Zaka 20 - Mphamvu zambiri, Mphamvu zimakhala zolimba, Khalani ndi zifukwa zambiri, sindimataya mtima pakakhala zovuta, Osakhalanso ndi nkhawa pagulu

PS: sry wanga Chingerezi
Kotero nthawi yanga yotsatsira ikuwonetsa masiku 140 koma sindisamala chifukwa ndimaona kuti ndachiritsidwa ndipo sindibwerera m'mbuyo ngakhale makampani azotaya zinyalala ano.
Kwakhala msewu wautali, pafupifupi miyezi 7 kuti mutuluke. Ndidachita mitsinje ya 47,23,6,3 ndipo tsopano 140+ ndipo iyi idzakhala yopanda malire ngati Mulungu angafune.
Tsamba ili lidandithandizadi kuyankha mafunso anga ena ndikupeza thandizo, ty chachikulu kwa opanga!
Poyambirira ndimangofuna kufikira masiku 90 kuti ndilandire "zopambana" koma panthawi yomwe ndimachotsa detox ndidasintha malingaliro anga. M'malingaliro mwanga simupambana ngati simusintha malingaliro anu, ndichifukwa chake ndalephera koyamba.

Pazabwino zake tiyeni tichite mndandanda wachangu

thupi:

-Ndili ndi mphamvu zambiri

Maso anga asintha, Ndili ndi maso amunthu, kupenya kwanga kulibe kanthu

- Mwinamwake zinthu zambiri zasintha ndipo sindinazizindikire (bambo anga anandiuza kuti sindinkawoneka wotopa ngati kale [ndinali kusewera ndikusewera tsiku lonse])

Malingaliro:

-Mphamvu zolimba ndizolimba, sindimvera malingaliro anga ngati chinyama, ndikadziwa kuti china chake chandivuta nditha kukana.

- Ndili ndi zifukwa zambiri

- sindimataya mtima china chake chikakhala chovuta

- Sindikusamala kwambiri kuposa kale za zomwe ena adzaganize za ine, osakhalanso ndi nkhawa zamankhwala kapena kupsinjika. Sindiyenera kukhala wangwiro, sindiyenera kukhala monga ena amafunira, ndimachita momwe ndimafunira (motsimikiza).

- Ndinamvetsetsa chifukwa chomwe ndinali padziko lapansi nditagwiritsa ntchito malingaliro anga komanso chifukwa changa, sindife ana anyani kapena kupusa komwe amatiphunzitsa, ndife zolengedwa za Mulungu.

Chitsanzo chaching'ono chokha choti mungakutsimikizireni: mukapeza foni pakati pa chipululu mungaganize kuti "oh iyi foni ndiyachilengedwe, idapangidwa mwangozi, thanthwe lidasinthika ndi nthawi, mphepo idapanga mawonekedwe ake abwino etc. ”? Izi ndizopusa, ndiye ndikuuzeni kuti thupi lanu (tisalankhulenso za gawo lamalingaliro, moyo wathu) ndizovuta kwambiri nthawi 1000000 kuposa foni.
Nayi kanema yemwe ndimakonda chifukwa munthu uyu ali ndi malingaliro ambiri

Mukapeza china chabwino mukufuna kugawana ndi enawo, sindikakamiza aliyense, Asilamu sakupha kapena achigawenga, mutha kukhala Msilamu wopanda ndevu zazikulu komanso chovala choyera, zomwe zili mkati mwanu ndizofunikira kwambiri .

Chifukwa chake zomwe ndidaphunzira pa zakugonana.

Poyamba ndidaphunzira kuti tsiku lomwe ndidzakhala tate ndiziwalongosolera bwino ana anga kuposa makolo anga omwe sanandiuze chilichonse mwatsatanetsatane kapena kundifotokozera tsatanetsatane wa kugonana.

Chachiwiri, kugonana mukamachita bwino (ndi akazi anu ngati mamuna ndi amuna anu ngati akazi) kumakhala kosangalatsa.

Amayi Atatu ndi anthu, tonse tikudziwa izi koma sitimachita. Ngakhale ena a iwo sangadzidzilembe okha kuvala mopepuka kwambiri, tiyenera kuwalemekeza koma osawaona ngati mtendere wa thupi.

4 Monga bambo ndimamvetsetsa chifukwa chake ukwati ndikofunika, mukazolowera mkazi mutagonana, mumayamba kusokonezeka ndi thupi lake ndikukopeka ndi zina. Ukwati wabwera kudzakutonthozani; Simungamuponye iye kenako. Chofunika kwambiri ngati mutapeza mwana simungatha kuthawa ndikuthawa ndichinthu choyipa kwambiri chomwe mungachite, kuwononga moyo wanu kumbuyo kwanu komanso zokulirapo chifukwa ana anu amabweretsa mavuto pagulu.
https://owlcation.com/social-sciences/Psychological-Effects-On-Men-Growing-Up-Without-A-Father

5th Gawo lanu lachiwerewere lizingogwiritsidwa ntchito ndi AKAZI. Osangosewera ngakhale popanda zolaula. Kodi chimachitika ndi chiyani mukapanga? Mukumasula mphamvu zamtengo wapatali, chimodzimodzi ndi kugonana. Chifukwa chake, simulimbikitsidwa, ndikuganiza kuti Mulungu adapanga izi kwa amuna kuti tikhala ndi mkazi komanso ubale, timakhala ndi mphamvu zochepa zogwirira ntchito zazikulu zokha ndipo sitikufunanso kumusiya. Koma mutatha kusewera mukakhala kuti simunachite chilichonse pa moyo wanu mudzakhala ndi kumverera komweko ndipo simudzakhoza kupita patsogolo. Ndi chifukwa chake nditasanja ndimatha kusewera masewera-makanema tsiku lonse ndikukhala bwino nazo. Tsopano popeza ndasiya kusefa ndimatopetsa masewera amenewa (ndikamasewera ndekha) ndipo ndimachita zina zopindulitsa.

6 Kugonana kumatha kukhala chinthu chokongola komanso china chonyansa nthawi yomweyo.

Zili ngati chilichonse, zimatengera momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito, mumatha kuphika ndi mpeni koma kuvulaza ena. Ngati mungasangalatsidwe ndi makampani azolaula ndipo simukugwirizana ndi zomwezo mungapite pansi Nd. Mukhala okonda zonyansa kwambiri, mudzakhala ndimavuto ambiri chifukwa chodziseweretsa maliseche kwambiri ndipo pamapeto pake mumalawa kudya mapiritsi omwe angakupheni poizoni ndipo mwina mukhale ogonana a pedo etc. Koma sizichedwa kutha ndipo mutha kuchitapo kanthu nthawi zonse. Kusachita chilichonse kumakhala kowopsa, kuyesa kusiya ndi kulephera mobwerezabwereza sikuti.

Kwa anthu omwe adakali okonda kukayikira ndipo akukayika: Sikuti chifukwa simunakumanepo ndi chinthu chomwe sichikupezeka. Ngati ndikukuuzani kuti moyo wopanda kusefa ndi bwino utha kuganiza kuti ndalakwitsa. Izi ndichifukwa choti mumakhala ndi chisangalalo pompopompo ndikuti mutha kuyang'ana, pomwe simungayang'ane ndikudziwa zomwe ndikunena (monga dziko lapansili ndi tsiku lomaliza), koma zinthu zina ziyenera kukhala ZONSE kuti zimveke. Chokhacho chomwe mungachite ndikudalira ena, kwenikweni moyo ndi wabwino kwambiri osasefa. Sichabwino kwa nthawi yayitali ndipo nthawi zina chimakhala chovuta, koma nthawi zambiri NDIMAKONDA MOYO WANGA WONSE WOPANDA KUKOPA KWA INU. Simungamvetsetse pokhapokha mutasiya mankhwala, omwe akukuwonongerani mkati ndi kunja. Kusiya ndikovuta, koma uzisangalala ndi MOYO Wanu utatha kuchita izi.
Chifukwa chiyani ndizovuta?
PAKATI mu FAP: kusangalala pompopompo, kuvulaza thupi lanu ndi ubongo wanu kubwera pang'onopang'ono kuti musamveke.
PAMENE ALI KU DETOX: kuvutika nthawi yomweyo, kuchiritsa thupi lanu ndi ubongo wanu kubwera pang'onopang'ono kuti musamve.

Ngati simungathe kusiya kusefukira chifukwa chake ndikukuchenjezani, tsiku lina mbali zonse zoyipa zikhala: kuwonongeka, mavuto osagwirizana, mavuto amgwirizano ndi ena ndipo mudzangokhala ndi maso anu kuti mulire. Tili ndi chibadwa ndipo ndizovuta kukana, koma monga umunthu timatha kulingalira zamtsogolo ndikupanga zisankho zabwino, kotero ngati china chake sichabwino koma chikusangalatsa, tiyenera kuchisiya ngakhale zitakhala zovuta, komanso mosiyana. Zosangalatsa sizikhala zamuyaya mdziko lino, tsiku lina mudzangopeza zotsatira za zochita zanu. Monga osuta akalandira khansa.

Tsopano popeza ndamasulidwa ku makampani oyipawa ndimapeza moyo weniweni, kuyenda pamtunda kumakhala kosangalatsa

Pali zinthu zambiri zofunika kuchita m'moyo, sindikufuna kukhala moyo wongopukusa zokonda zanga ndi malingaliro, ndiyambanso kuphunzira ndikupeza ntchito yosangalatsa ndikakhala othandiza, ndikufuna kupulumutsa pulaneti, ndikufuna kuthandiza ana amasiye ndi osauka omwe ndikufuna kuchita zabwino zambirimbiri ndipo moyo ukhoza kukhala wabwino. Monga Msilamu alibe mathero, moyo uno ndi mayeso, mutha kusangalala nawo mopanda malire, ngati simulemekeza malire a Mlengi wanu omwe amadziwa bwino zomwe zili zabwino ndi zoipa kwa inu, mudzakhala ndi moyo wokhala ndi mavuto etc. Ndipo imfa ndi njira chabe yochoka padziko lapansi ndikupita kwina kwabwino komanso kwamuyaya ngati munachita bwino. Mulungu ndi Wachifundo chambiri, bola ngati inu muli ndi moyo mutha kusintha ndikukhululukidwa, ndipo mwina ngakhale pambuyo pa imfa anthu ena azikhululukidwa ndipo Mulungu akudziwa bwino.

Chifukwa chake ndikulakalaka tsiku labwino, moyo ndi mphatso ya Mulungu yomwe sidzatha, osati chilango. Mulungu atitsogolere pa njira yolunjika, osataya mtima anyamata.
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