Ndimaganiza, Ngati ndilembadi gawo la nkhani zopambana kapena ayi! Apa nthano zidalemba zaka ziwiri, masiku 2, kusungidwa kwa umuna ndi masiku 90 ndi zinthu zambiri. Ndipo pano ndangomaliza masiku anga a 500 inenso patapita nthawi yayitali. Kenako ndimaganiza zosiya ena, nkhani yanga ndi nkhani yanga, ngakhale munthu m'modzi akamva kuti ndi wolumikizana nayo ndipo angaganize kuti, ayenera kuchita / kupitiriza kuchita Nofap pamenepo, ntchitoyi ndiyofunika.
Background:
Ndili ndi zaka 31. Pmoing wazaka 12 zapitazi. Koma, atadziwika ndi zolaula zothamanga kwambiri zaka 5/6 zapitazi (4 G jio net kukhazikitsidwa ku India).
Pakadali pano, ndikulimbana ndi ntchito yanga ndikuyesera kuti ndikonze zinthu.
Chifukwa chomwe ndidayambira izi
Ndinali wophunzira kwambiri m'masiku anga akusukulu, koma, magwiridwe anga adachepa kwambiri kuyambira kutha msinkhu wanga. Ndinali wamanyazi, wophunzirira wolowerera. Sindinadziwe zinthu zambiri zokhudzana ndi kugonana komanso zolaula ndi zina zambiri. Koma, nditangoyamba kuwonera vidiyo yakanema (CD yabedwa kuchokera kwa wachibale) zinali zonyansa kwambiri. Ndidaswa CD ija ndipo ndidaganiza kuti ndisadzayang'anenso,. Koma ndikuchedwa kuchepa ndidanena kukoma kwake ndipo ndidayamba kuwonera zochulukirapo, ndikulowetsamo komwe ndidayamba kukhala ndi mphamvu pa seva.
Ndidachita zomvetsa chisoni pamayeso anga a board. Ndidalandilidwa ku koleji wamba ndipo ndidachitanso zachisoni kumeneko.
Lero ndikutha kuzindikira kuti kulakalaka kugonana komanso kufuna kutulutsa PMO chinali chimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu. Chifukwa maphunziro amatanthauza kumangika ndipo ndikadakhala ndimavuto ndimagwiritsa ntchito kubisala mu den ndi PMO. Izi zinali ngati kuthawa kwa ine.
Pakapita nthawi kukoma kwanga kunayamba kusintha * chenjezo loyambira * zolaula zolaula zoyambirira kapena zithunzi zidayamba kukhala zolaula. Kukonda zinthu zonyansa ndi zina zambiri zakula ngati makanema apa sitepe ndi zinthu zambiri zoyipa. Nthawi zonse ndinkadziimba mlandu ndikakhala Wokonzeka Nthawi Zonse. Koma zochitikazi komanso kuchuluka kwake zimangowonjezeka. Kuyambira 1 kamodzi masabata mpaka 2/3 nthawi patsiku…
Chofunika kwambiri sindinadziwe ndipo ndinalibe mlandu pankhaniyi. Poyamba ndimaganiza kuti ndi zachilendo kwambiri ndipo tonsefe timazichita. Achinyamata ambiri amachita izi ngakhale lero osadziwa zoyipa zake.
Izi ndi zifukwa zomwe anthu ambiri akukumana ndi mavuto akulu azakugonana.
Zomwe zidandipangitsa kuchita Nofap:
Monga Mwachizolowezi monga ndi anyamata ambiri pano,
Ndinali ndi mwana wanga wamkazi ndipo ndiwotentha. Tinali ndi macheza ambiri apakanema ndipo tinagwirizana. Koma, njira zomwe ndinkakonda kusangalalira ndi makanema komanso kucheza nawo, sikunali komwe ndimawoneka ndikakhala naye pabedi.
Zinali zodabwitsa komanso zodabwitsa kwambiri kwa ine. Anagwira bwino kwambiri. Zinandidabwitsa kwambiri. Ndidagawana izi ndi abwenzi ochepa. Ndikufufuza uku ndidazindikira za Nofap komanso zolaula.
Ichi chinali chisankho chabwino kwambiri m'moyo wanga. Lero ndatsiriza masiku 30. Ndikufuna kulangiza anyamata achichepere kuti sayenera kutengeka ndi izi ndikukhulupirira.
Ndilemba pambuyo pake tsopano.
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