Ndine munthu wodekha ndipo ndimakonda kukhala ndekha nthawi zambiri, zomwe palibe cholakwika ndi izi, koma pakati pa 14 ndi 22 ndinali namwali yemwe ndimakonda kuonera zolaula kangapo patsiku ndipo Nthawi zina ndimakonda kukhala kunyumba ndizichita izi m'malo mowona anthu enieni.
Ndidayambitsa NoFap kubwerera mu 2016 nditakumana ndi vidiyo pa YouTube ya munthu yemwe akukambirana zomwe akumana nazo nazo. Panthawi imeneyi ndinali namwali wazaka za 21 yemwe adangochita kupsompsana atsikana angapo, zomwe ndidachita nazo manyazi komanso manyazi.
Chaka choyamba chinali choyipa. Bwerezaninso pambuyo poti mwayambiranso. Nthawi zina ndimatha kugwiritsa ntchito bwino masiku a 30 +, nthawi zina ndimangokhala tsiku limodzi, nthawi zina sabata, zimasiyanasiyana. Chachikulu pachaka chino chinali chakuti ndimatha kuwona zabwino, zinali zenizeni ndipo adandisinthiratu ngati munthu. Inde, ndinali munthu wokhalabe chete, koma nditatha kuyenda maulendo ataliatali ndidapeza njira yabwino yoyambira kukambirana, kukhala wamphamvu komanso wolimbikitsidwa.
Pafupifupi chaka nditayamba NoFap ndidakumana ndi mtsikana waku University yemwe maso anga anali (ndipo, ndiye) mkazi wabwino kwa ine. Chifukwa cha NoFap ndidapeza chidaliro chakupanga ubale wabwino kwambiri womwe ndidakhala nawo ndi mtsikana kale. Posakhalitsa nditakumana naye ndinasiya kujomba kwathunthu chifukwa zinali zowonekeratu kuti NoFap ikugwira ntchito ndipo sindikufuna kudzipezera ndekha.
Miyezi ingapo idadutsa ndipo tinapitiliza kusunga unansi wolimba ndi kukopana pang'ono apa ndi apo. Chimodzi mwa zosintha zazikulu zomwe ndidakumana nazo kuchokera ku NoFap ndi momwe ndimayang'anirana ndi azimayi, monga anthu ochezeka m'malo mwa zinthu zogonana. Ndikulingalira munganene kuti ndidadikira kwakanthawi ndisanayambe kuyenda, koma popewa kusefa ndikupitilira Ndinayamba kudzidalira kwambiri ndipo kenako ndinayamba kulimba mtima kuti ndimuuze momwe ndikumvera, ndipo mwamwayi akumvanso chimodzimodzi.
Mwachangu mpaka lero ndipo takhala muubwenzi wopitilira chaka chimodzi tsopano. Ndataya unamwali wanga chifukwa cha mtsikana wodabwitsayu, tayenda limodzi patchuthi ndipo ndakumana ndi zonse zomwe ndimafuna nthawi zonse.
Ndipafupifupi chaka ndi theka tsopano kuyambira pomwe ndidamaliza ndipo ndatha nazo kwamuyaya. Kwa aliyense amene akukumana ndi mavuto - Cholinga cha NoFap sikuti mupeze ubale kapena kupeza wina woti agone pabedi panu, ndikuti mupeze nokha, ndikusangalala ndi moyo. Mukachita izi, mutha kuchita chilichonse.
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