Zaka 23 - Osasamala komanso olimba mtima, onani akazi mosiyana

Ndine 23M, ndakhala ndikulimbana ndi zolaula kuyambira ndili ndi zaka 18. Kumayambiriro kwa 2020 ndidazitenga mozama kwambiri, ndipo sindinachite zolaula komanso kuseweretsa maliseche kwakanthawi. Tsopano ndinganene moona kuti ndachira. Sindikuphonya ndikukhulupirira kuti ndi nkhambakamwa chabe, ndimakhumba china chenicheni tsopano ndipo sindikufuna kukhazikika pazochepa.

Zosintha zomwe ndazindikira

  • Sindikuwonanso akazi ngati zinthu. Sindinazindikire kuti ndimachita izi mpaka nditasiya kuonera zolaula kwanthawi yayitali

  • Ndimangokhalira kugonana ngati ndili ndi akazi enieni omwe ndimadziwa kuti amandifuna (makamaka kawirikawiri mwatsoka)

  • Tsopano ndikuwona anthu ambiri ngati okongola, miyezo yanga yatsika ndipo ndadziwona ndekha ndikuganiza kuti mtsikana ndi wokongola kwambiri, osati wogonana koma momwe zaka 8 ndikanaganizira kuti mtsikana ndi wokongola.

  • Sindikuda nkhawa komanso kuchita manyazi, kudalira kwambiri

  • Zolinga zambiri zimayang'aniridwa ndikuwongoleredwa kwambiri kuti muchite bwino. Chifukwa sindikukhalanso ndi zinthu zotsika mtengo (zolaula) ndikupeza kuti ndikukonzekera momwe ndingakhalire munthu wabwino kuti ndidzapeze mkazi tsiku lina.

Ngakhale zili choncho, sindimakopeka ndi kugonana tsopano. Ndikuganiza kuti zolaula zidasokoneza malingaliro anga komanso ine, makamaka chifukwa sindimadzichitira ndekha zinthu izi, ndili… ine. Sindikusamala kuti "khanda lotentha" limangolowa mchipinda, chifukwa m'malingaliro mwanga, nditani? Palibe chomwe chidzachitike, ndiye sindisamala.

Zotsatira zake tsopano ndine wosasamala, ndimakhala wosangalala komanso ndikudzidalira. Ndayamba kukhala wopusa kwambiri ndipo ndimakonda kuwona anthu akumwetuliranso. Ndimagwira ntchito yothandizira makasitomala ndipo adauzidwa ndi kasitomala kuti zikuwoneka kuti ndine wokondwa kwambiri kugwira ntchito kumeneko ndipo ndimakonda kwambiri… zinali zabwino.

Malangizo anga, ngati mukufuna, phunzirani kudana ndi zolaula. Gwirizanitsani zolaula monga kutayika, phunzirani kufuna kulumikizana kwenikweni ndikuphunzira kulakalaka ubale weniweni. Zolaula ndikuthawa, phunzirani kukhala osasangalatsa, moyo ndi wosasangalatsa.

Zolaula zimandikumbutsa za medusa komanso nthano yaphokoso. Onsewa ndi amphona omwe amakoka amuna ndi zinthu zokongola ndikuwapha mpaka kufa. Hercules amagwiritsa ntchito chishango ngati galasi, inunso muyenera kuchita chimodzimodzi, phunzirani kuwona zolaula monga momwe zilili. Ndi nkhambakamwa chabe, yolunjika kwa inu, kodi pali kamera, yolembedwa, malingaliro ake ndi abodza, akufuna chiyani kwa ine? Chidwi, ndalama, owonera, kutchuka.

Mulimonsemo, nthawi zonse gwirani pamwambamwamba.

LINK - Maganizo anga atachira

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