Ndidagwera m'phompho la PMO ndili ndi zaka 16 (26 tsopano). Ndinali nditasamukira ku banja langa ndipo ndinali ndi zina zambiri zofunika kusintha pa moyo wanga komanso kusukulu. Apa ndipamene ndinazindikira PMO komanso pang'onopang'ono koma ndinayamba kuzolowera. Inakhala njira yolimbana ndi chilichonse, kuyambira ndi magawo oyipa osatha kulumikizana ndi abwenzi komanso abale. Tsopano popeza ndimayang'ana kumbuyo, ndikumvunda koipa.
Mukamayesetsa kukhala PMO, mumakhala ndi ubongo waubongo, kukhumudwa komanso nkhawa zomwe muli nazo. Mumagwiritsa ntchito PMO kuthana ndi zonsezi ndikupitilira kukulira. Sindikukhulupirira kuti zinanditengera nthawi yayitali kuti ndidziwe zonsezi. Mwina sindingakhalepo ndikadapanda gulu ili. Sindikuthokozani anyamata mokwanira kuti mutsegule maso anga!
Zosintha zina zomwe ndawona mu miyezi yapitayi ya 3:
-Ndimva ngati ndimacheza kwambiri ndi anthu amitundu yonse ndipo sindizengereza kuyankhula. Chidaliro chikuwonjezeka.
Tsopano poti ndachoka ku nkhungu ya PMO, tsopano ndayamba kuzindikira zovuta zambiri m'moyo wanga zomwe ndiyenera kuthana nazo. Zimamveka zolemetsa nthawi zina koma aliyense amayenera kupita kwina.
Ubongo wanga umagwira ntchito mwachangu tsopano ndipo ndimakhala wosankha kwambiri. Ndakhala ndikuzengereza posachedwa ndipo uku ndikusintha kwenikweni.
-Ndimamva mphamvu tsiku lonse ndikuchita zambiri. Kunena zowona, kusinkhasinkha kumathandizanso kuchita nawo.
-Chizolowezi chofuna kudziyesa akazi chikutha. Ndimamva kuti nditha kukhala ndi zolankhula zabwino ndi akazi tsopano.
-Sindikumva kukhumudwa anthu akandikana tsopano. Ndimangotenga pang'onopang'ono ndikupita patsogolo.
Ndinafuna kusunga zabwino kwambiri pamapeto. Ndinali pa bar masiku angapo apitawo ndipo panali msungwana wina atakhala pagalimalo ndi mnzake pafupi ndi ine. Mothandizidwa ndi kulimba mtima kwamadzi komanso chingwe cha NoFap, ndinapita kwa iye ndikulankhula naye kwakanthawi. Pambuyo pake adamaliza kundipatsa nambala yake kenako kunditumizira mawu omwe:
"Ndikuyamikira kuti anyamata adakali ndi mipira yolankhulira ndi atsikana mu bala."
Mawu omwewo anali olimbikitsa kwambiri chifukwa sindinakhale munthu amene amapita kwa atsikana omwe ali mgolo.
Pitirirani patsogolo, Fapstronauts. Yang'anirani malingaliro ndi moyo wanu.
Ndingakhale wokondwa kuyankha mafunso aliwonse ngati anyamata muli nawo. Cheers!
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