri powerenga zonsezi! Pitilizani ntchito yayikulu, ndikhulupilira inu! 🙂
By redreduser
LINK - Nkhani Yopambana ya Tsiku la 90 (Kukopa Kwa Akazi / Kusintha Kwa Moyo / Kutalika Kwambiri)
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