Ena a inu mungandidziwe, mwawerenga zolemba zanga kuno ndi uko, koma ambiri a inu simukudziwa. Nthawi zambiri ndimakhala wokopa pamsonkhanowu, ndimawerenga nkhani zina, kuyesera kuzifotokozera zanga, kuyesera kupeza malangizo othandiza, kuyesa kupeza chiyembekezo chochepa penapake. Tsopano ndili ndi zaka 25. Pafupifupi zaka ziwiri kuchokera pomwe ulendo wanga wopanda PMO unayamba (6 Marichi 2016, ndinali 23), nditha kunena kuti ndili ndi zolaula, maliseche, malo ogona, komanso pamwamba pa chilichonse- PIED.
Masiku ano ndimatha kugonana ndi makondomu awiri, popanda kukakamizika kuwonjezera mankhwala, nthawi zina kangapo patsiku. Ndinachoka pokhala opanda mantha, ndikuopa kugonana, kuopa anzanga abwenzi kuti ndikhale ndi nthawi yodabwitsa ndikukhala ndi moyo wogonana. Ndipo zinthu zikupitirizabe kukula, ndikuyembekeza zambiri zowonjezereka zomwe zingakhalepo m'zaka zotsatirazi mwinamwake. Kubwezeretsanso kachiwiri ndi rewiring ndi marathon, osati mtundu wa 100 mita, khalani oleza, kupewa ndi KUWERENGA, REWIRE, REWIRE.
Kumayambiriro koyambiranso ndimagwera pansi pambuyo pa O. Tsopano sinditero. Ndimakumanabe ndi zovuta pambuyo pa O nthawi zina. Nkhope yanga imakwiya, nthawi zina ndimamva kuyabwa (nthawi zina ndimagwiritsa ntchito madontho a diso), nthawi zina ndimagona. Zonsezi zitha kukhala bwino, koma ndikhozanso kudwala mtundu wina wa POIS, yemwe akudziwa, nthawi idzauza. Mankhwala a ED, makamaka kamagra pomwe ndi othandiza. Anandithandiza kutaya unamwali wanga komanso kuthana ndi nkhawa. Ndikhoza kugonana popanda iwo tsopano, koma nthawi zina sizolakwika kuzigwiritsa ntchito.
Kusintha kwakukulu kunakhudza moyo wanga zaka ziwiri zapitazo:
1. Ndinapeza bwenzi labwino lomwe linayima pafupi ndi ine m'mavuto onsewa.
2. Anaphunzira sukulu ya kusukulu, ndipo tsopano ndikugwira ntchito monga dokotala, ndimapeza ndalama zanga, ndimathandiza anthu, ndipo ndikukonzekera kupita ku UK kuti ndikaphunzitse maphunziro apamwamba.
3. Ndili ndi chilolezo changa choyendetsa galimoto ndikugula galimoto yatsopano ndi ndalama zanga.
4. Ndinagwira ntchito yankhondo m'dziko langa chaka chatha ngati dokotala, zomwe zinali zosangalatsa kwambiri ndipo zimandipatsa kunyada.
5. Ndinaphunzira matani atsopano ndikukhala ndi luso latsopano, ndikupanga anzanga atsopano, ndinapita ku mayiko a 5 ku Ulaya.
6. Ndinagonjetsa manyazi anga, nyamakazi yanga, inayamba kukhala ndi ubweya wambiri ndi mawu ozama kwambiri, amphongo.
Ndilemba zambiri zakomwe zandichitikira ndipo ndiyankha mafunso aliwonse omwe mungakhale nawo ndikapeza nthawi. Sindikulowetsani nthawi zambiri m'miyezi yapitayi, ndimamva ngati sindikufunikiranso.
Tithokoze mwapadera kwa anthu ambiri, omwe zolemba zawo zimathandiza komanso zimandipatsa mphamvu. Gabe Deem, The underdog, Charlie Marcotte, 40New30, dualwield, Atachira, Mwamuna Watsopano, Wobadwanso Kwinanso, anyamata ambiri ochokera ku RebootNation, anyamata ena ambiri omwe mayina awo sindikuwakumbukira, chonde ndikhululukireni, ngwazi zosadziwika zolimbana ndi mliri wa zolaula komanso maliseche. Mwina simukundidziwa, koma ndili nanu ngongole kuposa momwe mukudziwira.
Ndikutsimikiza kuti zinthu zidzakula bwino. Moyo wopanda PMO ukhoza kukhala wabwino. Ndiyesera kusintha nthawi zambiri. Achondere!
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POSITI (PAKATI PA ZAKA 2.5) - - Woyambitsanso kuyambiranso (Kutsokomera / kukondwerera, moni weniweni moyo)
Choyamba ndikhululukireni ngati zolakwitsa za chilankhulo zina zitachitika, Chingerezi si chilankhulo changa.
tldr; 23 yo, adakwanitsa koyamba pa 13 kukhala zongopeka, osakonda zolaula, m'malo mokhala zongoyerekeza, zithunzi za azithunzi kapena zithunzi za atsikana fb, adawona zolaula mozungulira 16-18 koma osazolowera (phewwww), sanayang'ane konse Nthawi 4-5 mzaka 6 zapitazi. ED kuyambira chaka chifukwa chakuchepera ndikukhulupirira, nkhawa zamagulu, mphamvu zochepa ngakhale ndimasewera, namwali (ndimakhala pachibwenzi ndipo ena amatuluka koma osapitilira pamenepo), kupindika, zolaula, maliseche, maliseche kwaulere kuyambira masiku 104, tawona kusintha , ulendo wautali.
Chifukwa chake anyamata pano tili ndi mlandu womwe mwina ungafanane kwambiri ndi nofap kuposa YBR, koma ndiwosazindikira komanso wothandiza kotero ndilemba pano. Ndinali kukonza kwambiri. Sindinkakonda kuchita zachiwerewere (ndimadutsa nthawi 5 pa sabata koma ndimakonda O kamodzi pamasiku 20 kapena mwezi). Ndinasiya ngakhale kupeza mipira ya buluu. Ndinawona ED yosatha (palibe MW, ena SE koma sabata, osakakamiza atsikana, otsika libido ndi zina, osakhazikika mukamayanjana ndi GF). Ndinali chizolowezi chowonera zithunzi patsamba la atsikana la Facebook, ambiri aiwo sindimadziwa, ndipo ndimawafotokozera. Ndinali wobisalira Facebook. Ndimayang'ana mbiri ya atsikana, atsikana omwe sindikanawayandikira. Ngakhale ndinali ndi abwenzi ambiri, pakati pawo akazi, ndinali ndimavuto azikhalidwe. Sindinkalankhula kawirikawiri ndi alendo, ndinali wamanyazi polankhula ndi aprofesa. Ndinazindikira ED isanathe miyezi 15, koma sindimadziwa chomwe chimayambitsa. Ndinapunthwa pa YBOP, YBR ndi nofap ndipo zinali choncho. Ndimaganiza kuti mwina kukokomeza kopitilira muyeso kumapangitsa kusokonezeka kwa ubongo muubongo wanga ndikutopa mbolo yanga. Ndinasiya kuzizira. Tsopano ndili ndi masiku 104. Kubwereranso posankha. Ndinasiya kubisala pama mbiri a facebook, ndimangogwiritsa ntchito pazinthu zokhazokha kapena powerenga nkhani. Ndawona kusintha koma ndili ndi njira yayitali yoti ndipite. Ndili ndi GF kwa miyezi 4, masabata 2 isanachitike YBOP.
Zowonjezera pano:
1. Mbolo siyimva kuti yafa. Ankamva kuzizira, ngati chiwalo chakufa. Ndimamva ngati ndilibe chilichonse mkati mwa kabudula wanga wamkati. Chiwalo chomwe sichinali cha thupi langa. Tsopano yalumikizananso ndi thupi langa, ndiyotalika kwambiri ngati yopanda pake, imakhala yotentha, mtundu wake ndi wabwinobwino (sindikudziwa ngati zizindikilo zonsezi ndizomveka kwa inu, koma sindingathe kuzifotokoza bwino hehe), I amatha kuwona mitsempha yambiri pa iyo, ndipo zina zimawoneka ndi nthawi. Mwinanso panali chisokonezo pakuyenda kwa magazi komwe kukukonzedwa.
2. Pambuyo pa tsiku 65 ndimayamba kumva libido kuti ibwerera. Ndidakhala ndi masiku owopsa pafupi ndi 65-104. Tsopano ndikusintha pang'ono, koma ndizovutirapo kuposa kale. Ndiwetsetsewu wokhala ndi MW ndi SE.
3. Zosintha ndizabwino kwambiri, zolimba komanso zimakhala zazitali. Sindinatengepo zovala zanga zamkati ndi GF yanga pano, koma ndikumva kusiyana kwake. SE zimachitika kawirikawiri ndipo zimakhalanso zovuta.
4. Ndikumvanso mipira ya buluu.
5. Redness nkhope ikutha.
6. Tsitsi latsopano likukula m'thupi langa, ndipo lomwe lidalipo kale likukula mwachangu.
7. Mawu ozama.
8. Kuda nkhawa kwa anthu kunachepa. Ndimakhala womasuka kwambiri ndikakhala ndi akazi. sindinayese kupeza manambala kapena zina chifukwa ndili ndi GF koma ndayamba kuyankhula ndikukopa akazi ena, ndikuyankha kwabwino.
9. MW zimachitikanso. Osati tsiku lililonse, osati amphamvu, koma abwino. Zimakhala pafupifupi mphindi za 15, nthawi zina zimachoka ndikaimirira. Zochitika pakati pausiku zimachitikanso. Ndikadzuka pakati pausiku nthawi zambiri ndimakomoka. Ndikadzuka ndi GF wanga nditha kukhala ndi vuto lofufuza chifukwa mbolo limakhala chilili!
10. Pafupipafupi ubongo.
11. Mphamvu zochulukirapo komanso zolimbikitsira.
12. Ndimakonda kwambiri moyo, ndimakhala wosangalala komanso wosangalala.
12. Maloto owoneka bwino.
13. Osabisalanso pa facebook. Zikuwoneka zotopetsa ngati gehena. Kufunafuna zambiri pamoyo weniweni.
14. Pelvic pansi imawoneka yopuma.
Ndakhala ndikulota maloto 6 kapena 7 onyowa, sindikukumbukira ndendende. Ndine wophunzira wamankhwala posachedwapa. Madokotala sakudziwa chilichonse chokhudza PIED mdziko langa. Yakwana nthawi yoti tidziwitse za zoyipa zonsezi. Ndikudziwa kuti ndili ndiulendo wawutali. Ndine wotsimikiza za izi. Ndikudalira njirayi, ndikonza moyo wanga. Kubwereranso sikotheka. Zikomo aliyense powerenga, ndemanga ndizolandiridwa bwino
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