Sindingaganize kuti zaka zanga zakusekondale ndizowopsa koma sindimaziwonanso ngati zosangalatsa. Monga ena onse, ndinali ndi zovuta komanso zapamwamba. Chokhacho ndichakuti, otsika anali otsika kwambiri (chifukwa chake ndidazinena zisanachitike) momwe okwerawo samatha kufanana. Ndidasiya sukulu yasekondale ndikumva ngati ndikadakhala nazo zambiri.
Sindikadakhala kuti mungaganize kuti ndinu otchuka. Pazifukwa zina zosamvetseka ndipo ngakhale zinali choncho, nthawi zonse ndimawoneka kuti ndimaposa zomwe ndimawona kuti ndizolemera zanga zikafika kwa atsikana. Sindinakhalepo ndi chithunzi changa (kapena ngakhale ndimadziwa chomwe chinali), koma nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndi zovuta zochepa. Mwanjira ina, sindinadziwe momwe ndingagwiritsire ntchito bwino. Sindiimba mlandu wokalamba wanga chifukwa maluso ofunikirawa samaphunzitsidwa m'masukulu pomwe kwenikweni iwo (kudziyang'anira pazithunzi, luso laumwini, kudzidalira, kudzidalira, ndi zina zambiri) amatipanga lonse zopezeka padziko lapansi. Pitani chithunzi.
Zomwe zidandipweteka (makamaka zaka zoyambirira kusukulu yasekondale) ndimayenera kupirira ndikuphatikizidwa pakumenyedwa pa kanema ndikulembedwera muma media media, kuchititsidwa manyazi chifukwa cha mano anga owonekera (kutayika) komanso chifukwa cha zonse zomwe ndimamva ngati zoyipa komanso ngati ndinalibe aliyense woti ndilankhule naye. Anzanga (omwe ankadziwa) adazindikira momwe izi zimakhudzira ine ndipo mwachiwonekere adakhala kutali ndi komwe ndimakhala chifukwa chotsatira. Makolo anga sanadziwe zomwe zikuchitika ndipo amangowonjezera zinthu ndi mafunso monga "anzako ali kuti", ndi zina zambiri.
Komabe, pazifukwa zina zosamveka komanso m'zaka zanga zasekondale (onani pansipa), pansi pamtima ndimakhala ndikumverera ngati pamapeto ndidzakhala wopambana kwambiri wa kalasi yanga yomaliza (kupambana kutchulidwa ngati chisangalalo chachikulu kenako chuma) .)
Posazindikira momwe magwiridwe antchito amagwirira ntchito kapena kudziletsa, ndimagwiritsa ntchito udzu ndi zolaula kuti ndichotsere chithunzi cholakwika chomwe chidapangidwa chifukwa cha zomwe zidawachitikira. Monga tonse tikudziwa, izi zidangoipitsa zinthu. Maganizo anga olakwika amandikakamiza kuti ndichite zinthu zomwe sindimakonda kuchita kuti ndikwaniritse ndipo pamapeto pake zidabweretsa mavuto ndi lamulo (zikomo mulungu ndili mwana.)
Popeza ndinawonerera zolaula, chikhulupiriro chinapangidwa kuti amuna onse amafunika kuti azioneka ngati zolaula, motero mosadziwa ndinayamba kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zanga zogonana pomanga thupi loipa. Zachidziwikire, izi nthawi yomweyo zidakopa atsikana ambiri. Monga ndanenera kale, nthawi zonse ndimangokhala ngati sindingafanane ndi atsikana. Chidaliro chinali chikukula koma komanso mphamvu zakugonana (zomwe zidawonongeka pa zolaula.) Chidalirochi mwanjira inayake chidandilola kukhala paubwenzi wabwino ndi mwana wotchuka kwambiri pasukulu yonse! Chidaliro chinakulirakulirabe koma malire anga opanda chithunzi chomwe sichinathetse mavuto anapitilirabe. Monga ndanenera, ndinasiya kusekondale ndikumverera ngati ndikadapeza zambiri (mokhudzana ndi zomwe ndimalankhula komanso zosaiwalika.)
Munthawi yonseyi, ndidadalitsidwa kuti ndimatha kugwira ntchito nthawi yachilimwe kwambiri (13). Ndidakulila makolo anga sandipatsa chilichonse chabwana (sakanakwanitsa.) Bambo anga adandikakamiza kuti ndikagwire naye ntchito (zikomo amulungu.) Amayi anga kuwerenga ndalamazi zidandikhudza kwambiri ndipo ndidadzipereka kugwira ntchito ndi kupulumutsa ndalama iliyonse yomwe ndikanatha. Ndamaliza sukulu yasekondale (18) ndimasungidwe ambiri kuposa omwe anthu ambiri amakhala ndi moyo. Mphamvu zonse zogonana (ngakhale zimawonongeka tsiku ndi tsiku pa zolaula), zidali kutumizidwa kukhala ndalama (chinthu chomwe tonsefe timafunikira kukhala ndi moyo.)
Chikhulupiriro chomwe ndatchula pamwambapa chokhala membala wopambana kwambiri m'kalasi mwanga chinali kukula. Buku la "Rich Dad Poor Dad" lolembedwa ndi Robert Kiyosaki limandigwira ndili ndi zaka 19. Sindinadziwe kuti, uku kunali kusintha kwa moyo wanga. Kwazaka 2-3 zotsatira, ndidaperekanso moyo wanga kuti ndipeze ndalama zochuluka kwambiri zomwe sindingathe (nazo, nthawi imeneyo, sindinapeze cholinga chomaliza.) Atsikana omwe adabwera m'moyo wanga chifukwa cha chidaliro chowonjezeka ichi chinali atsikana omwe anyamata ambiri amapha kuti agone nawo.
Kuphatikiza pamabuku ophunzirira zamaphunziro azachuma, ndinayambanso kulowerera m'mabuku ochita kusintha ndekha (Ndizilemba zonse pansi.) Ngakhale zonsezi, ndimawonabe zolaula zomwe zimawononga mphamvu zanga zakugonana. Ngakhale zinali choncho, ndinakwanitsa kugula malo anga ogulitsa pa 22 (choncho tangolingalirani mphamvu zakusungabe ndi kutumiza mphamvuzo kuzilako lako zathupi.)
Sindikufuna kuti izi ziziwoneka ngati "ndalama zimandipangitsa kuti ndizisangalala." Kunena zowona, zidatero ndipo zikuchitikabe. Ingoganizirani kuzunzidwa mopanda kukhulupirira ndikudzimva wopanda pake kuti muchitepo kanthu ndikukwaniritsa maloto anu nokha kuti mumveke bwino chodabwitsa.
Ngakhale izi zidachitika (zachisoni komanso zopanda chiyembekezo chodzidalira komanso kumverera zamphamvu), ndimathabe zolaula. 1 mwa atsikana omwe tawatchulapo aja omwe ndidakumana nawo, ndidakhala pachibwenzi cha nthawi yayitali ndi (gwero lina lowononga mphamvu zogonana.) Chikhulupiriro china chakuya kwambiri chidayamba kupanga. "Ndimaona ngati ndikupeza zambiri kuchokera kwa ine, ndipo ndikatero, moyo wanga udzakhala chilichonse chomwe ndidzafune. ”
Tsopano ndikufika kumapeto kwa nkhaniyi. Monga mwina mwazindikira, kuti ndidakhala wolemba mabuku ndi "kudzikweza", pamapeto pake zidapangitsa kuti ndisunge umuna. Ndinkadziwa kuti ndikhale munthu amene ndimafuna kukhala, ndimayenera kutuluka muubwenzi womwe ndimakhala nawo popeza umachepetsa kuthekera kwanga… kotero ndidatero.
Kusungidwa kwa semen kunasintha moyo wanga ndikugwira ntchito. Fellas, ngati ndinu wamkulu, inu makamaka kukhala ndi mwamtheradi palibe bizinesi kuwononga mphamvu yamphamvu yamoyo (umuna) yomwe sitinaphunzitsidwe kugwiritsa ntchito. Ayi, Kusungidwa kwa umuna sikungokonza zokha zikhulupiriro zomwe zingachepetse kapena kusowa kwa luso laumunthu koma zomwe zingachite ndikungowonjezera mphamvu zamaganizidwe zomwe tiyenera kugwiritsa ntchito kuti tikonzekeretse malingaliro awa omwe ambiri omwe timavutika nawo. Mphamvu zomwe timaganiza molondola ndi (ndipo tikufunika kupambana malire a malingaliro) ndizomwe zimakhala ndi mphamvu zogonana. Mwanjira ina, tikamaphunzira kuphunzirira kulamula mphamvu zathu zogonana ndikukhalabe mkati mwathu, timatha kuganiza mofatsa.
Ine umboni wotsimikizira izi. Mphamvu zakugonana zomwe ndakhazikitsa zandilola kuganiza moyenera (china chake chomwe chimawoneka chophweka komabe chimawoneka ngati palibe.) Nditaya zoyipa zonse m'moyo wanga, ndidazunguliridwa ndi anzanga mamiliyoni kapena abwenzi omwe ali ndimalingaliro amiliyoneya komanso ngati Zotsatira zake zidakhazikika pamalingaliro amilioni, ndikukweza malo anga ochezera, kuchuluka ndalama zisanu ndi imodzi, kusungitsa komanso zomwe zitha posachedwa kutsekedwa pamalo ena, ndidakhala ndi bulu woyipa komanso zambiri ndili ndi zaka 24, nditha kunena izi ntchito. Izi sizikugwirizana ndi kudzitama kapena ndalama. Ndikuyesera kuthandiza ena kuti apindule kwambiri ndi zomwe ndikuchita chifukwa cha mphamvu yanga yakugonana chifukwa ndimadzimva kuti ndikulimba mtima komwe pamapeto pake kumatanthauzira munthu "wopambana".
Palibe chifukwa chonena tsiku lomwe ndili chifukwa ndizopanda pake. Zomwe ndakwanitsa (kuti ndinu kwathunthu kuthekera kwa) kukupatsani malingaliro. Ngakhale, zomwe mumachita ndi mphamvu ndizofunikira kwambiri kuposa kuwerengera tsiku.
Malangizo ena opewera kugonana komanso kusiya zolaula:
-Dziwani cholinga cha moyo wanu (chifukwa chiyani munabadwa) ndikugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zakugonana pazonse zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mufike kumeneko (kuwerenga mabuku, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kudzifotokozera, ndi zina zambiri) nthawi iliyonse mukakhala ndi vuto lodzipangira kapena kuwonera zolaula. Cholinga cha moyo wanu ndichinthu chomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndi cholinga cha moyo wanu. Cholinga cha moyo wanu sichingaphunzitsidwe kusukulu! Ndi chinthu chomwe mumakonda, chinthu chomwe mumakonda kwambiri, chomwe mungachite ngakhale patsiku lanu lopanda ntchito. Ndi chinthu chomwe chimakweza maso ako, kumakulitsa mawu ako, kumapangitsa kuti ukhale wotseguka mosazindikira. Ndi chinthu chomwe chimakupatsani mwayi wokhala munthu wabwino chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito.
-Pangani njira yolimbitsira thupi (mtundu wina wogwiritsa ntchito, ndi zina)
-Chulukitsani mphamvu kuchokera ku mipira yanu mpaka muubongo wanu (onani)
-Zindikirani kuti zomwe wakwanitsa (zazing'ono kapena zazikulu) inu nditero kukwaniritsa chifukwa cha momwe mphamvu zakugonana zimakhudzira zochita zanu, mphamvu, malingaliro, uzimu, mphamvu, maluso ndi kutsimikiza ndi kosangalatsa kuposa momwe masekondi atatu akusangalalira akubwera.
-Mizindikire kuti nkhawa zambiri zakumagulu zimachitika chifukwa chamanyazi mkati mwa kuzindikira komwe kumachitika chifukwa chodziseweretsa maliseche mpaka zolaula.
Poyamba ndinali wokonda kutaya chiyembekezo. Tsopano ndine munthu wodekha, wokhazikika komanso wokhutira kwambiri wokonda kuchita zatsopano zomwe ndakhazikitsa ndipo palibe poti ndimalize. Ngakhale mukufuna kukhala muubwenzi (panthawi yogonana), zili ndi inu koma mukumvetsetsa phindu lokhalabe ndi umuna wanu kuli koyenera kutero SO zambiri. Amuna enieni samagonana nawo okha.
Kutha kudziletsa pakugonana kumakuzindikiritsani maloto anu ndi zomwe mukuyembekeza. Chifukwa chomwe izi sizimaphunzitsidwa kusukulu, zatha ine.
Mabuku abwino kuwerenga:
-5am kalabu wolemba Robin Sharma
-Psycho Cybernetics yolemba a Maxwell Maltz
-Kuchotsa Mdyerekezi ndi Napolean Phiri
- Malangizo a Marcus Aurelius
-Munthu Wolemera Kwambiri ku Babeloni wolembedwa ndi George Clason
Abambo Osiyanasiyana ndi a Robert Kiyosaki
Zambiri pazambiri:
-Health Kenako Opulence (Youtube)
-Aaaaa (Youtube)
LINK - Phunzirani kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zanu zogonana
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