Ndidalemba kale tsiku la 16, chifukwa chake ndimaganiza kuti nditsatira pa Tsiku 25. Pakadali pano, ndadutsa masiku 25 ndisanachite zolaula kapena maliseche, zabwino kwambiri kwa munthu wonga ine. Mzere wanga wautali kwambiri izi zisanachitike zinali masiku 17! Tsiku 4 laulendo wanga wopanda PM, ndidagonana koyamba nthawi yayitali. Ndinkadziwa kuti ndinali ndi PIED pamene zinkafuna kuti mkaziyo andilimbikitse kuti ndikhale ndi erection.
Nditangomaliza kulemba nkhani yanga pa Tsiku 16, sindinakhale ndi vuto logonana ndi mkazi yemwe ndakhala naye pachibwenzi. Kuyambira Tsiku 16, ndimapita kutchuthi ndipo ndimagwira ntchito kwambiri, kotero sindinathe kumuwona mpaka usiku watha. Apanso, mkhalidwe wamtundu wa "Netflix ndi Chill" udasandulika chiwonetsero chachikondi chodzaza ndi zambiri zopanga komanso kugonana. Komabe, nthawi ino mozungulira, sindinamve chilichonse cholakwika. Pamwamba pa izi, ndinali wokonzeka kupita, mosavuta, 2-3x ochulukirapo atagonana koyamba! Pakadali pano, palibe mavuto ndi chidwi, kupeza erection kapena kukodza.
Vuto langa lokha pakadali pano ndikuti, ndikulemba izi, ndakhala wovuta kwambiri ndikulakalaka kuseweretsa maliseche (popanda zolaula). Kuchokera m'mbiri yanga, ndimakonda kuchita maliseche, ndipo kuchokera pamenepo, ndimabwerera ku zolaula. Ili ndiye vuto langa lomwe ndikukumana nalo masiku 25. Ndipo ndikukhulupirira kuti ndipamene zimandivuta (palibe chilango chofunidwa, kumene). Ndikuganiza, tsopano kuposa kale, ndi nthawi yoti ndizikhala otanganidwa kwambiri masiku anga oti ndisapite kuntchito mpaka nditadzamuonanso mtsikana amene ndili naye pachibwenzi.
Ngati mukufuna kudziwa zomwe zidandigwirira ntchito, ndizifotokoza mwachidule momwe ndingathere:
- DATE, DATE ndi DATE! Kulankhula mosasunthika kwa amayi, kupsompsona, ndi zina zambiri kwandithandiza kwambiri kuti ndithandizirenso ubongo wanga ndikuwona zomwe zili zenizeni komanso zomwe sizili. Osati izi zokha, kuyembekezera kugonana kwandipangitsa kuti ndisiye zolaula komanso maliseche chifukwa chokhala ndi nkhawa pang'ono kuti ndisachite bwino kapena kukhala ndi PIED. Ndinagwiritsa ntchito tsamba la zibwenzi pa intaneti lotchedwa OKCupid lomwe landithandiza.
- Zachidziwikire, ndipo muwerenga izi kwambiri, kupita kumalo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi, kukhala otanganidwa ndi zosangalatsa kapena ziwiri, ndipo kugwira ntchito kwandipatsa nthawi yocheperako yoti ndikhale pakompyuta kuti ndiziwona zolaula (kapena kuseweretsa maliseche)
- Ndinagula Man1Oil ku Amazon, omwe ndi mafuta omwe amayenera kuthandizanso kupezanso mphamvu pa mbolo. Ndikukayikira kuti ichi ndi chomwe chapangitsa kuti ndisakhale ndi PIED lero, koma ndidagula mafutawo ndikakhala ndi nkhawa komanso kufunitsitsa thandizo.
Ndikufuna kubwereza kuti kupatula kugonana, moyo wanga wakhala chimodzimodzi. Ndilibe mphamvu zopitilira muyeso ndipo zinthu ndizofanana ndi komwe ndimafuna. Komabe, kusakhala ndi vuto lakuwona zolaula, ndekha, kwakhala kwabwino. Ndine wokondwa ndi komwe ndili komanso kupita patsogolo komwe ndakhala ndikupanga.
Malinga ndi malingaliro anga, ndikuganiza kuti kupewa MO kunali kofunikira. Izi zili choncho chifukwa MO ndimomwe ndimathandizira kuti ndibwerere ku zolaula. M'mbuyomu ndimaganiza kuti MO zimalepheretsa kuti ndikhale ndi mwayi wothandizidwa chifukwa cha "kufa kugundika" ndikumverera kochepa, koma ndikayang'ana m'mbuyo, ndimakonda kuchita zolaula ndikugonana ndi bwenzi langa lakale GF nthawi zonse. Chomwe ndikufuna kudziwa ndichakuti nthawi zambiri zinkandivuta kutengera thupi langa ndi GF yanga, yomwe imatha kukhala yokhudzana ndi zolaula. Sindikufuna kubwerera ku MO pazifukwa zomwe zanenedwa pamwambapa. Kugonana ndizodabwitsa kwambiri pompano ndipo ndizosangalatsa kwambiri chifukwa sindine MOYO!
Kuchokera pazomwe ndawerenga, anthu ambiri pamsonkhano uno ndi NoFap amayesa kuchita izi okha. Palibe cholakwika ndi izi, ndipo ndichabwino. M'malo mosiya zolaula ndikuseweretsa maliseche, ndakhala ndikuyesera kuti ndiphunzitsenso ubongo wanga kuti ndikhale wotere kuchokera kwa munthu wina (Mwanjira ina, atsikana omwe ndimakhala nawo pachibwenzi). Munthu "weniweni": yemwe ndimatha kununkhiza, kugwira, kulankhula naye, komanso kugona naye. Kukhala ndi bwenzi kumathandiza kubwezera mawu olankhula mawu amtunduwu omwe sindimalandira. Ndipo, kukhala ndi mnzanga yemwe pamapeto pake ndimakhala womasuka ndikuchepetsa nkhawa zanga zogwirira ntchito. Monga anthu, ndikukhulupirira tinayenera kukhala anthu ochezeka, ena kuposa ena. Kukhala kwayokha kunali cholepheretsa kwa ine, ndipo zinanditengera nthawi yayitali kuti ndizindikire izi.
LINK - Tsiku 25 - Osakhalanso PIED koma amalimbikitsa kugonana kwa kugonana kwa MO
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