Nkhani yachidule kwa onse omwe angafunike kudzoza kapena umboni wa zosintha! Tinapita kuphwando usiku watha, ndinalowa pamaso panga ndikuwoneka bwino ndipo nthawi yomweyo ndinayamba kukumbatira atsikana, kugwirana chanza ndi anyamata, kuyamba zokambirana, kuseka, kukhala ndi nthawi yopambana. Patatha pafupifupi mphindi 10ish ndikucheza, ndidapita kukakhala pakama kuti ndingosangalala. Ndikuganiza ndekha "bambo ndikumva bwino, mowa uyenera kuti wagunda" ndiye ndikazindikira kuti NDAKUFA. Sindingathe kumwa chifukwa ndimakhala ndikumwa mankhwala (chimfine ngati zizindikilo zidandipeza haha).
Osandilakwitsa, ndakhala wokonda kucheza komanso ochezeka, koma ndinkalola kuti FOMO yanga ipindule kwambiri. Komanso ndinkakhala mumutu mwanga ndikakumbatira atsikana (kusankha ngati ndiyenera kukumbatira, ngati kukumbatirako kunali kwabwino, zonsezo bs). Ndine 21 ndipo ndili ku koleji, mpaka usiku watha, NDINADA KUMWA osamwera kumaphwando. Sindinazikonde kwambiri zimandipangitsa kukhala wosasangalala / wokwiya pamapwando a HS masana. Komanso ndili ndi 18/19, ndimakhala wamantha kwambiri ndipo ndinalibe zambiri zoti ndinene kapena kuchita pamaphwando. Ndikakwiya kapena kunyong'onyeka msanga.
Koma tsopano, ndayamba kuzindikira kuti ndikusangalala, ndikungokakamira, ndikudzikakamiza kumwetulira kudzakuthandizani kuti muzisangalala komanso kusangalala ndi maphwando. Usiku watha zinandipangitsanso kuzindikira chinthu chofunikira, ZONSE ZIMAKHALITSA MALANGIZO. Momwe mumamvera munthawiyi ndi momwe mungachitire ndikukhalira.
Mwachitsanzo, ponditsogolera kuti ndikalowe phwandolo, ndimakhala womasuka, komanso ndikumwetulira kumaso kwanga kuti thupi langa lithandizenso. Ubongo wanu umakhulupirira chilichonse chomwe mungauze, ngakhale mutakhala ndi nkhawa kapena osalowerera, ngati mutamwetulira, ubongo wanu ndi thupi lanu zimayenderana ndikumwetulira ndipo mudzakhala osangalala. Ndinalowa mgululi, ndimalimbikitsidwa, komabe ndimasangalala kuona aliyense.
Upangiri wanga kwa aliyense kunja uko amene amaganiza za zinthu zambiri, makamaka zochitika pagulu:
1. Simuli ovuta monga momwe mumaganizira
2. SINALI "osakongola" kapena "osakopa" monga momwe mungaganizire
3. Kumbukirani, malingaliro abwino = zotsatira zabwino
4. Kukhala woyamba kudzichitira zoipa, sikungakupweteketseni mtima ngati wina akukuchitirani zoipa
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