Lero ndili patsiku 59. Mbiri yanga ili m'mbuyomu. Chifukwa nofap? Kuti muwone zomwe mphamvu zopezera zogonazi zitha kuchita ngati sindichita zachiwerewere kapena malingaliro (extreme no pmo). Zomwe ndapeza mpaka lero:
1. Maganizo anu mosalekeza amakuwuzani kuti mubwerere koma mukapanda kutero, kudzidalira kwanu kumawonjeza zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mukhale olimba mtima kwambiri. Nthawi iliyonse mukanena kuti kulimba mtima kwanu sikukula.
2. Simukulekerera zoyipa zamtundu wina uliwonse. Mumakhala achiwawa msanga ndipo simukuwopanso zotsatira zake. Inenso ndasankha kukhala chete kuti ndisamenye nawo nkhondo nthawi zonse. Nthawi yotsiriza yomwe ndidatsala pang'ono kumenya nawo nkhondo pomwe wina wandimenya mwangozi m'basi, bus idadzaza.
3. Mumakhala olimba kwambiri. Sindingatope konse. Ngakhale nditatopa ndimatsitsimutsidwa ndikapuma msanga. Ndisanakhale mnyamata waulesi koma pano ndimapita kuntchito ndikupita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi ndikupita kunyumba kukawona ngati pali chilichonse choti ndichite ndisanapume. Masiku ano ndikuganiza zoyenera kuchita ndisanapite kuntchito, ndikuganiza zoyenda pafupi ndi mapiri a Phiri. Ndimakhala pafupi ndi phiri.
4. Dzikoli monga kugwiritsidwa ntchito pa intaneti limandidwalitsa. Ndinkakonda kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti za 5-6hrs kale mwina 1-1.5 hrs (pokhapokha ndikuwona kuti ndikofunikira).
5. Mutha kuyambitsa makambirano ndi alendo osawerengeka mosavuta.
6. Maso akuthwa. Ndikayang'ana pagalasi ndimawona maso anga ngati otakasuka, aulesi koma olimba kwambiri. Mukudziwa 'maso awa awona zoyipa zambiri m'moyo' mtundu wa vibe.
7. Sinthani pamafashoni. Ndimakonda kuvala bwino koma mosiyana. Fashoni yanga yatsopano ndi tsitsi lalifupi, masharubu, malaya, jinzi ndi nsapato. Ndisanayambe kusamala zovala. Tsopano ndimakonza kaye kenako ndikumavala.
8. Ukhondo wakhala chinthu chachikulu kwa ine. Ndimakhala woyera ndikuyeretsa m'chipinda changa ndi nyumba. Ndisanakhale waulesi kuti ndiyeretse chipinda changa, osatinso.
9. Mumakwiyitsidwa ndi atsikana enieni. Zamanyazi pa intaneti komanso atsikana zimapangitsa mutu wanga kuthawa. Izi zimachitika zokha. Atsikana amoyo weniweni amakupatsani mphamvu. Pali mawu amodzi olandilidwa ku nofap komwe mbolo ya uris ili ndi mfuti yodzaza ndipo mtsikana aliyense ndi 10.
10. Chabwino za chinthu chokopa; Anthu amakudziwani inu kwambiri ngakhale amuna. Ndikuganiza kuti chifukwa cha U ali ndi chidaliro chachikulu ndipo mumadzinyamula mosiyanasiyana (malankhulidwe amthupi, machitidwe) zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala osiyana ndi onse omwe amasangalatsa. Amayi ayamba kukopeka nanu, ndazindikira kuti izi ndi zowona kwa ine.
Mawu omaliza: Zonsezi ndi zokuchitikirani zenizeni, sindinadzitamandire. Ndinaganiza zolemba chifukwa tsamba ili ndiye maziko aulendo wanga wa nofap kotero ndimakakamizika kubweza. Tsambali lidali bwenzi langa panthawi yazovuta. Ndilibe mawu othokoza.
Kotero abale ndi alongo onse muno tiyeni tonse tizipita limodzi mpaka titapeza kuwala. Tiyeni tichotse malingaliro athu onse ndi zinthu zabodza m'miyoyo yathu chifukwa sitimafuna kudzimvera chisoni chifukwa cha nthawi zowonongekazo, kutaya mwayi komanso kukhala ndi moyo theka ngati tili pabedi.
Zikomo.
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