Ndakhala ndikumwalira pa akauntiyi kwa miyezi iwiri, koma ndabwerera ndipo ndili mnyamata, ndasintha zina ndi zina!
Choyambirira komanso chofunikira kwambiri, zolemba zanga zomaliza m'mbiri yanga zimakhudzana ndikudzipatula kwanga koyamba komanso momwe zidakhudzira thanzi langa lamisala. Ndinganene motsimikiza kuti mnzanga wakale ndi ine ndi abwenzi omwe amalankhula pafupipafupi komanso kuti ndilibe lingaliro mtsogolo loti ndibwererenso, mwina kukhala pachibwenzi chachikulu. Pakadali pano, ndafufuza njira zina zokumanirana ndi anthu atsopano (makamaka zokonda / zopatsa chidwi) ndipo lero, ndidakhala ndi nthawi yabwino ndi mzanga wapamtima wazaka 2+. Takhala tikukopana wina ndi mnzake pamapeto pa sabata ndipo takhala limodzi nthawi yoyamba (ndipo osakhalitsa). Sitili pachibwenzi chifukwa amakhala pachibwenzi, koma pano ndife abwenzi ndi maubwino. Inenso ndimaona kuti sindine wokonzeka kuchita chibwenzi china kwakanthawi, chifukwa chake ndikukhulupirira kuti "kusewera" ndikuwona omwe ali kunja komweko kuli kwanga.
Chidaliro changa cha thupi ndilabwino kuposa masiku onse. Ndikumvabe kuti ndili ndi dysmorphia m'masiku anga oyipa, koma ndidazindikira kuti ndikukhala wolimba komanso wolimba, zomwe ndizomwe ndimafuna nthawi yonseyi. Kugwira ntchito bwino sabata iliyonse kwakhala ndi phindu lalikulu. Ndakhalanso ndi ndevu kwa nthawi yoyamba (zomwe ndiyenera kuzimeta posachedwa haha) ndipo ndimakondadi mawonekedwe atsopano. Sindikudziwa kuti izikhala nthawi yayitali bwanji, koma ineyo ndimakonda kuposa mawonekedwe anga ometa bwino.
Kugonana kwanga kumamveka ngati kuli m'manja / "kumawumitsidwa" (ndiye kuti, kufikira nditakumana nawo lero) ndipo ndikudziwa bwino kuposa mahomoni anga komanso zoyeserera zosokoneza mzere wabwino. Kupsinjika kwanga kumawongoleredwa ndikudzidodometsa ndi nyimbo kapena ndikuganiza mozama za momwe ndikumvera m'malo motengera chiyeso chomwe ndinkakonda kale. Zolaula sizimandivutitsa kwenikweni, koma ndimamva ngati ndakulira kuti ndithandizenso kusangalala nazo. Ndidayeseranso kuyang'ana tambala ndisanakumane ndi FWB yanga ndipo sindimamva kuti ndiyokhutiritsa, chifukwa chake ndidayitseka ndikuyang'ana chisangalalo chamtsogolo.
Ogasiti anali mwezi wovuta kwambiri kwa ine mwamaonekedwe ndipo miyezi inayi yotsatirayi ndikhalanso phiri lina kuti ndikagonjetse kuyambitsa kwanga kwamakalasi a 6 ku yunivesite yatsopano. Ndiyesetsa kuti nkhani yanga isasinthidwe kuti muwone komwe zinthu zimanditengera. Cheers, fapstronauts!
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