Oyi anyamata, nkhani yamakedzana Mwamuna, 25 anali ndi DE komanso vuto la imfa, sanafikepo panthawi ya kugonana ndisanayambe ulendo wa nofap. Tsiku lina ndinakhumudwa ndikuganiza kuti ndiyenera kusintha monga chizoloŵezi changa chinapweteka kwambiri pamaganizo anga, komanso ndikudandaula.
Ili ndi tsiku 56 losachita maliseche, lomwe ndilopamwamba kwambiri (limangopitirira kuposa apamwamba kwambiri), ndimangodula kokha kamodzi kokha m'miyezi ya 4 yapitayi. Ndikukhulupiriradi kuti ndagonjetsa chizolowezi chodzisangalatsa.
Zina mwazolinga zazikulu zomwe ndakwaniritsa kuyambira pomwe ndidayamba nofap pa 7th Meyi, 2018 (ndidasaina masiku angapo pambuyo pake):
- kuthamangitsidwa kwanga kwachedwa kuchiritsidwa, sindinayambe ndabwera nthawi yogonana ndisanafike, ndine 25 btw. DE ndichifukwa chake ndidabwera kuno. (Chinyengo ndikuti musachite maliseche ngati masiku 30 mwina kukonzanso kwa minofu yanu kungachitike munthawi imeneyi, ngati sikupita masiku 60, 90, 120, sizowopsa, zomwe mungamve poyambira)
- sindinaganizirepo kamodzi za zolaula panthawiyi, zomwe sizinali zovuta koma ndimakonda kuwonera ngati kamodzi mumwezi wabuluu.
- anali ndi maloto onyowa (izi sizingakhale cholinga koma zimamveka zodabwitsa)
- kudzidalira kwanga kumakhala kwakukulu kwambiri tsopano sindingathe kukhulupirira nthawi zina, ndimakhala ndi nkhawa pafupifupi pagulu.
- uku ndiye kukambirana kotsutsana kwambiri koma ndine umboni wosonyeza kuti nofap imagwira ntchito ndi akazi idgaf yemwe inu muli, zomwe mumachita, mukamagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zanu zogonana kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino mutha kubwera kudzathokoza izi dera posachedwa kuposa momwe mungaganizire. Ndipo ndaziwona zonse kuchokera pakumangokhalira kusewera mu kalabu, kunsonkhezera anapiye, kumangokhalira kulumikizana ndi munthu wina munthawi yochepa iyi (mutha kutaya zomwe ndidakumana nazo ngati zambiri zabodza, koma yesani kuti mudzipangire nokha kwa nthawi yayitali, ndiye kuti mudzakhala ndi zochita zina mosiyana)
Nditha kulumikiza mwachindunji kapena m'njira zosagwirizana ndi kupambana komwe ndikukumana nako m'moyo kupita ku nofap komwe kumatha kukhala kopanda chilungamo kwa munthu yemwe atha kuyamba ndikuwoneka ngati wopanda pake kwa ambiri, koma crux yake ikupitilira panjira iyi chifukwa ichi ndi cholinga chokwaniritsidwa kwambiri ndipo mukamenya zizolowezi izi ndi malo okongola kwambiri omwe mudzafikire m'malingaliro anu.
Choncho pitirizani ..
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