Mutha kunena kuti anthu amasintha akamadutsa NoFap. Ndikufuna kulankhula za 'kusintha' kwanga pano. Ngati mwadzipatula chifukwa cha covid, kapena ngati simumacheza ndi anthu ena, ndiye kuti muli ngati ine. Aliyense amene akudutsa nofap munthawi yonga iyi, momwe njira zanu zokhazokha sizingathekenso, muyenera kudziwa kuchuluka kwa malo omwe PMO angatenge m'malingaliro anu. Kwa milungu ndi masabata ndakhala ndekha mwathupi. Ndipo munthawi imeneyi, ndimasinkhasinkha m'malingaliro mwanga, ndimatsutsa chilichonse chokhudza ine, komanso moyo wamba ngati munthu (monga mungazindikire ngati muwerenga zolemba zanga).
Sizinali mpaka nditawona anthu ena ndikukhala ndi zokambirana zenizeni pomwe ndidazindikira momwe ndasinthira kuyambira pomwe NoFap idayamba. Chifukwa chake kusintha kwakukulu kwa ine kwakhala maluso anga ochezera. Sindikudziwa kuchuluka komwe ndingapereke ngongole kwa NoFap, koma nditha kunena kuti ndi malo oberekera zaluso.
inu mungathe pezani njira zokumana ndi anthu. Ndipo muyenera kutero! Panokha, malingaliro anga a ine ndekha ndi ena omwe adandizungulira asintha kwambiri. Ndalimbikira kukumana ndi akazi (ndipo nditha kutero inu), ndipo ndaphunzira zambiri za iwo, ndipo inenso, ndekha. Amayi akhala zolengedwa zachilendo komanso zowopsa kwa ine moyo wanga wonse, ndipo pamapeto pake ndili kuyambira kuti mumvetse izi. Ndiyenera kutsindika, izi sizikanachitika popanda kulumikizana nawo.
Zomwe ndikulongosola sizovuta konsekonse, ndipo mavuto anu mwina sangakhale ofanana. Ndikufuna kunena izi, chifukwa NoFap ikuthandizani kumvetsetsa ndi kuthetsa mavuto omwe muli nawo omwe mwina simukuwadziwa.
Nthawi zina ndimakhala munthu wopanda nkhawa, ndipo ndimaganiza kuti kucheza pamsonkhanowu sikunathandizirepo vutoli (osati kuti ndikuimba bwaloli, ndikungolimbana ndi mavuto anga). Kufotokozera: tsopano ndichikhulupiriro changa kuti malingaliro osazindikira amasanthulabe ndikuwunika momwe zinthu ziliri, ndipo ndikukhulupiliranso kuti zomwe mukumva zachokera pamtunduwu. Malingaliro anu ozindikira nthawi zambiri sangathe kusintha momwe mumamvera, ngakhale sindikunena kuti ndizosatheka kutero! Mfundo yanga ndiyakuti, njira yothandiza kwambiri yosinthira momwe mukumvera ndikusintha chimango. Popeza chimango chimakhazikika pamalo omwe muli, muyenera kutero kuchitapo kanthu kuti mukhale ndi chidwi ndi inu nokha. PMO adzakulemetsani, simukufuna kuchitapo kanthu mtedza wanu ukakhetsedwa. Chifukwa chiyani inu? Mumapitilizabe kutulutsa mipira yanu, zachidziwikire muyenera kugona pansi ndikuchira! Koma ndani amafuna kugona pansi nthawi zonse?
Mwanjira ina, ndibwino kuti mupite pano ndikuganizira momwe zinthu zilili, koma sizichita chilichonse chokha. Zofanana ndi izi, ganizirani zamavidiyo azodzithandiza kapena mabuku. Kudziwa izi ndikwabwino bwanji ngati simukuzigwiritsa ntchito?
Awa ndi malingaliro anga, koma ngakhale izi zikugwirizana ndi inu kapena ayi, ndikhulupilira kuti muwona kuti ndizothandiza.
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