27m. Sindikudziwa kuti ndidapitilira masiku 10 opanda zolaula kuyambira ndili mwana, koma ndili pano!
Sindikudziwa ngati ndikadakhala woyenereradi kukhala wokhulupirira, kotero mwina izi zitha kumveketsa bwino. Sindinayeserepo zolaula zaulere. Ndinkayang'ana pafupifupi mphindi 5-10 patsiku, kamodzi patsiku. Kumayambiriro kwa Novembala, ndidazindikira kuti kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwanga kwa 2019 kudachoka nthawi imodzi patsiku mpaka kawiri patsiku. Izi sizingamveke ngati zochuluka, koma ndiwonjezero wa 100%. Sindinkakonda kwambiri chidziwitso chimenecho, kotero ndidasankha kudzipatula ndekha kamodzi pa sabata kuti ndione momwe zimamvekera. Ndinaumirirabe, ndipo pofika sabata lachitatu, zomwe ndimaganiza kale kuti sizinali zabwino, zinkawoneka kuti ndizopusa, zopanda pake komanso zopanda pake. Ndinali mwachinsinsi ndikudikirira tsiku lomwe nditha kuwonanso. Pafupifupi, ndinazizimitsa. Sindinayang'ane chiyambire.
Nazi zinthu zina zomwe ndazindikira:
1. kusiya zolaula sikuli kovuta kwambiri mpaka pano. Ndimamva kuti ndili ndi vuto lolemba izi, chifukwa ndikudziwa ndipo ndikukhulupirira kuti ambiri a inu mumakumana ndi mavuto azithunzi komanso zolaula. Ingodziwa kuti ngati simunasiyebe, ndizotheka kuti sizikhala zovuta monga momwe mukuganizira! Kwa inu omwe mukuchita mantha, tengani kudumpha. Choyipa chachikulu chomwe chiti chidzachitike ndikuti mubwerera komwe muli tsopano.
2. M'moyo wanga, ndayesera kukakamiza machitidwe ambiri ogonana omwe sindinachitepo, mwina, ndikadayamba ndekha popanda zolaula. Umu ndi njira yabwino kwambiri kwa ine kuti sinditha kuiwona.
3. Ndachoka ndikusinkhasinkha mphindi 10 patsiku mpaka 30-40, kuchokera pakuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kawiri pa sabata mpaka 2-4, komanso kuyambira kugona kwambiri mpaka nthawi zonse kupeza maola 5. Nditha kungoyerekeza kuti ndichifukwa chiyani izi, koma zikuwoneka kuti kulangidwa kwanga mbali imodzi ya moyo wanga kwadzetsa kupangidwa kwanga mwa ena. Ndi mayendedwe amtambo, yall.
4. Malingaliro anga okhudza akazi adasokonekera ndi zolaula. Nditasiya, ndinazindikira kuti ndimakumana kangati ndi munthu ndikulingalira za kugonana nawo. Izi zachepa kwambiri (ngakhale kuti palibe amene asiya zonse) mwa kusiya. Kukopa zogonana ndikwabwino komanso kwachilengedwe, koma ndimamva kuti ndikusilira mpaka pomwe kudapangitsa kuti ndisawone ngati munthu wathunthu.
5. Ndikuwona kugonana ngati kochepera. Ndabera anthu angapo omwe akhala akuchita nawo banja ndipo ndimanong'oneza bondo. Ndimatenga nawo udindowu. Kugwiritsa ntchito zolaula ndi chinthu chimodzi chomwe chinayambitsa kuganiza kwanga zakugonana ngati chinthu chomalizira kulakalaka ndikundimenya. Kugonana sikunali kwabwino pokhapokha buku, Ndipo njira yabwino yopangira buku lachiwerewere kuposa kutengera munthu wina? Chigololo tsopano ndi chinthu chomwe, pankhope pake, chimapangitsa kukhala chochepa kwambiri kwa ine kuposa momwe ndimakhalira ndikamagwiritsa ntchito zolaula. Zoyang'ana pansi ndizabwino kwambiri. Zambiri zimayikidwa muubwenzi wabwino, ndipo zochuluka zimatayika wina akabera.
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